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  • Feb 11, 2009, 10:53 AM
    xMaverickx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by I need advice View Post
    LOL. I know, I'll try:) What did YOU do?! I'm curious now!

    Haha OK. I did all the typical stuff. I drunk dialed, drunk myspaced, drunk facebooked, and drunk texting lol. It only makes the other person think less of you and like I said, after you do it, your only going to upset yourself. Alcohol in general isn't good for the body, mind, or soul. If you feel like getting drunk, get drunk off other things, like happy things, get a high off feeling good about yourself... not literally smoking lol. Stay busy! And by the way, me and you are the same age, perhaps you could give me some advice about my situation.
  • Feb 11, 2009, 11:00 AM
    I need advice

    Haha. No I know. I'm not that big of a drinker any ways. Maybe that's why he texted me one night saying "Hey. I just prayed for us" at like 2:30 AM? Lol
  • Feb 11, 2009, 07:03 PM
    I need advice

    Asides from that 2:30 AM texts... I'm worried if I don't talk to him at all... he'll think I don't want anything to do with him, he feels like he shouldn't try. I blocked him on my messenger so I can't message him, but sometimes I want to ublock him. But then feel sad that he doesn't talk to me...


    I'm so messed up over this!
  • Feb 11, 2009, 08:35 PM
    xMaverickx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by I need advice View Post
    Asides from that 2:30 AM texts....I'm worried if I don't talk to him at all...he'll think I don't want anything to do with him, he feels like he shouldn't try. I blocked him on my messenger so I can't message him, but sometimes I want to ublock him. But then feel sad that he doesnt talk to me...


    I'm so messed up over this!

    So what if you don't talk to him, life goes on!
  • Feb 11, 2009, 08:36 PM
    I need advice

    I know...

    But don't you think that was such an inconsiderate thing he did. Telling me he's praying for us. That leaves me hope, and confusion. If your praying, whyd you leave me? AH!
  • Feb 11, 2009, 09:53 PM
    xMaverickx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by I need advice View Post
    I know...

    but don't you think that was such an inconsiderate thing he did. Telling me he's praying for us. That leaves me hope, and confusion. if your praying, whyd you leave me?! AH!

    Your over thinking every little detail, that's normal, but don't do it. Like I said your mind is going to wander and its going to suck. But just know that it is what it is and you can't do anything about it, all that stuff doesn't matter.
  • Feb 11, 2009, 09:55 PM
    I need advice

    How annoyed are you by me now? :)
  • Feb 12, 2009, 12:21 AM
    JmeMum

    It sounds like he kind of just needs to grow up a little and find out who he is and what he wants. Im sure he does still love you, but when you love someone sometimes you just have to give them space tofigure out who they are. You may find one another again, but you should also know you may not. But just because you guys aren't still together doesn't mean you can't still be there for him.
  • Feb 12, 2009, 04:18 AM
    Irishgirl
    Hey so how are you now? I think the time difference is starting to show on this site :( You's are all tucked up in bed while I'm working,poor me. Any word from you know who?
  • Feb 12, 2009, 05:46 AM
    I need advice

    No, no word:( I want to talk to him so badly. I know I shouldn't be worrying about this at all and its all about me. But I can't help but wonder, is he thinking about me? I just hope our paths cross as it has so many times in the past 7 1/2 years.
  • Feb 12, 2009, 12:48 PM
    BabyDoll22

    Hey I need advice am babydoll I've been reading your messages and I just want you 2 know thatwe all have gone through these things and it's very hard to deal with at first but it will get better in the future and it won't hurt as much. And if you guys are meant to be it will work out.
  • Feb 13, 2009, 07:10 PM
    sasha766
    Give him space so stay away from him for a week and then talk mto him like nothing is
    Even wrong
  • Feb 14, 2009, 06:45 AM
    I need advice

    It will be three weeks on Monday.

    I miss him.
  • Feb 25, 2009, 11:19 AM
    I need advice

    ... I saw him yesterday.

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