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Would it be rude if I changed the plans?

Ok, there is this guy that I went out 3 times with. He asked me if I wanted to get Chinese tonight, and I told him yes. I am feeling kind of sick because it was Mexican day at work... and seriously Chinese on top of Mexican is asking for trouble. Lol. At any rate, I want to hang out with him. But how rude would it be if I suggested a movie instead? (it's one that he showed interest in) One friend said it would be rude, and one said it would be OK. I kind of want to go with the majority on this one. Guys and girls, let's have it... is it rude to change the plan?

Naa... that's not rude.

If anything, it will let this guy know that you're interested. You aren't feeling well and yet you still want to hang out.

A movie is a good idea - popcorn will help settle your stomach too! :)

(BTW: the ULTIMATE in movie food?? Buy a small popcorn and a bag of peanut M&Ms. Pour M&Ms into the popcorn. Ration= 2 popcorns, 1 M&M. Divinity! ;) )

I don't think it is rude. I think he will understand, no worries!! Have fun at the movies!

Definitely not rude at all. Like Historian said, it shows you still care enough to actually want to hang out

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

Naa... that's not rude.

If anything, it will let this guy know that you're interested. You aren't feeling well and yet you still want to hang out.

A movie is a good idea - popcorn will help settle your stomach too! :)

(BTW: the ULTIMATE in movie food??? Buy a small popcorn and a bag of peanut M&Ms. Pour M&Ms into the popcorn. Ration= 2 popcorns, 1 M&M. Divinity!! ;) )

Seriously, are you my long lost sister?? When I go I always get popcorn and goobers, which is like peanut M&Ms!! Lol. :)

OMG... I could totally go for twizzlers right now too.

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Originally Posted by mafiaangel180

Seriously, are you my long lost sister???? When I go I always get popcorn and goobers, which is like peanut M&Ms!!!! lol. :)

OMG....I could totally go for twizzlers right now too.

LOL! I blame it on my Gilmore addiction...

Just another nail in the coffin of "You are Lorelai Gilmore!"

Have fun tonight! ;)

MMmmmmm twizzlers... Sour Patch Kids... Goobers...

Crud... :)

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

LOL! I blame it on my Gilmore addiction....

Just another nail in the coffin of "You are Lorelai Gilmore!"

Have fun tonight! ;)

MMmmmmm twizzlers..... Sour Patch Kids..... Goobers......

Crud.... :)

GG+popcorn+M&Ms+twizzlers=a great night lol.

Add Romefalls into that mix and the night becomes one to remember... I prefer One Tree Hill though

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Add Romefalls into that mix and the night becomes one to remember...I prefer One Tree Hill though

Aww... you're a doll. I'm sure RomeFalls would make it a night to remember! You agree, Mafia? Think we should make room on the couch?

Although, you should try GG... my brother thinks the show is not half bad!

(Don't tell him I said that though... ;) )

Ok, thanks a lot guys! I just asked him. And he said it was OK. Let's hope he didn't have his heart set on Chinese... I could do it, but I doubt he wants to hold my hair back for me. LOL.

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Add Romefalls into that mix and the night becomes one to remember...I prefer One Tree Hill though

I love OTH!!

Ha ha yea, I don't tell a lot of my friends I watch One Tree Hill, or the O.C(when it was on) or those sappy drama shows ha ha

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

Aww... you're a doll. I'm sure RomeFalls would make it a night to remember! You agree, Mafia? Think we should make room on the couch?

Although, you should try GG.... my brother thinks the show is not half bad!

(Don't tell him I said that though...... ;) )

Heck yes there's room on the couch. Watch some GG, some OTH, and stuff our faces. Sounds great to me!

Or... you could have him over to your place, let him order Chinese in (you get your trusty microwave popcorn), and watch a movie on your cozy couch...

