Is it true that men don't like dating women who are still virgins in their 20's?
If you're a guy: Would you break up with someone you have been going out with if you found out she is a virgin?
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Is it true that men don't like dating women who are still virgins in their 20's?
If you're a guy: Would you break up with someone you have been going out with if you found out she is a virgin?
No. Just a line to make you feel pressured into something before you are ready.
Probably not because most guyz like it when a girl is experiencedQuote:
Originally Posted by lf156
You said probably not, but then you said they like experienced women?Quote:
Originally Posted by chicanaprincess
A guy loves it when he finds a girl that is not 'experienced but most guys figure that is NOT going to happen because society has it ingrained in everybody's head that everybody is doing it. So when a guy does find a girl that hasn't it can be like finding a pearl in a haystack.
I'd still date the 27 year old if I was 28-32 year old range =]
The only guys that do are the ones who don't want a caring relationship, but plenty of sex, and those kind of guys are a waste of time.Quote:
lf156, Is it true that men don't like dating women who are still virgins in their 20's?
No!! Unless she was obviously incompatible, or was no fun at all.Quote:
If you're a guy: Would you break up with someone you have been going out with if you found out she is a virgin?
When I met the woman I love, the fact of her being a virgin or not, was not even on my radar screen.
Unless the guy is extremely religious, and finding a virgin is HIGH on his priority list, I don't think most men really worry about it much.
No, the question is if you would leave a woman you're dating because she's still a virgin in her 20s... because a lot of guys think it's weird.Quote:
Originally Posted by progunr
I thought that the fact that I didn't care one way or the other answered the question, but, since you seem to think it didn't.Quote:
Originally Posted by lf156
NO!
OK
Thing is, the guys I date get completely turned off when I tell them and they break up with me because of it
Then that means the guys are shallow about it...
I actually do care if my future partner is a virgin or not cause if she's had more than 2 guys.... not good at all
Just like a car... the first owner is decent with it.. sells it out..
the second owner is decent with it... sells it out..
third owner IS NOT decent with it... something is wrong
All that says is you haven't been very good at picking the guys.Quote:
Originally Posted by lf156
If this happens, they were not dating you with any honorable intentions in mind.
They had their eye on the prize.
When they found out that the prize has a lock on it, they move on to find an easier prize.
You need to find guys that have some values and not the type that are into 'Girls gone wild'!
The best example: male tourists who go to Las Vegas just for prostitutesQuote:
Originally Posted by progunr
For me, my ex was willingly to give her virginity to me... so that's a different story
@ OP:
it's alright... some couples (very rare) stay virgin until they find the right person and have sex until after marriage
I'm not waiting till marriage. I've just never had a very serious relationship, and I don't want to have sex outside one.
You have more values many lack follow them and don't give in to pressure.
Then you are one of the few female species who ARE ABLE TO CONTROL THEMSELVES unlike the new generation of stupid teens who have nothing else to do except spend money on fashion, screw around during educational time, and bone each other like the relationship will last forever.Quote:
Originally Posted by lf156
I'm not really under pressure as such, though I do get some stick from friends.Quote:
Originally Posted by N0help4u
But in general, guys seem to run away from me because I'm a virgin.
Then they just are not worth it be glad because you have a very simple way of weeding out who isn't worth your time.
Other girls have to learn the hard way that the guy isn't worth it!
I am a virgin in my early twenties and I am not afraid to admit!
Everyone values it differently, you must know that it's your choice and whoever looks down upon that are probably immature and doesn't value virtues/morals.
Are you waiting for religious reasons?Quote:
Originally Posted by CFZD
No exactly, in my personal belief, it is basic ethics to stay a virgin until you get married. You only lose it once to your dearest! I want to save it for Mr. Right!
I wasn't brought up as a Chriatian but I consider me spiritual/ have a strong self control and traditional.
Thanks, :)
Oh okay.:)Quote:
Originally Posted by CFZD
My situation is a little different though, as I'm not waiting for marriage.
A lot of people, including a few of my closest friends, cannot understand why I waited for so long, because they know that I'm not waiting till marriage, but because haven't had a proper relationship till now. A lot of people seem to believe that it reeks of immaturity to not have a had a serious relationship till now.
Your friends are like the new generation of teenagers. Having sex is bullsh*t.... many lose their virginity and regret it in the futureQuote:
Originally Posted by lf156
Like I said, guys get turned off when they find out; so in the end it has turned out to be something negative.Quote:
Originally Posted by hjpan
No it hasn't it stops you from dealing with the shallow guys who expect you to have sex if they are nice enough to you!! If you want that then simply don't tell them your a virgin and let them pursue you for whatever reason.
Its nobodies business, so why do you feel they should know right off the bat??
I promise you OP, there are plenty of guys find being a virgin is a good thing!
The ones that you hang out with are immature and self-centered young kids. You cna't blame on them but you can avoid them!
And you can always date virgins too!
Be happy that you're not like the generation of teens who have nothing else to do except bone each other in the butt.Quote:
Originally Posted by lf156
Id rather a girlfriend who's a virgin, than had sex with every man in the town!Quote:
Originally Posted by lf156
I've never met any virgin men around my age~:pQuote:
Originally Posted by CFZD
OP,
Where do you live, I know a few guys that are. They were my classmates and friends. We are all computer geeks, LOL. Hey, they both work hard and pretty smart.
In the UK
I met a guy recently and have been dating for a while, but am too scared to get closer because I'm worried the same thing will happen again.
I applaud you for being a virgin. Are you saving yourself for marriage, or just for the right person? Is it for religious reasons or just personal reasons? Again, I appluad you!!
Like somebody said don't even mention it until it comes up or you have his heart so much so that he doesn't want to walk away.
Thanks.Quote:
Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma
Just waiting for the right person. And its because of my personal beliefs, although my family is religious.
Are you one, too?Quote:
Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma
No, I'm not.Quote:
Originally Posted by lf156
Oh, OK. I was just wondering why you thought it was good that I am one.Quote:
Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma
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