Are the two of you actually a couple? Or do you just like him and think he likes you? And did your friend start liking him at the same time you did.

Because if he is single and your friend liked him around the same time you started to try for him then she has done nothing wrong as you have no more claim over him than she does. There is nothing wrong with you both fighting for him but don't resent your friend if this guy chooses her over you.

However if you and this guy are a couple and she is trying to steal him from you then what she is doing is very wrong. You can fight for him if you like but if this a guy who will potentially leave or possibly cheat on you when another girl tries for him then he really isn't worth fighting for.

If you and this boy are already an item, and you're friend is trying to muscle in, then I would take her to one side and tell her back off whilst you are still able to walk. Straight. Or beef it up, be everything she isn't. If you're not with him yet, then time to bring in plan B, before the man eater (joke) gets to grips with him, put on your nicest smile and sexiest outfit, one to die for, and when you next see the boy, just go over to him and ask him out, don't mope around being shy, because I bet your g/f won't be. Then take it from there. The time has come for you to stake your claim.


Go for it. And good luck.