If he has his heart set on Chinese, that is... :)

Glad it worked out for you - see! Trust us. We be wise. Wise are we. :)

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

Or..... you could have him over to your place, let him order Chinese in (you get your trusty microwave popcorn), and watch a movie on your cozy couch....

If he has his heart set on Chinese, that is.... :)

Glad it worked out for you - see! Trust us. We be wise. Wise are we. :)

You guys are the best. :D

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Originally Posted by mafiaangel180

Heck yes there's room on the couch. Watch some GG, some OTH, and stuff our faces. Sounds great to me!

New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Tennessee... crud... this could pose a problem for the couch thing...

And besides, you have a hot date! :D

Rome and I will watch our dramas and stuff our faces... you enjoy your movie!

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Tennessee.... crud.... this could pose a problem for the couch thing....

And besides, you have a hot date! :D

Rome and I will watch our dramas and stuff our faces... you enjoy your movie!

Ok, is it sick that I prefer GG and OTH to dating? Dear God, what's wrong with me??

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Originally Posted by mafiaangel180

Ok, is it sick that I prefer GG and OTH to dating? Dear God, what's wrong with me?????

An honest woman. Yessss...

Darlin, now I'm convinced we were separated at birth. Wow...

Oh, and what is this about Luke asking Lindsey to marry him?? Silly girl... Lorelai asked Luke. Dean asked Lindsey... :D

(you'd think they'd make new names... )

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

An honest woman. Yessss....

Darlin, now I'm convinced we were separated at birth. Wow...

Oh, and what is this about Luke asking Lindsey to marry him??? Silly girl... Lorelai asked Luke. Dean asked Lindsey.... :D

(you'd think they'd make new names.....)

LMAO!!

Yeah, they definitely need to create some new names! What's up with that? Lol.

Honestly, I've not seen one single, solitary episode of OTH or the OC.

I'm addicted to GG and loyal I shall ever be. :)

LOL - although the comment "Welcome to the SH, b***h!" from Zach was quite funny...

Ha ha... Distance is no bother, we will know we are all watching together ha ha... And there is no shame in preferring OTH and GG to dating, They will always be around.

Reminds me that when asked what was more important by my ex... Colorado Avalanche or her... I said the Avs would be there if you left, oh how right I was

Ahh, yes, but will the Avs be there as long as the Preds, that's the question... ;)

Considering that the Preds are constantly being talked about being sold and moved, I'm going to go with yes ha ha

Rah... yeah... I remembered that as soon as I hit Post...

Ok... you got me...

1 Rome 0 HC

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

Honestly, I've not seen one single, solitary episode of OTH or the OC.

I'm addicted to GG and loyal I shall ever be. :)

I've never seen the OC neither.

I went from Dawson's Creek to GG to OTH. And I'm fond of all 3. lol.

OC was a good show, I wasn't into it until it got canceled oddly enough. But then I bought the seasons after watching a few of the episodes. I did watch Dawson's Creek as well ha ha.

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Ha ha...Distance is no bother, we will know we are all watching together ha ha...And there is no shame in preferring OTH and GG to dating, They will always be around.

Reminds me that when asked what was more important by my ex...Colorado Avalanche or her...I said the Avs would be there if you left, oh how right I was

LMAO!! You are too funny!

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Originally Posted by mafiaangel180

I've never seen the OC neither.

I went from Dawson's Creek to GG to OTH. And I'm fond of all 3. lol.

No...

Possible...

Way...

I was a Creek junkie for years...

Wow...

We are now entering "Bizarro World!!!" This is really freaky...

What year were you born?

(Creek for you too, Rome?? Wow... )

Alrighty, time to head home and get ready for the movie tonight. Tune in tomorrow to find out what happens on the next episode of Mafia's Creek... hmmm no? General Mafia?? Umm... lemme try again... As the Mafia Turns??

I give up. Lol.

Have fun, Doll! ;)

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

No.....

Possible.....

Way.....

I was a Creek junkie for years....

