I need to know if you agree. I don't know why guys always ask out the really popular girls who cake makeup on there faces and wear really short skirts. Those girls hardly ever have a nice personality they are just stuck up. Well that's my opinion, but anyway... the not so pretty girls who don't socialize much are the girls I would ask out (if I was a guy) because they usually have beautiful personalities inside and if they like a guy, they would stick with him forever.

I think that popular girls like hook ups better.
While the not so popular girls like long relationships better.
My opinion is that about 90% of guys are shallow and go for any hot girl rather than the girl that likes them more. Its so unfair, I know I'm definitely not hot. But at least I care about guy's personalities. People say I'm really kind and nice inside, but why don't guys like me? Its stupid that they don't care about the ugly girls.

Yes, agreed, some guys can be shallow. It's not right, but if they can't accept you for who you are, then they aren't worth it. It is their loss. In my opinion, 95% of hot girls are also shallow, but those shallow people belong to each other, and deserve what they get.

I'm really sorry that you feel that way, I'm 16 and what your saying is half true.

1. I don't want to date a girl if she is ugly, even if she is super smart, and fun, she would just be a friend.

2. I don't want to date a girl that is super stuck up even when she is hot as hell.

To me, popularity doesn't mean , in fact I would prefer to not date anyone that everyone watches.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by yoitzlisa

its stupid that they don't care about the ugly girls.

---

Well, let me ask you: do you care about the ugly guys?

I imagine you're young so yes--at your age, guys and girls are more interested in image than in personality. In fact, many people stay that way throughout their adulthood, resulting in many very attractive but maladjusted children.

But quite a few of us guys grow up to learn that b!tchy women just aren't worth the hassle. To me, it's like driving a Benz--yeah, it looks good, but it's in the shop half the time; so what good does it do me to have something that's always going in for a busted transmission or bent valves or liposuction?

Actually, girls should come with manufacturer's warranties... at least that way if it's a lemon I can just return her.

If this guy can't accept you for you, then he's not worth it. He is shallow and will just hurt you in the end. I don't go for the popular or good looking ones, because most of them are shallow. I found my g/f when I least expected, and we are still together

Depends on the age and maturity of the person.

Bottom line is if their dating a stuck up popular hot girl with mini skirts and shirts that say sex toy, it's for sex. Nothing more nothing less. (bit of exaggeration with the girl description but you get the picture.)

I have never gone for the popular, stuck up type. I love shy, girl next door types and plenty of other guys do to.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by huno

But quite a few of us guys grow up to learn that b!tchy women just aren't worth the hassle.

---

For sure, if she is demanding y needy etc, I'd throw her out, but looks are important..


Most girls have double standards, they want men that don't care for good looks but they go after men that look good themselves.

It may seem like they get a lot of attention, but most of the guys the gorgeous girls get are immature dogs with no hope, so don't get jealous of them for that, and as far as I can remember their relationship are no better than any one else's. Normal females are always comparing, as you are doing now.

Normally the guys that ask the popular girls out ARE popular themselves and just as stuck-up. Try not always searching for a good looking guy, and more of a guy with a great personality who likes you no matter how you look, if he just happens to be hot not stuck-up a nice guy who respects you and loves you then that's awesome. Being pretty or handsome is just a extra layer on the cake. If your blessed with it then you are. Someone will love you for who you are. Just wait for that special person.

Some guys can be like that but if you hang around them and the get to know you they understand that you are a very nice person and its not all about the looks... have you realized that when the go for the popular girls there relatinships don't last that long??

SOME guys only look skin deep. If they only want girls who dress sexual all the will think about is sex. There is a diffrence between a girl who dresses classy and one who dresses trashy. Most of the time when guys are young they can't control hormons anyway. Not true for all guys but yea some are like that and I wouldn't even worry about them.

But you know what? You can't catch a fish if you don't bait the hook. First of all guys are totally turned off by insecurity. Secondly... the stuck up girls might be trying to hard, but a guy wants to know that he is worth trying for at all.
No, its not your fault, if you are ugly, unless you are fat. Then its your fault. But either way... unless you are considerably physicly deformed... any person can look attractive. And if your spending your time being a good person, helping those in need, loving everyone you meet, you WILL catch a guys eye.
There's only one thing that people need to understand about dating...

You are only ready to date when you realize that you do not need to.

I agree.
It may seem like those popular girls get everything.
But they don't have everything.
You can't put a price on personality.
Most of them are not that intelligent anyway.

I do NOT agree. The stuck up guys go for the stuck up girls in most cases, but no, not all guys go for the plastic barbie-esque "pretty people". I am NOT one of them... my friends and I call those girls preps because prep is a personality not what you wear. I am not a prep but I've had my fair share of boyfriends. I am not skinny and do not consider myself pretty (though everyone else tells me I am) and I don't see anything extra special about ymself other then I am myself. That pisses people off but I love it. So no, I am living proof that not all guys go for those girls...

There are actually few guys out there that only like the stuck up girls--and those are either the players or the ones that are completely oblivious to the fact that they're girlfriend is a crab. For the players, the stuck up--but hot as hell--girl is a one night trophy--they'll find another one the next night. The only reason a player would like a stuck up girl is just to have her in the bed one night and have fun, then the next morning, it's like "get out of my bed" and off they go. For the latter, well, you have to feel sorry for him that he's so wrapped up in something that's not even worth his time. But fortunately, the latter soon will learn and move on. Just like the player, but a little more emotionlally. And besides, the guy that is truly worth your while, shouldn't be like that anyways--he shouldn't just like the popular, bratty type. It doesn't matter how hot he is, if he can't realize your inner beauty, and only likes girls for looks or popularity, the heck with him!

