Had to spread the rep Alty, but thank you. My eyes hurt reading the OP's post.

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Originally Posted by Jake2008

Had to spread the rep Alty, but thank you. My eyes hurt reading the OP's post.

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Imagine how I felt deciphering it. ;)

[QUOTE=loverboy_RON;1985361]m a guy and from what I believe I think u should 4give him.. da first question is did u trust him before u found out about his porn site affiliations? If yes den u know that he loves u n it's a part of his fun life to see how many women would love 2 go out with him.. I also m a member of these sites n well my girlfriend doesn't mind cos she knows that id neva cheat on her or betray her... we like to test our temptations... if he didn't go out with anyone of them den u should be happy cos he didn't cheat on u.. he just didn't tell u cos he didn't want 2 hurt your feelings or create a gap in your relationship... [/[/COLOR.so 4give him.. life is too short n things like this shudnt be a reason to cause a breakup]QUOTE]


First of all, you made yourself look like an uneducated child with this post.
Second, This post is obnoxiously ignorant.

Let's go to the part I put in red, shall we?
If he knew it would have hurt her feelings then he shouldn't have been doing it in the first place! this is NOT, I repeat NOT a good excuse.

And WHY in GOD'S name would he need to test his temptations "for fun" when he has a girlfriend. If he is testing his temptations with other girls when he has a girlfriend, he might as well be playing with matches with his hands soaked in gasolene! He's going to screw up one of those times and REALLY get burned.

Don't even bother responding to this, there is nothing that you can say to me to try and prove this false. You arguments are just rationalizations and excuses, if he looks bad, then you look bad too. Why wouldn't you defend him? BAH!

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Originally Posted by paxe

Watching porn is actually pretty normal for most men and also going on date site might be part of his porn habit, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you or he doesn't have pleasure with you. I think you are a bit too uptight about this situation. If he really cheated on you, then this would be another story.

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Actually good guys don't watch porn. I know mine is disgusted by it. Learn to respect and love the woman you are with. Porn puts unrealistic demands into people's minds. It's just gross.

How many times are you going to fool yourself into thinking that he is not cheating on you because he is cheating on you in his mind. They are both same thing. Go find someone else.

If you forgive him now you will forget him again and he will have no respect because he will know that no matter what he does you will always forgive him. No don't forgive him!