And he is OK with that, does not think that is strange, or you for that matter? You are not a teenager.
You have been seeing this man for four years, he does not think it strange that at your age you are so afraid of your mother?
If you had a child, would you be able to defend that child against your mother?
You need to put on your big girl pants, act like a grown woman and tell your mother you have a man.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

And he is OK with that, does not think that is strange, or you for that matter? You are not a teenager.
You have been seeing this man for four years, he does not think it strange that at your age you are so afraid of your mother?
If you had a child, would you be able to defend that child against your mother?
You need to put on your big girl pants, act like a grown woman and tell your mother you have a man.

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He understands what's going on with my mom and me but Idk still haven't said anything to my mom

Well until you can act like a grown up and tell your mom about your man, you are going to stay in this situation.
What is the worse that could happen if you tell her?