There is nothing at all weird about being 23 and a virgin,sex over the years has lost its meaning, people hand out their virginity way to easily, don't force it to happen or it will become a regret for you, be the very few that don't regret there first time. Hold of until the right person comes along, it will have so much more meaning and will be worth the wait... I wish I had, consider yourself lucky because because you still have the most preciois gift you could share with another human being... never think your weird, your smart. :)

Well yesterday I was excited and confident, If she would like to join me for coffee or tea, but we were both swamped, me in the backroom , and her at guest services.
I was wanting take her away from it all for a moment, and make her day better if for just a moment. Saddly.. I didn't get a lunch or breaks. So I guess I will wait till Monday.

No worries, the time and opportunity will eventually come. Patience.

Well today I got her some boxes she asked for to put defective items in. She was happy I took the time to do it. Then I decided to check out a key that I already had, I looked for a pen just to find 3 in the notebook, I made a joke as she finished with a customer. I was leaning over trying to use 2 pens at once. She leaned over on the other side talking to me as I drew a bunny, I looked up and she was right there looking at what I was doing. I felt her breth on my sholder

My heart stared beating fast, and I felt something between us, some type of connection I think... then a guest came up... and she had to go attend to them... still not sure if she likes me but I think I felt something.

Of course you did as you already have feelings.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Of course you did as you already have feelings.

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It was almost as if I felt what she felt, like there was a lot of sexual tention, but we tried to play coy if that makes sense. I was about to ask her out but I kina had to gather my bearing because the tenstion had gotten the better of the ohysical me. Just when I was ready the guest came up.

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Originally Posted by SuperToiletDelu

It was almost as if I felt what she felt, like there was alot of sexual tention, but we tried to play coy if that makes sense. I was about to ask her out but I kina had to gather my bearing because the tenstion had gotten the better of the ohysical me. Just when I was ready the guest came up.

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OK, I know this isn't the biggest leap in the world but for me it's huge, but I went to sign keys in at the guest service didn't have any but hoped to see her. Well she saw me and came over, I wished her a Marry Christmas, the she asked " no hug?" I went around and gave her a firm but gental hug, lol can't remember much except the harmth. Little creepy I know. But it was a large leap for me. I should have went from the hug to her hands and asked her out.

Ask for her phone number.

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Originally Posted by SuperToiletDelu

OK, I know this isnt the biggest leap in the world but for me it's huge, but I went to sign keys in at the guest service didnt have any but hoped to see her. Well she saw me and came over, I wished her a Marry Christmas, the she asked " no hug?" I went around and gave her a firm but gental hug, lol can't remember much except the harmth. Little creepy I know. But it was a large leap for me. I should have went from the hug to her hands and asked her out.

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Okay now what? Are you going to ask her on a date or watch her go on a date with someone else because you waited too long? Again - the expectations of the date are you two are going to learn more about each other - not jump into bed the first night. Get her number and ask her to a movie or something.