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  • Jan 8, 2010, 12:50 PM
    minimickey
    THANKS TO ALL OF YOU GUYS! :)
    Any additional comments and responses from anyone please write I want to know all u guys have to say good or bad. Thanks for it all!
  • Jan 8, 2010, 12:52 PM
    redhed35
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by minimickey View Post
    You know what ur right. I just got ur other post right now. Yea i guess so. This wasnt a big deal and I'm making it so. and if i mention it it would be dumb I see your point. Just let it go. people come and go i can't please them all

    Exactly.

    Maybe down the road,you'll be able to hang out,but for now just leave it.

    Other posters will have different views and advice,keep an eye on your thread.

    Just remember,you don't need to go chasing anyone,your 17! Be 17,enjoy your time,date if your allowed and you want to,and try not to become fixated on one guy.
  • Jan 8, 2010, 01:02 PM
    minimickey

    Yea exactly thanks so much.
    I guess I just hated the fact that it wasn't a big deal but I can't expect him to keep waiting. But he could have done something too but it was probably a mutual thing. I should stop thinking its all my fault and I just didn't want to seem horrible in his eyes or anything but I didn't do anything wrong so I guess even if he feels that way I can't do anything about it. And your so right. If he never mentions or texts me about sturday and doesn't even contact me why bother... and if he has a negative opinion of me for bailing than he should know, that it was part of his fault too so yea. Ur absolutely right.

    U probably noticed I have letting go issues hahaha so I guess hitting him up on Facebook like now and than for his birthday watever won't be uncceptable or anything would it? Just to be cordial? Or strict no contact?
  • Jan 8, 2010, 01:05 PM
    redhed35
    You know ,for now just do no contact.

    Someone else may have a different opinion.

    I just think your too emotional and over thinking every little thing right now and I would fear any contact would start the process again.

    Give yourself a break.
  • Jan 8, 2010, 01:11 PM
    minimickey
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by redhed35 View Post
    you know ,for now just do no contact.

    someone else may have a differant opinion.

    i just think your too emotional and over thinking every little thing right now and i would fear any contact would start the process again.

    give yourself a break.

    Yea I do tend to do that.. hmm haha
    Okie thanks a ton for everything!

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