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Originally Posted by artemis_751

I just found him (his full name as he told me it) on the electoral roll at the address he gave me. Makes me feel a little better. However, after today, I don't want to carry on this way so have decided that if he doesn't suggest another meet when I mention it, I am going to let the whole situation go. If he does make another arrangement and cancels again, I am also going to let it go.

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Not criticizing, just asking. Why aren't you asking HIM why he cancelled the first meeting, if there's a problem? Why just write him off if he seems "good" in every other aspect, without giving him a chance to explain?

Or maybe he doesn't deserve an opportunity to explain.

Yeah, he did, Sorry it's that far back in the messages. He had work comittments and then the second arranged meeting, the same again and not mentioned meeting up since. I am just thinking in terms of 'how many times does one say.. ok not to worry'. I'm going to mention to him later on when we speak if he has had any thoughts on us arranging another meeting and just take it from there really.

Talaniman rules for dating, in person, or on line.

Date them all, short, fat, skinny, or tall. 18 to 80, blind, cripple, or crazy!

Dating is to get to know some one, but since you haven't really dated, just talked, you should exercise your rights as a single person, and date whomever you choose, and not get so stuck on just one guy so soon. A great social life is what you want, and plenty of options and opportunities. It is about having fun you know, and you don't have to commit, meet, or trip over any one. Or waste time on those that don't have time for you, and can't make time for you.

Put him on the back burner, and explore all your options. Why limit yourself so soon?

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Originally Posted by artemis_751

Yeah, he did, Sorry its that far back in the messages. He had work comittments and then the second arranged meeting, the same again and not mentioned meeting up since. I am just thinking in terms of 'how many times does one say..ok not to worry'. I'm going to mention to him later on when we speak if he has had any thoughts on us arranging another meeting and just take it from there really.

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I'd say something along the lines of you were looking forward to meeting him in person. You understand the pressures of life but he seems rather reluctant to meet. Let him take it from there.

Have you tried "googling" him?