Advice on how to get a girl to cut her ex out of her life?
So I met this girl, we've been hanging out everyday for a while now, she stays at my house, we feel a strong connection when we kiss and all that fun stuff blah blah blah basically we have fallen for each other.
Here's my obstacle, she is still talking to, and on top of that, hanging out occasionally with her ex boyfriend of four years. And she is torn because she wants to be with me but is scared of losing him.
Normally I would say work out what you have to and call me someday..
But I've already grown attached to her before I realized how serious it was.
This kid is a bad influence on her, sits around all day, boring person, lives off his parents, screws her over, and doesn't treat her like someone you care about should be treated. But that doesn't matter obvioiusly because she was with him for four years.
We are rudely honest with each other about all this, I told her that ill stick around for a short period if she wants to figure out if she's ready to cut him out of her life to be with me or not. I know he exists in her life, and he doesn't know I exist in her life. I know that in a million ways I am the far better candidate for her and she would rather be with me, but if she dates me, than she'll loose him forever.
Any advice on how I should go about this situation? Like what you'd do? Or what you think I should do? Thanks for your time