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Originally Posted by crazy-mambo

im just gonna chuck something in randomly

confidence works but i think its cute when a guy trips over his tounge :S

maybe thats just me haha but it shows that hes into you... if he wasnt affected by my reaction to anything or however you put it, i would think he just wanted a screw :S

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Let me make it a bit more clear because I see where you're coming from. IF you actually get the number then of course smile and flirt a bit more... don't walk away like a pimp. The bigger issue is if you get rejected, don't act like you care or that it ruins your day/night.

I like this info :)

I believe like what "HITCH" said, "any guy can sweep ANY girl off her feet, he just needs the right broom" I firmly believe this! Im not a looker, but I have dated some really beautiful women that I couldn't believe were with me, but when asked the last one I dated, she said outright, one of the things that attracted her the most was how confident I was, and knowing what I want in life.

I got to say my problem is that fine line between arrogance and confidence, I'm really not sure where it begins and where it ends

Well at least you have an idea of what your problem is, so fix it. Arrogance is VERY easy to read, almost as easy as having no confidence at all. You can't go into a social situation acting like you are better than the person you are talking to... especially a female. I know if a woman talks to me like they are God's gift I won't be listening very long.

The key is to listen... and I mean really listen to girls talk. Most guys let what they say go in one ear and out the other, being a good, attentive listener is a HUGE part of this. When you are arrogant I doubt you give much way to listening to someone else talk.

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Originally Posted by kctiger

Well at least you have an idea of what your problem is, so fix it. Arrogance is VERY easy to read, almost as easy as having no confidence at all. You can't go into a social situation acting like you are better than the person you are talking to...especially a female. I know if a woman talks to me like they are God's gift I won't be listening very long.

The key is to listen...and I mean really listen to girls talk. Most guys let what they say go in one ear and out the other, being a good, attentive listener is a HUGE part of this. When you are arrogant I doubt you give much way to listening to someone else talk.

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Good points KC, funny how they all fall into the same area as what to do and not to do in sales. Make the sale... :):D:) After all, you are selling yourself.