When I first read your post I thought, wow, what jerks! But now that you are planning on choosing one of them, I'm thinking, wow, she deserves this!

You teach people how to treat you. Apparently you want to be treated like a toy.

Have fun choosing between Dumb and Dumber, maybe you should pick the one that forced you to do stuff with him, he sounds like a winner (sarcasm).

You're 14, right?

14?
That explains it. She should be outraged, but I guess maybe she does not have the sense or maturity to know that she has been played royally, and the boys are so young they think this is all an acceptable joke.

I'm guessing 14, don't know her age. :)

She sounds really young. I can't imagine she would even consider staying with one of them unless she has such low self esteem she is grateful they have even paid attention to her.
This is really kind of pitiful

It is pitiful. Either way I'm sure she's a teen. This doesn't say much for young love, that's for sure.

Are girls so desperate for a boyfriend that they accept this kind of treatment?

Personally, both of them would get a piece of my mind, a kick in the arse then a door slammed in their face. But hey, that's just me, I care about myself worth. ;)

I'm with you on that! There is no way I'd put up with that kind of demeaning behavior from anybody. No male is worth that mess, and if you're that desperate you need to stay away from men. A jerk would be able to smell you a mile away.

How can someone not know when their birthday is?

My daughter is only 8 but she reminds everyone months in advance of her birthday to make sure they get her what she wants.

Even though her birthday is on Halloween but who in the world doesn't know the date of their birthday. That is weird.

I might play stupid if someone asks me the year I was born but never the actual date.

Thanks I Wish for pointing this major detail out and I guess the plot thickens, hmmm.

Maybe that is what the surprise is.

I think she said she is Chinese. Don't they calculate birthdays differently? Maybe that is why she is not sure.
I'm trying to give the girl the benefit of doubt

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How can someone not know when their birthday is?

My daughter is only 8 but she reminds everyone months in advance of her birthday to make sure they get her what she wants.

Even though her birthday is on Halloween but who in the world doesn't know the date of their birthday. That is weird.

I might play stupid if someone asks me the year I was born but never the actual date.

Thanks I Wish for pointing this major detail out and I guess the plot thickens, hmmm.

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Can't rep you Liz had to spread it but ,long ago in this thread ,I thought troll .Something smells rotten in Denmark(old old saying).

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It is pitiful. Either way I'm sure she's a teen. This doesn't say much for young love, that's for sure.

Are girls so desperate for a boyfriend that they accept this kind of treatment?

Personally, both of them would get a piece of my mind, a kick in the arse then a door slammed in their face. But hey, that's just me, I care about my self worth. ;)

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Where do you live that there are only two boys in town?
I understand there may be some cultural differences I do not understand but this is one I never want to believe is acceptable.
Aren't we all required to be decent human beings?

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How old are you?

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Only 14. My birthday is soon, so I'll be 15.

I don't know when my birthday is, because my parents for got it.

And my boyfriend is older.. he's 17.

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Where do you live that there are only two boys in town?
I understand there may be some cultural differences I do not understand but this is one I never want to believe is acceptable.
Aren't we all required to be decent human beings?

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Tell that to my parents. And you can blame me for liking those two.

I found out... Wow... It's my last question. That was the surprise...

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I don't know when my birthday is, because my parents for got it.

And my boyfriend is older..he's 17.

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Your parents forgot your birthday? Tell them to look on your birth certificate. While they're doing that, sign them up for parenting classes.

Boyfriend? Don't you mean "boyfriends"?

I smell a troll!

I can tell you the date, time, place and weight of my daughter when she was born.

This makes no sense and if it doesn't makes sense it is a lie.

Like Artlady, I am starting to think you're a troll.

... My parents didn't read it. They lost my certificated when I was little. They found it, and lost it again. My dad thinks it's 25. Mom says its 24. It's a stupid subject, can I get back to the old one?

Boyfriends... I guess... I only wanted ONE. But I have TWO, at least I think?

And I'm not a troll...

I didn't want to talk about my parents. It's my life, and all I wanted was just simple advice.

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...My parents didn't read it. They lost my certificated when I was little. They found it, and lost it again. My dad thinks it's 25. Mom says its 24. It's a stupid subject, can I get back to the old one?

Boyfriends....I guess.....I only wanted ONE. But I have TWO, at least I think?

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Your not thinking at all! In fact you are being very foolish.

You need to tell anyone in this life who is treating you badly that YOU do not allow anyone to treat you that way.

You honor yourself and you stand up for yourself!

Anything else that happens to you if you do not is on you!

People treat you the way you make them treat you.

Besides, lot's of people don't know their birthdays. Go to China or something. THEN maybe you'd understand.

We gave you advice, but in your 14 year old wisdom you chose to ignore it.

Go ahead, date one of them, date both of them, heck, date the whole entire basketball team, there's nothing we can do to stop you.

One day, hopefully soon, you'll start to care about yourself a little, then maybe you'll stop letting peolple treat you like dirt.

Until then, all I can do is wish you luck. You'll need it.

Hey, I lost my because a number of times but do you want to know the best part? They can get a new one. Still doesn't account for someone not knowing your birth date.

I am starting to think there most be a lot of issues at home and something wrong with your parents.

Again, something don't seems right. This is the time I wish for pyshic abilities.

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Hey, I lost my bc a number of times but do you want to know the best part? They can get a new one. Still doesn't account for someone not knowing your birth date.

I am starting to think there most be alot of issues at home and something wrong with your parents.

Again, something don't seems right. This is the time I wish for pyshic abilities.

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You and me both Liz but my crystal ball is still in the shop.

Hey, I guessed her age though. That counts for something. ;)

Young lady you are 14 with no clue and these boys are old enough to know what they are doing, and they are taking advantage of you.
If you have an ounce of sense, leave them both alone. Some one who would play such a sick joke on a person your age is no good and no good to the bone.

Having said that, I think you are either lying, a bit developmental delayed or you have a really messed up life. Either way, I hope you get some help.