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How can I talk to a church girl that I just met at Facebook?
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How can I talk to a church girl that I just met at Facebook?
Find something in common and go from there :)
Depends on age then I can help you out. How old are you?
Am 18 yrs. She is 20
OK so your around my age. You the best thing to do is find common interests. Don't contact her all the time. If she responds with very short sentences like sure, or you then she doesn't have your interest yet. If she is a very attractive person then she may be use to the typical guy hitting on her and may think your just another. You will have to gain her trust. Talk to her as if you want to be friends. Don't GO TOO FAST or you will scare her away. Just talk about random things in your interests and ask her about hers. Be positive but show her that have a sensitive side. Chicks like sensitive guys but still know what their doing. Joke with her but don't make fun of her. You could accidentally hurt her feelings. Just have fun. You have to gain her trust.
But do you think I should talk to her on Facebook a lot?
Maybe a little in the beginning but before you get too comfortable with each other you should talk in person. Have any fiends that you can easily talk to on Facebook and when you see each other in public its as if you have never met? You don't want that to happen
no.. Your right, how I can make a church girl fell in love with me?
Focus strictly on becoming friends first. This quote means everything: the moment you stop searching for love, love will find you. And its completely true. Love isn't something that can just be done while playing your cards right. Sure it helps a tun but she can only fall in love with you as easy as it is to love a pet. It just happens when she's becomes really comfortable with you you. Just have fun for now. In a while start talking about personal stuff. Give her a reason to be interested in you. But stay humble. Don't brag about yourself
Do you think that church girls like meeting guys on chats/facebook?
What kind of church is it and is she very religious? Are you very religious?
Well she goes to an pentecostal church. Well a little..
She's a little religious or you are? Or both of you
Well I don't know... but she is a church girl, I know that for sure..
You can't lump all the girls who go to church into one category. It doesn't work that way.
Get to know HER! Learn to see beyond the fact that she goes to church. If you focus just on her religion, then you'll never get anywhere.
Can you tell me tips of how to date girls? Lol
What exactly are you looking for? When you say "date" what do you mean?
The first step to any date is to talk to the person. Ask her about herself, talk to her, maybe suggest going to a movie, or for dinner.
I wouldn't recommend getting to know someone via Facebook or any other internet site. Whatever happened to face to face contact, or even contact over the phone?
Just talk to her, find out if you have common interests and go from there.
What do girls like about guys?
Seriously? If a girl is straight then what's not to like about guys? They're guys! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by alexelboss328
Confidence, morals, intelligence, caring, manners, ad nauseam.
The most important thing is to be who you are. The rest will fall in to place.
What is ad nauseam.
It basically means, going on and on and on.Quote:
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Like what, give me an example?
What do girls hate about guys?
Like what? It's basically a fancy way of saying etc.Quote:
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Have you ever been on a date before? Have you ever even talked to a girl? Do you know how to communicate verbally?
Talking isn't hard, just open your mouth and express yourself with words. For example, try "Hi, my name is _____, what's your name? I find you interesting, would you like to go to a movie one night, get to know eachother better? "
Do you understand communication? Are you willing to try it?
It depends. You're asking a very vague question. There are too many things that are possible but aren't necessarily traits that every guy on earth has. The same goes for women.Quote:
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You're also forgetting that what I may hate about guys, another woman may love. It depends on the individual.
Do you think that girls like when on the first date, kiss?
Repeatedly asking questions that either have no real answers, or show that you haven't even bothered to figure out an answer on your own.Quote:
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It's IMPOSSIBLE to lump all girls into one category, so stop expecting us to do so. The ONLY thing we know about this girl is that she goes to church, which seems to be the only thing YOU know about her.Quote:
Originally Posted by alexelboss328
Before you even THINK about asking her out on a date, you need to TALK to her. Get to know her a bit. Learn what she likes and doesn't like.
Some things to think about:
Many girls love it when someone gives them flowers. I would prefer not to be given them.
Many girls love getting chocolates. Other girls are allergic and would get seriously sick if they eat them. Some others simply don't like chocolate. Vegans don't eat chocolate because it's made with milk.
Some girls like being taken to fancy restaurants. Others feel awkward and out of place and find it impossible to relax and have fun.
Some girls enjoy a picnic in the park. Others would freak out at the mere idea of eating outside.
Do you, and every other GUY you know, like all of the same things? No? Well, then, what makes you think every GIRL likes the same things as every other girl?
I'm sure some girls do. I don't know if the girl your interested does. You'd have to ask her, not us.Quote:
Originally Posted by alexelboss328
Have you ever been on a date? Have you ever talked to a girl? It's time to try, that's the only way to figure out what she likes and doesn't like.
For just friends I would just keep the compliments casual. Good job, nice hair, you're funny, fun, awesome. Yada-yada
I will try to help from a guy perspective, a guy who isn't at all an expert at dating. But in my life I've been rejected plenty of times. So what? I just keep trying, I rather go for it and fail so I know that at least I tried.
You are still young, you are going to have plenty of fails too before you find the one. Just keep trying, don't over analyze it, just go for it.
If you would provide more details on this girl, the people here could give you more info on what to do but aparently you don't know nothing about this girl and I think this is the way to go, get to know her first. Be yourself, if she rejects you, that's OK, -1, some billions to go ;).
You compliment someone based on something special about their or their uniqueness. So get to know the person and you will know what to compliment them on.
Like I Wish said, try complimenting her on what you know about her. Is this a girl you want to compliment and make your girlfriend? Try telling her next time you see her she looks very pretty. Tell her you like the way she dresses, just not in a creepy way or anything. Tell her how much you like being around her and that she makes you smile.
Hello a:
You know what? I NEVER had trouble telling friends what I thought was cool about them. The times I started stumbling over my words or didn't know what to say was when I LIKED a girl more than just as a friend.
Now, if that's so, your compliments will take on a different tone - and they should.
excon
LOL... oK, So what should I do/bring on my first date?
Depends, how old are you?
18
Then you know what you should do? Talk to her like you always do, but throw in a sweet-yet-casual compliment in her direction such as the ones that the others suggested. Don't try too hard to flatter her, it will show, and too much flattery can get annoying and just sickening. So stick with the simple, and be yourself. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by alexelboss328
Is this the church girl you like?Quote:
Originally Posted by alexelboss328
Is this girl really just a friend or are you hoping for more?
Just be yourself, stop over thinking things. If you want to compliment her, do it.
I really don't understand why some people have to think every little thing to death. Why not just be who you are and do what you do?
If a friend of mine is looking hot, I'll tell them. Because that person is my friend, they know who I am, they know my personality and I don't have to censor myself because they're my friend.
Doesn't sound like this girl is a friend if you're worried about what to say and not say.
While I agree with you alten I have to say that he is looking for a date. It says that in a slightly later post.
If you want to date this girl then be sweet. Not too sweet, cause that can come off as creepy. And don't do a 360 turn with your personality or she'll think you got problems. Don't push all of your attention on her either cause it will annoy her. Mostly be nice and respectful but make sure you notice when she does something or wears something cute. If she knows that you are paying attention in that maner it could really score you points.
Best advice though is something Alten said...
Showing her that you are self confident is the best way to make her like you. Confidence is your best weapon in the dating game. Be yourself and tell her what you think of her by your own thoughts. Mostly be confident and cool:cool: If you are not comfortable in your own skin it WILL show:eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Altenweg
Good luck man, and have fun with it.
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