This is a lot of explanation and justification for horrible actions on your part. Married men are off limits. If you are involved in an affair, you need to leave the guy alone, leave his social circle alone. You should get another job at a different place and never talk to these people again . You did not need to wish your married lover Bon voyage for his family trip with his wife . Seriously?

I only have one comment and that is that the picture taking and posting on facebook seems like a setup to me. I have no idea what the plan may have been but I think there might have been any one of a number of plans. Just one to throw out and there may be plenty of others that are more plausible- could it be so the wife could see her friend's post, show it to her husband, and see how he reacted??? The picture taking and posting just struck me as out of the ordinary but I could be all wet as I don't do much facebook and maybe I'm not hep to the jive (and that should tell you how up to date I am and what century I came out of).