It doesn't sound like the guy's problem. It sounds like she's extremely confused and needy. She just can't live without a man in her life. Since you don't to take her back, she's stuck with this guy, nor matter how badly he treats her.

She just can't stand the thought of being alone. It's good that you're not taking her back. However, I suggest you stop getting updates about her life. She's going to have to figure this out on her own, it's not your responsibility anymore. You have your own life to worry about it. If you try to help her, you're going to be stuck in time. You're going to be trapped with all her problems and can't get on with your life.

It's time for you to move on to bigger and better things buddy.

Your right, she is the type of person that can never be single. I don't think she has ever been single in her life.

She went from her ex boyfriend of 10 years to me for another 2. Then from September to Jan her and I weren't together but we were still having sex which I thought we would get back together.

She started talking to him behind my back until Jan when I found out.

I have never been so played by someone who says they loved me more than her boyfriend of 10 years when we only dated for 2.

What part of get out of their business, and leave them alone, is confusing you?

Are you a drama queen, or something? Or just don't have enough of a life to keep you busy??

talaniman you are exactly right. Thanks for the reply.