Originally Posted by
alexa0707
Update On saturady nite I decided not to answer my phone when he called. I did not want to see him because I really started to feel like he was cheating on me. At 2am whe I got off work I drove past his baby mama's house and his car was there. In the morning I woke up to a call from the baby mama. She told me he was with her last nite and that they are together again and asked me if I had been tested for STD's because they are having un protected sex trying to have another baby. I just hung up. I didn't say a word besides hello. An hour after that I got a call from my EX and I asked him non chalantly what he did last nite and he said... I went to my moms and fell asleep around 12 am. Then I just said... "did you know I drove past your baby mama's house at 2am and saw your car?" he had the nerve to say "it wasn't me." he actually said it 5 or 6 times. I just hung up and sent him a text saying " i know the truth... we are never speaking again... come get your bleep." But he hasn't been to the house yet. He was texting me all types of baby I need to talk to you and I'm sorry crap all day and then I decided to forward every message he had sent to his baby mama and I asked her to tell him to stop texting me. She replied ok and the texts ended. He called last nite and left a message saying "babe I bleeped up. Please call me." I sent him a text this morning saying he could explain his self in an email but if I sense any bs or lies I really am never ever going to speak to him again. I am waiting on the email.
I am not going to take him back. I feel I know whats going on. I think 2 months ago he slept with her and told her some lies during an argument we had and now he regrets it and din't want to tell me what he did. The fact of the matter is he lied and cheated. I believe in second chances but you have to show you deserve it. He played me for a fool and kept lying to me. He does not deserve a second chance. But I still want to know the truth.
Thank you everyone for your help.