Wow.....

We are now entering "Bizarro World!!!" This is really freaky....

What year were you born?

(Creek for you too, Rome??? Wow....)

1978. Lol. Getting old. ;)

1979, Sweetie!!

Wow

Definitely keep us informed, you're life is as eventful as mine at times ha ha

1986 here... Wow Youngen

no its not rude.

but if you can take the smell, you can always fill his chinese fix by ordering delivery for him and work out something different for yourself. Just a thought.

don't know about him, but when I get a chinese jones, it doesn't go away until I get the fix.

by the way... you worry too much. If you have to change plans, don't be afraid to talk to the person... its not like you were planning on adopting a kid and at the last hour changed your mind... its about a little thing... life, and mex food, gets in the way sometimes...

better to just talk to the person. If they go ballistic... well, then its probably better to know their temperament. Its just chinese food.

great.

now I'm dying for thai.

sticky rice and curry chicken with spring rolls.

this is going to haunt me until tomorrow... =P

Forget the movie, popcorn, and chinese. Law and Order is on every night, on TNT, who can miss that, with steak, and potatoes?

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Originally Posted by kp2171

no its not rude.

but if you can take the smell, you can always fill his chinese fix by ordering delivery for him and work out something different for yourself. just a thought.

dont know about him, but when i get a chinese jones, it doesnt go away until i get the fix.

btw... you worry too much. if you have to change plans, dont be afraid to talk to the person... its not like you were planning on adopting a kid and at the last hour changed your mind... its about a little thing... life, and mex food, gets in the way sometimes...

better to just talk to the person. if they go ballistic... well, then its probably better to know their temperment. its just chinese food.

great.

now im dying for thai.

sticky rice and curry chicken with spring rolls.

this is going to haunt me until tomorrow... =P

Lol I didn't start worrying until my one friend told me it was kind of rude of me. I guess she thought I was being some princess asking for too much?? I don't know. I figured she was wrong, but just wanted a general opinion on the subject. Lol you are right though, I worry way too much. ;)

Seriously... curry chicken... thanks for putting that in my head!!

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Forget the movie, popcorn, and chinese. Law and Order is on every night, on TNT, who can miss that, with steak, and potatoes??

Lol my grandmother watches it religiously! I used to watch with her, but she smokes like 2 packs a day, and I can't stand the smoke so I stopped watching as much lol. But seriously... I love me some steak and potatoes!! :D

Ok, so here's the low down on last night. I made him up a box of cookies, which was probably not a good idea seeing as if he will think I'm all domesticated and stuff. Muahahahaha they were No Bake!! Lol. Anyway, there was an awkward pause at the ticket booth, so I paid because I don't like to assume anything--besides I asked him. Anyway, no biggie. We watched the Bucket List. Words can't even describe how the movie went. It was too depressing, we should have saw Jumper. Let's put it this way, there was this scene: Jack Nicholson is laying there going through cancer, shaking and whatnot. It was really quite sad. And Ed busts out laughing!! It was horrible, lol. Annnyway, after the movie, we drove around talking, which was cool. At the end of the night, I determined that he was a good boy for the most part and would graduate from a knuckle touch to a hug. ;) Lmao!!

It was a decent time, we get along, he's funny and fun to be around. He even asked me to go with him to get Chinese. KP2171--you were right, I guess his Chinese craving isn't going away until he gets it lol.

I'm just hanging out with him and having fun. With 2 other guys as well but it's really no big deal. Not in the mood for a relationship after the last one, just like going out and getting to know people. There might be a few red flags with this one, I'm not too sure. But how much do red flags matter if you aren't wanting anything and if you keep your wall up?

Hey Rome, I did what you said... I went to my work meeting this morning, though the ex was there. I got all dolled up, went in smiling... and he wound up standing right behind me. Hmmm come to think of it, I wonder if he could see down my shirt from where I was sitting. LMAO!!