Thanks, I was just with her for about 5 days, will be back down there in a few months, she's also coming up twice in the next 4 months, but it is a rough. I try to give her space while at the same time focusing on myself, and try to create an out of sight out of mind thing. I give attention when I actually speak to her though... It's hard. There are even quite a few women who like me locally, and have stopped talking to me entirely once they found out I was in a relationship. However, its just something about this one that has me hooked... Its just hard some days.