Generalities are misleading and don't follow the popular line sometimes, but it's a big world, and there is someone for every one. Barbie at 18 may have changed a lot by the time she is 38.

Okay well umm I don't agree with you all the way, only in some parts but why would you be intrested in a hot guy that doesn't care.. or you rather have a no so good looking guy treat you well well I say it goes both ways

Most of the time those popular, pretty, "stuck-up" girls are CONFIDENT. Confidence is key; guys are attracted to it.

Absolutely. And not all pretty girls are stuck up either

That's only in high school... once you grow up you'll find a man who's not shallow.
Its true that you won't catch a guys eye if your insecure, shy and don't give a sh!t about your appearance, I was just that in school but I didn't want to date in school that much anyway.
I made myself up if I went out but that was it.
At least try to look presentable if you want to snag a guy.
Don't complain because your ugly, people are only ugly if they want to be.
And don't forget to be confident, guys love girls who have pride in themsleves
Its sexy

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by huno

Well, let me ask you: do you care about the ugly guys?

---

I care about "ugly" guys because you'll find that they are not ugly they are pretty hott if their personality is wonderful and most of the "ugly" guys personalitys are are off the charts.



But to answer your question I do find that guys go for stuck up supermodel looking girls

Beauty is only skin deep. The inner person is what is going to matter for the long haul.

Funny... nowadays there are lot of stuck ups who are not so pretty... I've to disagree with u... I knew this girl... she doesn't wear a lot of make up... she actually looks like a geek... but she has the worst personality... she used the " i understand where you'r.e coming from" technique and had the guy who got his girlfriend pregnant dumped that poor girl for her... she used her inferiority complex to gain pity

So if a guy likes those girls, it could mostly be for the wrong reasons. He just wants her for her body or her money or whatever! He is not worth going for and I definitely agree they're stuck-up, there a lot of those at my school-more then you know and I go to a public high school... anywho, if there is a guy that likes a girl for her personality go them! Whoo-hoo! If they like a girl for her looks, forget him. And maybe it's because also it's from peer pressure and they want to look cool and all that but there's this guy who doesn't like a girl-like the ones you mention because she can use him for his money, so not all guys are definitely like that. You'll find a guy who is definitely worth it and not shallow. Just wait and see!

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by yoitzlisa

i need to know if you agree. i don't know why guys always ask out the really popular girls who cake makeup on there faces and wear really short skirts. those girls hardly ever have a nice personality they are just stuck up. well that's my opinion, but anyway... the not so pretty girls who don't socialize much are the girls i would ask out (if i was a guy) because they usually have beautiful personalities inside and if they like a guy, they would stick with him forever.

i think that popular girls like hook ups better.
while the not so popular girls like long relationships better.
my opinion is that about 90% of guys are shallow and go for any hot girl rather than the girl that likes them more. its so unfair, i know I'm definitely not hot. but at least i care about guy's personalities. people say I'm really kind and nice inside, but why don't guys like me? its stupid that they don't care about the ugly girls.

---

I Agree!! Heck Yes!! Many of my Friends were used to get the popular girl back. One of my friends was and still is popular. So, I'm just the person everyone knows, yet no one knows. If confused, ask me questions under title, "What about us?"TY.

Real Talk Ima A Dude And I Hate Stuck Up es And Stuck Up Rich People Peroid lol.. I Don't Care If You Got Cash Or If You Popular You Still The Same Person To Me As Ery One Else In The World.. And If Most People Talken About Popular Ma as You Just As Popular As Them... All I Got to Say Is If A Dude Goes For A Popular chick They Going to Break Up In A Week And Come Crawlen To You.. Say No!!

Add Me On My Space I Writ A Song About Stuck Up Peeps.. You Can Add It To Ya My Space MySpace.com - Bangen Dem 15's To Ma Own Music!!! - 18 - Male - INDIANAPOLIS, US - www.myspace.com/travizzle_1_2

It may be that way in high school, but as people grow older they'll mature and look at personalities. People looking for a fling look at the superficial qualities in a person. Someone looking for a relationship and a long-term partner want someone they're compatible with and who they enjoy being around, so they look at personalities. As people get older and mature, they look less at flings and at long-term relationships. This may be the case now, but don't worry. You'll find someone who likes you for you... guaranteed.

Well if you want my advice, those guys who drowl over those walking barbie dolls, then there really not worth your time, but hey guys like that are just airheaded losers and you should just forget about them and move on, believe me there are way nicer, cuter, and smarter guys out there.

When you are young you usually prefer a girl that is good looking. (on a general average *shrug*)

Personally (Male 17) I like a girl who can clean up nice (ie: make-up, clothes) but while I like that I want them to be fairly intelligent and a nice personality who isn't an absolute ! That has happened to me. I dated the hottest girl in school but she tried to F*** me over so I dipped, She was a real and it turned out it only took a situation like that to make the "shy girl next door" girl to take over and ask me out And while she was not the prettiest she was diffidently the most beautiful one.
But going back to your you like their personallity do they know that? Guys want a girl they can actually comunitcate with lol you don't show them your in then they pass on its young life live it up while you can right?