also i didn't know this site was promoting marriage i thought it was a general site for all situations... without bias that's alll... it seems a lot of ppl insult people who are with married men etc etc... but anyway thx for your time though and i guess at 39 i should know enough to not ask people... this site is for more inexperienced people who genuinly need advice but i just wanted a few perspectives and i got it... but thank you for yr time and i didn't mean to be rude to anyone so im sry if i came across like it... and to javi there wa sno need to be insulting and saying i would cheat on you too... whats that about?! What did i say wrong to you! Yes i am quite feistyy= but im a single mother and i been through a hell of a lot and it makes you real tough... but honestly i really agreed with your advise and i said that so i don't understand whyu got so rude to me? But anyway u gave me a good perspective on this push pull thing... i learned something so thank y ou

Yes hi... to historian chick i only saw this now... sry i didn't mean to insult u... i appreciate yr advice... but i realise u in usa now! In uk if u say to someone get counselling it means yr saying u need help you're crazy! But yes i been hurt... and soon as i meet a new one then start to trust i get hurt again and it keep s happening and it makes u angry and distrusful... but thank you for being veryu helpful i appreciate... yes not every man does it... i am glad u have a good relationship... i did have a good one with my ex.. yes it broke up bad but we are friends now... but guess u got to trust yr fellow man as u said... and i got to look in diff places too and make sure i get a relationship first before them flirting with me sexually.. but i feel more at ease though.. seriously i do... as i went to seek other sites where other women had similar situations and got no joy so i really do apprecaite yr answers...

I don't know why yr being so rude and swearing... u are actually insulting me now wheni nvr insulted you and the person i was supposedly insulting hasn't even reacted! It seems the only person reacting here is u!! And im not amkina ny generalizations im only going by my own personal exp.. thats all and u don't know my experiences do you? And im not immature about relationships... i want one but as i said they just want sex... and that's my expereince... not a generalization... but anyway you're mad about something so ill leave u alone... the other girl is talking fine.. so let her stick up for herself will you i don't know who you are but you have no right to be swearing at me coz you are the perfect ,man... yes you are im sure... jesus!! I actually said i agreed with your comment but u insullted me! You're really strange!! U really are!! But anyway i won't reply anymore... good bye!!

I am sorry if I came out as rude, however it was intentional. First of all the use of CAPS are for emphasis or to yell. I have met and been with a few single mothers, some very close to your age, and they were not feisty. Yes, your relationships may have not turned out well but maybe that is because of the way you are. You seem to think that all males are cheater and that they all like to lie about everything. That is not the case, that is offensive to me. I was not trying to insult you by saying that with the way you act I would too cheat on you, I was trying to hint at you that maybe it is your personality that is attracting this certain type of guys. Maybe you need to reform something about your habits and attitude so that you attract the type of guy you are looking for. THAT, however, will never happen if you always think the way you do. Also, when you say they never call back, etc. does that mean that you have slept with them and then they don't call you back afterward, like they are using you for sex and then just leaving, the typical hit it and quit it? Because if that is the case maybe you should exercise some self respect and not sleep around so much, meeting the guy who you have some sort of interest with would be good for trying to prevent that from happening.

Good Luck,
Javi

Wats caps? Oh sry i can't read it if its in small sry... no im not shouting anything so you're generalizing now but anyway ive postef how you've been rude... seriously i been very hurt so this site ids suppose to pprovide support but you're actually making me feel a lot worse actually u really are... saying things like im talking from my *** etc etc i not sure im someone whose level on here is classed an an expert should be talking to an user like this... you are making me feel very bad... and i had bad expeireinces so ok if i presume all men cheat... as an expert here you should say... dont presume they all cheat... etc etc but you've just got very insulting which isn't right at all... and ppl can read the thread and see for themselves too they can see what i posted and yr response and they're not going to think much of you... so i hope whoever monitors this site can see this and u get some kind of warning... i hope so... but historian chick was def every helpful though but i will nto respond to anymore insults from u after this.. you houl dnot be giving out advice if u can't deal with ppls responses.. u got to remember people with hurt are emotional.. can be volatile.. allsorts... so reacting as u been is terrible... i hope you don't reply to anyone else who is in genuine distress

I nvr sleep with a guy on the first date! Jesus!! Like i sid if you're not very qualified to counsel ppl and u over react just coz they have diff opinions you really should not be on here as i said and i hope u seriusly get a warning by whoever monitors this... and just coz a few ppl u met are not feisty doesn't mean it's the norm... but over here in uk things are very diff.. mabye in austin you live diff i am not insulting your town but you think your expereinces make u qualified to help others and i really don t thin you have know anything at all... but anyway... nvr mind... for someoen that expects me not to make presumptions you make many yourself!! I don't sleep around at all... its just the way the guys i.me me me personally have met... which u don't seem to be hearing... but instead of understanding you're just concerned with sticking up for the male race... and i wasn't insulting men... im just saying ive met the wrong ones but sorry... jesus

Read the rules on how to use the website, CAPS are reserved for putting emphasis, and for yelling. Now, how can I know you are being peaceful when you are writing everything in CAPS? All I have done is give you my opinion on things that you have written. I have not insult you, if I have please, quotation it!

Anyway I'm sorry I wasn't being rude but then you went funny so I got bit rude after that so I'm sorry... but I not mean to say all men cheat you took offence to it very badly... so I'm sorry... yes they are some good men out there... so hopefully ill find one... but I don't sleep around at all... I just... am a very sexy woman... or so people tell me... and model etc... so I guess guys are just generally attracted to me an dim just very friendly and very open... ppl take to me very easy... so I guess I just got to play a lot harder to get and not be so open or they do get the wrong idea... coz if man chats up a sexy women and she gives herself to easy... not sexually I mean... just in general... then maybe I invite the wrong attention... coz I was told by one guy I am sexy without even dong anything... so I guess I should not let them have sex talk so soon etc... not actual sex... just sex talk... coz maybe I'm meeting the wrong guys but I live in englandlondon and everyone is a bit crazy over here really

Read the rules on how to use the website, CAPS are reserved for putting emphasis, and for yelling. Now, how can I know you are being peaceful when you are writing everything in CAPS? All I have done is give you my opinion on things that you have written. Also I am not here to protect your feelings, if you have done something in my opinion that is wrong, I will advise you to do otherwise, and point it out. Because it is my opinion that you shouldn't. You have put down males by categorizing us as several negative things, which I find offensive.

Good Luck,
Javi