What are the steps to have a relationship?

First, find a girl who is friendly to you, and get to know each other, by talking, and interacting, to see if you like each other enough, to spend time together, doing fun stuff.

Its usually pretty natural, and there are no fast hard rules to follow, other than be yourself, and be honest. After that you both flow together naturally, and both participate in the having fun part.

You are inexperienced, and the best way to learn about the ways of any female is through friendship without the romance.

Every female is different, so paying attention is what's needed, and not try to treat them all the same but see the individual.

Overcome your fear, and just talk to them, and be friendly is generally a good start. When they show little or no interest in you, don't try to force them to like you, have the common sense to leave them alone and get someone that is friendly to you.

Now friends doesn't always lead to romance, love, sex, or marriage, but over time those things will happen if you don't get so carried away by those butterflies, or intense feelings, and do something stupid, like fall in love with a stranger you don't know. Seldom is that kind of one way personal attraction, anything close to love, but just our own human feelings of attraction. Its VERY intense, but that's all it is, and means nothing, if she doesn't feel the same. That's why you don't force it.

You can't lose your head over this as there are many options and opportunities you will see if you stay in control of your feelings, thoughts and actions. There is much fun to be had just having friends and activities as you become comfortable with the opposite sex, and learn by experience.

Do it the right way, but when you make a mistake, or things don't work the way you want them too, simply back up, rethink, and regroup, and try it again, even if its with someone else.

Questions??