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Originally Posted by Demma

Hey,
What should you do when u think u are falling for ur best friend? i have known this friend 2 years ago when we first started uni. We click very well, and used to chat on the phone for hours long. Rumours started going on about us. BUT there was nothing going on between both of us. Just CLOSE FRIEND. I am irritated when people tease us because i never thought that we could become more then just friends.Later, he slowly started liking this other girl and everyone would tease him about it and encouraging him to take a move. The funny thing now is that, some one tease him , i would feel uneasy( well u can put in a way that i think i am jealous) But i try not to show out. Do u think it is because i am starting to fall for my best friend?? or is it just a momentary feeling that will go away because i am just so used to having him as a close friend that i am afraid we will not be as close as ever..???????Please tell me..?? is there anyone out there who is in my dilemma..>?????

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I can understand you perfectly, I am going through a similar situation but mine is much worse because I am in a 5-year relationship and I fell in love with my close friend. What you can do is find time to talk to him to test his feelings for you because if he is not interested in you, then its not worth being jealous over someone who has no interest. Be careful and try to control your emotions to a certain extent not to make him realize that you are having feelings for him.

I think what happened is that he thinks you're not interested in him so he will chase other girls to make you feel jealous.. in other words he is testing you!

Good luck and be wise!