What goes through a mans mind when they love someone
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What goes through a mans mind when they love someone
I would imagine it would be pretty much what goes through a woman's mind when they love someone...
If the guy really loves you truly then it is hard, cause emotion comes into play, may get gittery around you, can't speak good, well depends on what the guy is like? Aggressive, romantic, shy, etc etc? Let me tell you as a hopeless romantic it is very different. You have to truly understand what type of guy he is.
It doesn't matter what is in his mind, what matters is what is in his heart. If there is love in it, you will know it for sure. You understand?
If he loved you, he would swing through a jungle full of tigers just to bring you a glass of water! Good luck...
Oh geeze Ddog22, aren't you sweet... Would you do that for your woman?
Yeah, and hey I like the double duece!
She asked what a man would do.Quote:
Originally Posted by ddog22
A man would bring a 12-gauge and shoot through a jungle full of tigers just to bring you a beer. :cool:
Huno, can't argue w/ that! You go first. Got your back.
When a man loves someone, all that's on his mind is that person. Rarely every hour or so he gets sidetracked for like 10 minutes. Now that's young love.
Wouldn't we all like to know??
Yes, we would.
When a man is in love, he is always thinking on her, trying to do everything to be with her and for her! Trust me, I know this from experience ;)
By the way, what goes through women's mind when they are in love?
All right, this is also for Jesushelper...Quote:
Originally Posted by TheMaster170
I can't answer for all women but...
Here you go...
Are we good enough, or still good enough? Are we still as beautiful as we were the first time you laid eyes on us? That woman with a nice rack, do you find her attractive? Is her rack better than mine? Do you still want to be with me forever? Will you always be here for me and never let me down? Is my butt getting too big? Does he still find me attractive? Am I still good in bed? Are there any other women that he's attracted to? She's got a nice body, is mine that nice? Will he notice her?! He looked! Is he imagining her naked?? Does he really like my hair? He says he does... He doesn't touch me or look at me like he use to, has he lost interest? He never wants to cuddle anymore, is he getting tired of me? He's watching porn/online porn, does that mean I don't do it for him anymore? I'm not good enough? I found him on an online dating site, does that mean he's trying to find something else? Why would he be on there?? He's with me!
Is it called psychoanalyzing? :D
If not, that's a good word for it!
Loool. That's a very detailed answer :D Thanks!
But I still find you (women) very hard to understand... I just have to look at my (almost) girlfriend to prove my point ;)
Hey... no-one's mentioned men loving other men here! Or loving your parents / siblings! Shocking!Quote:
Originally Posted by When a maaaaaaaaaaaan loves a womaaaaaaaaaaan
I love my Moomin with all my heart and I'd do anything for her - including telling her to QUIT SMOKING every half hour or so! He he he!
I also love my mates, and I'd always help them out to the best of my abilities!
What goes through my mind?
How lucky I am to have such amazing people in my life that feel the same about me, they make me what I am!
J
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Originally Posted by TheMaster170
You'll never fully understand us. Were hard wired completely different from you. But if you men want to make an honest effort to try, open up your eyes, heart and mind just a little bit more. Try to relate with our emotions. Take our emotional times with a grain of salt because we'll always wonder, and we'll always worry, no matter how happy we look or how happy things seem. It's only because we love our man with all our might and we can't imagine life without him. If I didn't care about him or Us so much then I wouldn't let things bother me.
We'll be OK. Just make sure you show us love and respect, always make us feel it, remind us that there's no one on this earth that could ever do for you what we do.. that no one could ever compare.
:)Quote:
Originally Posted by self_lnflicted_hell
You guys are opening my mind to so many other things... Great answers. ALL of you.
You have just took the words out of my mouth! I am learning so much... and I am going to try to use everything I've been learning to make my girl the happiest woman in the world.
For her, I would buy the world, the sky, the stars, but that's impossible, so the best I can do is make her happy. When she's happy, I'm happier :)
One more thing before this post is forgotten...
I always feel that if everyone just gave 110% in a relationship, everything would be fine.
I live for him, he lives for me... We're both happy.
Just along the way, things are forgotten, people are taken for granted & feelings are hurt... Someone can't take it anymore and leaves then the other person's left feeling like "What went wrong?" They didn't realize what they had until it was gone. I always remind my boyfriend what a great guy he is and how happy I am to have him in my life. It's not always reciprocated, but I know that I'm doing my share and maybe, eventually, it'll rub off on him and I'll feel it back just as much... One can only hope.
I don't want to sound like Dr.Laura but us women do have a lot of control on what goes on. Not the bad kind of control but the good. And remember if we only take that first step to be kind (it might take more than once) it just might be what we need to keep the relationship good!
Different things go through a man's mind depending on the stage of love he is in:
When he first falls in love, he thinks of you all the time, and he thinks about sex.
After he's been in love for a few months, he still thinks of you half the day, spends the other half of the day thinking about sports.
After he's been married to you for twenty years or so, he mostly thinks about sports, and how good of a mom you are.
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Originally Posted by self_lnflicted_hell
Hey, I never noticed it until now... Why did I get a disagree on this? LOL Thanks, now I have one red square among the green :p
Well that would be because we don't know what was in Jesushelpers mind when he gave it to you!! LOL You will have your greenie comeback!
Well, seeins how I'm a nice, forgiving person, I'll let it slide this one time ;)
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