You know what you need to do... so do it. DO NOT contact her. She can call you if she wants. Carry on and do not make a monumental mistake here. It ain't worth it.

Thanks guys... I'm actually with my cousin and is holding onto my cellphone and keeping an eye on me from unblocking her email.

I also deleted the text message right away. I don't want to fall into the trap.

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Thanks guys... I'm actually with my cousin and is holding onto my cellphone and keeping an eye on me from unblocking her email.

I also deleted the text message right away. I don't want to fall into the trap.

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Can I ask you why you just blocked her and didn't delete her?! =P DELETE HER BRO and you won't ever be tempted to unblock her!! And is your cousin always going to be there to hold onto your cell, you won't ever use your cell anymore because of her? O_O

I think I got it under control now.

I blocked and deleted her from IM, email and Facebook. But I memorized her email, so I can add it back anytime. But it's cool now, my friend knocked some sense into me last night.

Thanks None, like you said, this is my chance to really get over her.

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I think I got it under control now.

I blocked and deleted her from IM, email and Facebook. But I memorized her email, so I can add it back anytime. But it's cool now, my friend knocked some sense into me last night.

Thanks None, like you said, this is my chance to really get over her.

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Good move deleting her I wish. I know how hard it is.

Don't worry about getting over her. You're taking the right measures to forget about this whole mess.

Update:

I've been done with my recovery for a few weeks now. All my feelings for this person are gone. So I wanted to mention that NO CONTACT in my case was a true SUCCESS. Hopefully my story will give others encouragement. Here are a few things that I learnt:

1) The advice that we receive in this forum can be very helpful. Allows us to view things in another perspective.

2) No contact actually does work. Once our feelings for that person are drained out of our system, we feel extremely refreshed and like a new person.

3) Reconciliation is always in our minds at the beginning of no contact, but at the end of no contact, reconciliation is long forgotten and not even considered anymore.

4) For those who want to become friends again. Take it from me, I don't even want to attempt a friendship. It is a waste of time and there 6 billion other people in this world. No point putting myself through all that drama again.

5) Finally, this is a bittersweet one though, but at the end of no contact, we get a better idea of who your true friends are. The ones who were willing to stand by us, as oppose to the ones who turn away.

Thanks again for all your helpful suggestions!

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Thanks again for all your helpful suggestions!

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A success story, I love it, thank you for being a good listener, and giving some very good advice yourself.

I'm really glad that all the advice given to you I wish was Helpful and that your story is a success :)

Good for you ;)