What's awful is that since we have the same circle of friends I keep running into him again and again.

I can only tell you what I would do.

Go to a lingerie store. Buy a padded push-up. Then go buy a low cut top. Complete the outfit with a nice necklace that draws attention to your assets.

Put your hair up in a sexy 'do', get some makeup on and your best jeans, and work it baby!!

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what's awful is that since we have the same circle of friends I keep running into him again and again.

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I'd work on slowly getting a new group of friends, personally.

You'll never get over him and move on and restore your self-confidence if you don't get away from this guy.

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I can only tell you what I would do.

Go to a lingerie store. Buy a padded push-up. Then go buy a low cut top. Complete the outfit with a nice necklace that draws attention to your assets.

Put your hair up in a sexy 'do', get some makeup on and your best jeans, and work it baby!!!

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Will do this thanks.
Really need to work on myself confidence.

Go do the things that you like to do. Take a class, or start a new hobby, do something that you've always wanted to do. You will meet someone nice that shares your interests.

I wish you the best of luck.

Well try wight lift and they will get bigger trust me

Hi guys,
I dated another guy, who I really liked a lot, but I broke up with him yesterday because I wasn't ready to be dumped again because my breasts sag. He wanted to have sex but I just couldn't let him know,
I'm just feeling low right now.

You have said you wouldn't feel comfortable getting surgery, and therein lies your answer... I know that it is an issue for us who have lost weight that even though you now have a great figure, you will have stretchmarks/sagging mammaries etc, but that issue should not be compounded by your boyfriend harassing you to get surgery...
Don't even consider making surgical changes to your body for someone else... it's your body... the only thing in the world that is yours and yours alone...
Now, if you want to for yourself, that's another issue... but if you do, then my advice would be to get rid of said boyfriend first... harsh advice I know...

Best of luck...

That is stupid I would lift weights instead of getting implants and if u watched DR.Phil u would know that!

I have tried weights for a year and nothing changed.

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I have tried weights for a year and nothing changed.

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Very true. Look at women body builders... they have small breasts. Breasts are not made of muscle, but rather fatty tissue.

Sigh.
I really feel low because I really liked the new guy I was with but I didn't have much of a choice as I couldn't have faced rejection.

Hun, rejection is a normal part of life. It's how we become stronger people. Men like different things. Not every man loves breasts. Heck, I don't have any. I had a mastectomy, I have scars. My husband loves me just the same because he prefers butts over breasts. LOL

We are actually on a break, but I don't know what to do.

Find someone who's not so superficial. Your man should love you for who you are, not what you put in your over the shoulder boulder holster!

I'm talking about this new guy I'm dating. We're on a break because I told him I wasn't over some of the things my ex said to me. I didn't tell him about the sagging though.

Well, you need some time to recover from the last idiot. Take some time for you just to have fun before you get serious again.