However she did make sure another couple went with them and shared a room not that, that makes it any better but at least they were not alone.

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Originally Posted by jstbreal4me

however she did make sure another couple went with them and shared a room not that, that makes it any better but at least they were not alone.

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Two couples away for the weekend,I thought she went for a serious closure weekend?

I'm sorry to say but that sounds like a fun weekend.

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Originally Posted by jstbreal4me

however she did make sure another couple went with them and shared a room not that, that makes it any better but at least they were not alone.

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That was some useful info that you conveniently left out of your original post! :confused::mad:

Well it was meant to be fun not a fight she just wants him to leave her alone without it coming to uglyness and the law getting involved or he and I fighting which has almost happened a few times already

You said it yourself in your very first post -

Yes, you are a fool; yes, you are stupid.

Sorry to be so blunt but you just aren't getting the message.

Yes, this is not closure, it is renewing or remembering. This is not what they do, they may have exchanged a email, they may have even meet for coffee for a hour,

A weekend is an affair,

So yes
You are a fool if you don't see this for what it really is, and you are stupid for being there when she got back

You don't go away for a weekend to get closure with a guy you may consider taking out a restraining order against.
You ignore them and if that doesn't work,you go for the restraining order if necessary.

Are you kidding me? If anything, all she is doing is draggin her ex along. He will never leave you two alone now, because the ex thinks he has hope with her. I would dump this her ASAP. Why would you want to be with a girl that would do this to you? Or think that this is OK? Be strong, don't let her tag along!
Her ex will never ever go away if she doesn't tell him to get out of her life and leave her alone, especially taking a so called closure trip!
All your doing right now, is trying to convince yourself that this was OK, and that it is for the best! But that is all that is happening! Get out now while its a lot easier!

Ok I can't believe this one, I have to post again! DUDE wake the heck up! She is telling you everything that you want to hear~! WHy ? To play you! SHe is saying another coupe was there, why? To put you at ease, she is saying its to get him to leave her alone? Why to ease you! I don't know about you, but for me to get someone to leave me alone, I don't go away on the weekend with them! Get your head out of your butt! Don't be that fool. Your relationship is never ever going anywhere starting like this. Best thing is to end it now. She is not a good person like you say. A person you want a restraining order on, you don't go away for the weekend. Leave her to dust, even if you like her a lot, abviously she is confused, so just leave her and let her think it out! DO NOT BE STUPID PLZZZZZZZZ , You will regret it! Mark my words