He's not a mutual friend. He was blocked from her page, along with 5 other guys, but on this fake page there are all 7 of us on it??

Wow.

Sounds like a big mess guy.

I'm going to be blunt but this is how I see it:

You and this girl are playing these silly little games of "I'm gonna get you". Your both become spiteful with each other yet, she still wants you in her life- why I don't know- chicks can get psycho about their exes.

I really think that you should lay off Facebook for a while. Before FB what would you do? Go outside right? So do that... hang out with your buddies, you won't die if your off social networking sites for a while.

I don't think this whole lawyer/cop thing is necessary, in my opinion this is all empty threats. But well you have a lawyer now-- so just leave it at what you have, don't go "searching" for more or instigating things.

This breakup should have been cut dry. Try and make it that way.


Just a thought...

Sarah

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Originally Posted by colonel7

Hey ok I blocked her. But today on facebook I got a request from a beautiful girl, which I think it might be fake an my ex, there are some signs pointing in that direction, when I read her facebook there was a guy on there that had sent her a message saying he knew she ( my ex) was a lier, an called her some names. He was first I was second. An I seen that another friend of mine who had dated her along time ago is on there. Well I emailed a few people about this an told them my hunch. There are also alot of people that she used to work with. I just don't want any trouble, it seems (if it's her, an I have no proof it is) that she is looking to find out what i'm doing. What do I do, I blocked her from seeing my page so I think it's her

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If you suspect that she has created a fake account, don't accept and block that user as well. And if more unknown people add you as friend; ignore it! When you block someone they can't see your posts on other peoples pages, she can't search for you in the search engine and she can def not see your profile page! This might be the reason that she created a fake account (if she created the account.).

She does sound like the stalker type, so like Black VY said; you should be careful! It really is a good idea to hang on to the detectives number.

The best thing for you to do, might to simply just ignore everything that comes from her for the time being, that way you are not plaiying this silly, silly game with her! Right now, she has nothing on you. Just like the cops said. So it might be better for you in the long run to keep it like that, so take Liz's advice to heart. Don't warn others against her, even if you're doing this for the right reasons.

Ok I just deleted my Facebook account. It sucks because a lot of my friends are from out west, an that's how we communicate, but I emailed them an explained my situation. I have a feeling I'm going to hear from this girl very shortly. Ughh

Good for you! But I don't think deleting your account was the best solution.

Well I reinstated my account. I deleted the phoney account. Now I just wait an hope there's no more bs. I'm so more active going out with my friends, an for the first time forever I'm going to go to a Sunday church, just to try it out. In no means am I religious person. But it's something new to try. My life is way to short, I have the mind set to try an be adventures as I can now. I'm going to do one thing a day that I've never done before. I've made a list. It's long but I plan to check one off everyday. An when I'm done with the list I'm going to start a new one!

You've made me scared to ever date again. Run forrest!! Run!!

Haha u made me laugh first time In a couple weeks. Don't be. This phsyco is near buffalo NY. I hope not near you ;)

I really don't see what the big deal is if you seen her Facebook and asking her a question about this guy as long as you were not yelling at her and just talking. I think she (A) is hiding something or (B) is just over reacting

Hey Colonel how is everything going?

Great liz, how are you? I've been kind of just hanging out, no dating yet, taking awhile off! Currently in las vegas for a bunch of poker tourneys. Anything new with you? Btw haven't seen or tried to contact my ex