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  • Jan 6, 2009, 01:53 PM
    hardrockfanatic

    Actually as someone who has made some mistakes in his life, I commend anyone who decides to wait until marriage regardless of the age. In my eyes, that is a real positive for you and I appreciate the fact you respect yourself.
  • Jan 6, 2009, 02:03 PM
    chrissymarie

    Yes I think it's weird that in 27 years of life you have not been sexually stimulated and confident enough to lose your virginity. I'm a girl and I wouldn't date a 27 year old virgin and I wouldn't expect a man to want to date me as a 27 year old virgin.

    Being that old and still being a virgin to me sounds like a flaw in you ability to express you sexuality.
  • Sep 16, 2009, 05:15 PM
    FlyingToaster
    I don't know what would be wrong with being a virgin.. In fact, I think that makes a woman extra special because that means she wants to wait for the right person.

    And hey, I'm a 29 year old guy and I'm a virgin.. I don't know why it should be a problem.
  • Sep 18, 2009, 01:33 PM
    rivermeetsanend

    I think sex is something everyone is ready for at different times in their lives. I'm not a virgin, but I was until 21... up until that point I just wasn't ready. When the time is right, you'll be ready to make that decision. I'm not a guy, so I don't know what they think about it. But I didn't tell the guy I was dating that I was virgin when I lost it. Overall, I was happy w/my decision to do that. No regrets... I didn't want to make a big deal out of it, and just wanted to get it over with. I don't think there is anything wrong with being a virgin, but I can understand why some people might think it is strange.
  • Sep 18, 2009, 01:50 PM
    FlyingToaster
    I'm not sure I can see why some people would think it is strange to be a virgin past a certain age. Some people are just waiting for the right person; other people may be a little shy; and for other people, it's just not a priority. In a way, I think having had sex or not is similar to having a nice big house with a pool out back - That's important to some people, and it's not so important to other people. Besides, there's much more to life than having sex. I don't see why there should be a stigma about being a virgin.
  • Oct 27, 2009, 12:06 AM
    2ndTime

    You should be proud. Nowadays, woman who remain a virgin over 27 is considered a precious commodity.

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