Yes, this an old story. I'm in love with a married man.
We were only friends. We met in college. He told me he was married. Years later we became good friends. He actually helped me to get out of a bad relationship. He made me see that the man I was dating was never going to marry me. As a told him my situation, he opened up his situation. We were in a very unhappy marriage... somehoe we got involved.. He tried to fix his marriage... but all he did, didn't work. He wants to get divorce, but since his wife never worked... He will loose a lot of his money in alimony... His wife went back to school and she wants first to finish it before getting divorce... This will take about 3 year... One part of me will wait for him anytime... other part is really afraid of waisting my time... he told me that 3 years was a lot for me and that he could understand is I said no... He is really a wonderful man... he helped me... he knows a deserve better... we are really in love... we really feel good about a relationship... finally we really feel loved... I don'y know what to do?. I think his wife can finish an associate degree and while working get the bachelor... He wants to wait 3 years... I don't want to... I want to live now... I don't want to stopmy life, for a future that is not easily sure... how can he avoid life term alimony?. that could help to make him make things happen... How to know this is not going to end like so many stories?. how to know is this is real for him?. it looks really real before my eyes... I don't want to regret it later...