It's an unknown at this point.

But you can help with:
Organ donations
Advance medical directive
Durable power of attorney

All these will make your wished known.

You can buy a burial plot and determine if you want cremation. You can write your own obituary. You can pick out your funeral ahead of time.

If it bugs you, do something about what you can.

Don't even try to count the number of ways to die. All one can hope is that it's pain free. Going to bed and not waking up is preferred.

You should make a bucket list. If your so worried about dying make a list of things you want to do before it happens. You know dying happens it seems your more scared of not living than dying if that makes sense. If you can focus on living and having a great time you may focus less on dying. So start planning. Go swim with dolphins. Save money and go travel somewhere you've never been. Learn how to play an instrument. Learn to sail. Paint. Do things you've never done and never thought you could do. Skydive (although maybe save that one to last) Dying is easy but living truly living and being able to look back and say I did that and it was awesome! That's a little more challenging.

Contrary to what many Christian fundamentalists believe, the Bible actually says that when we die for now we literally "cease to exist, " meaning there's no more thoughts or plans or devices in the grave. The KJV has been ripped apart and people have added hell over the years, but if one truly searches the scriptures and studies the Bible in earnest, they will find that Sheol ALWAYS meant just "the grave." God says death is like sleep. However, the good news is He said there would be a resurrection and that we would live again without sickness, death or pain. I BELIEVE Christ is really the Son of God and was raised on the third day. He died in place of us so that he might grant us eternal life in the age to come. Ask God to give you Christ's Spirit and The Holy Spirit and you will have much more peace than before. I understand what you're going through. I always thought I would be buried alive or "not make it to heaven" when I was a fundie, but now I realize God and Christ are not some miserable failures playing a game on humanity like most professing Christians believe. He REALLY is THE SAVIOR OF THE WORLD and WILL ACTUALLY SAVE THE WORLD in the ages to come!! Go to www.tentmaker.org and www.bibletruths.com for help.

"I am a RN on a medical/ cancer floor in a hospital---there are many patients who have gotten the worst news of "no more" can be done. There are books out about ADC"S--afterdeath experiences and NDC's--near death experiences. They have helped me --help those patients who are very afraid--read some --it will change you outlook on death!"

Thank you for saying this