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Originally Posted by dubsteppa007

hey all...wow!! now im reali confused..ive gone without contact for a few weeks..al has been well..ive accepted that she has moved on and that she is hapi..bla bla bla..

now i get home from work, to see a text msg, from her saying " u must get such a thrill from ripping my heart to shreds.gosh i cnt believe i ever trusted u to keep me safe and loved. inever wwnt to see u again. u got wat u wanted, my hearts in pieces..so i was ok..wat the hell is going on..iv havent done anything to get such nausty msg and ive done and said everything to tell her how i do care for her etc. bt then i see i have another msg from her friend that me and her have stayd in contact with, becoz she was my friend at skewl and best friends with my ex saying .. " i dont know wat is going on, bt apprently i have been speaking to u on facebook, about leanne.so now leanne and i arnt friends nw..so ive deleted you from facebook..so do me a favour and not talk to me sorry... firstly, ive we havent said anything a but guud things to about leanne and that i dont know wat the hell to do..i dont want to ex see my ex again...we shared alot together to just throw it all away and i now im loosing my friends..wat to do? wat to do?

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There is very little you can do to control what she's saying and doing - ditto with her friends. People say all sorts of crapp on F/Book, you must know that!

I agree, keep doing what you're doing and try no to take it personally. It's her stuff and not yours and she's just trying to press your 'guilt' button.

You know that you've acted with integrity, it's her loss in the end.

If I'd try to understand what your ex is trying to say, I'd be lost in the universe. So just leave her as she wants to be, be it a witch trying to poison u and control u.