Hey I need help... me and my best mate are both bisexual... I like her a lot but she doesn't know... I give her signs but she doesn't click on... at least I think she doesn't... I dono... anyway, we have kissed before but that was a dare but one day we kissed all day but like giving each other pecks... I'm really confused atm and I need to know if she likes me back... we hold hands and all that but don't bestmates do that? Anyone suggest how I tell if she likes me or do you lot think we are nothing more than just bestmates?
Please help me

There's only one way to find out. Ask her.

I can't just ask her in case she doesn't... id feel like an idiot... is there any signs I should look for?

I can't just ask her in case she doesn't... id feel like an idiot... is there any signs I should look for?

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I can't just ask her in case she doesn't...

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But then you will KNOW for sure! Would you rather live in LaLa Land and be crushed later after more time has gone by and you are more in love and she dumps you?

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id feel like an idiot...

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You'll feel worse in three weeks if you don't ask and she starts kissing someone else.

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is there any signs I should look for?

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Nope. It's all up to you now to find out by asking.

She's got a boyfriend and has done for 9 months and every time I see them together I get jealous of him... I can't handle it
I can't tell her whilst she's got a boyfriend

Plus she's moved now

shes got a boyfriend n has done for 9 months and everytime i see them together i get jealous of him... i can't handle it
i can't tell her whilst shes got a boyfriend

Aha!! New information that you withheld from your first post. Shame, girl, shame!

If she has a boyfriend, you butt out. No more tease-kissing and flirting.

I can't help it... and now we are talking on Facebook whilst she's at her new home in chesterfield... and she thinks I cba talking to her anymore so I asked her if she honestly believes that and got no answer, then I said "why wud u even think that? i love talkin to you" and then she didn't answer that and changed the subject :/

i can't help it

Yes, you can.

Honestly I can't her eyes just make me melt and I give in

Unfriend her on Facebook. Go No Contact.

I can't do that... she's too important to me I need to have her in my life

i can't do that... shes too important to me i need to have her in my life

Then stop the kissy-flirty stuff. Now. Otherwise, you love yourself more than you care about her.

I don't love myself... I hate myself... I love her :/ she's just broken up with her boyfriend because he's cheated and she said "if he thinks ima run back to him he can suck my arse :D" and I said "well it wud be a sexy arse he'd be suckin :P haha" is that flirtin... she's seeing it as a joke

I don't love myself... I hate myself... I love her :/ she's just broken up with her boyfriend because he's cheated and she said "if he thinks ima run back to him he can suck my arse " and I said "well it wud be a sexy arse he'd be suckin :P haha" is that flirtin... she's seeing it as a joke

Missing information: I don't think I asked you or you told me. How old are you and this girl?

Both 17 but she's 18 in a few months n I'm 18 next year.. why?

We both 17. She's almost 18 and I'm 18 next year... I think I love her I dno... I have no idea what to do... she will never feel the same anyway... I'm fat and I'm angin

im angin

What does this mean?

This means that basically no-one would ever like me,, espesh a stunnin girl like her... she's just told me she may be moving back to where I am.. and over fb she's just said she's going bed and said she loves me muchly.. but I know she means in a sister way :/

And she keeps calling me babe and babygirl... wow I know she only loves me as a sister though :/

What's "im angin"?

I'm angin is just a made up word people use instead of using a lot of nasty words :/ I want this girl so bad but she only loves me as a sister and I hate it but I love it... I wish we were more... I also need advice on how to tell my mum I'm bisexual... maybe I should ease her into it... like get a girl and bring her home and say she's a friend but be close as in always huggin and holding hands but as mates but she will think other stuff and then she will ask questions and ill be honest with her... do you think that's a good idea?

I think you're still too young to tell your mom anything definite about your sexual preferences. And I'm a mom. Do you think I wouldn't have figured out if one of my kids was gay or bi? Moms aren't stupid.

I know moms aren't stupid... but I honestly don't think she knows... I mean ill call a girl fit in front of her and she will agree... I'm pretty confused...