Call her dad, let him know what she and you decided and you don't want her to be "out in the cold", but you've broken up and it would be best for her if she could stay with someone else while she's looking. Ask him to call her.

Then, tell her you've talked to her dad (even if he hasn't called) and you'll be helping her get her things over to his house (with the dog). Be pleasant. No arguing.

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Originally Posted by omega_red_08

Well, I layed all my cards out to her last night. She said we were never meant for each other and she sees that now. She wants to move out but has no where to go.

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Just a word of advice from someone who had a user for a boyfriend. She will guilt trip you all the way home and then she will "accidentally" leave some of her stuff at your house just for an excuse to come back. Then she will want to "talk". Get rid of her, change your number and don't answer the door when she comes knocking.

I hope you find someone that respects you and loves you even if you lose all your money. (Hint: doggies love you and are 100% loyal and all you have to do is keep them alive!! :D) Good luck!

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Just a word of advice from someone who had a user for a boyfriend. She will guilt trip you all the way home and then she will "accidentally" leave some of her stuff at your house just for an excuse to come back. Then she will want to "talk". Get rid of her, change your number and don't answer the door when she comes knocking.

I hope you find someone that respects you and loves you even if you lose all your money. (Hint: doggies love you and are 100% loyal and all you have to do is keep them alive!!! :D) Good luck!!

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She tried giving me the guilt trip but it doesn't work anymore. I know her tricks. When we got home yesterday we actually compromised. We both decided to let the dog stay outside on a runner line.

Make sure she shovels the poop!!

Umm I hope things work out well for you... Enjoy having a lot more extra cash.

Wonder what will happen on the first rains.

Ummmm, if you call that a compromise (her getting her way) then you are doomed my friend. She must be EXTREMELY amazing in bed.

Good luck!!

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Ummmm, if you call that a compromise (her getting her way) then you are doomed my friend. She must be EXTREMELY amazing in bed.

Good luck!!!!!!!!!

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I respect but don't agree with that. I stood my ground about not letting the dog in the house. The dog is not in the house.

Your still breaking up yes?

I'm assuming the break up is on hold... What happened to "we talked and she realised that we were never made for each other"? Or was it "we were never made for each other if I don't get to keep the dog, but we are in fact soul mates if I get what I want"?

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So far this month, she has wanted a trampoline, a black cat (for Halloween), clothes, a table so she can do artwork, and a vacation to Washington DC. I don't mind buying some stuff for her but I can't buy everything.

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I give up. I guess you can put the dog under the trampoline, away from the black cat and art table. And she can wear her new clothes on the trip to DC. But what are you going to do with the animals while you two are gone?

Good Luck to you sir.