[QUOTE=Kayveen;1461237]

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Originally Posted by ja77

just make sure you do not go into over kill and make it to much.QUOTE]

i understand what your saying but idk. what u mean by over kill it? and making it too much?

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I mean be yourself - do not act like someone else and also do not go OTT.

I agree with you with making it nice and making it special, but be yourself more than anything else.

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btw is there anything else i need to know?[/QUOTE]

Know that relationships are hard work and the two people involve most work together in order for it work.

It seems like the two of you are in a long distance relationship which could be even harder.

Relationships are about trust, compromise, and communication. If you've those then things could work out and the relationship have a chance of lasting.

In the meantime you've fun. Have fun getting to know one another and address any issues you have as they come up.

Okay thank you all
I try do my best.

I understand communication is the key. But as from my friends point of view and mine. I think I'm always paranoid of what's going on in her mind and I reckon at times I'm expecting too much. And also I've being going out a lot nows. Because my brother told me off the other week and I realise, I missed out some of the biggest school moments of my LIFE, school graduation outting, interview day outting a lot of parties... I didn't realise much until the past week, so now days I've apologise to my close friends and also being catching up with the others now.

When I mean by expecting too much. I reckon that. I expect her to be talking to me all the time or at that certain time, but I realise she got stuff to do too not just talk to me.

Yea I understand communication is the key. Yes I do tell how I feel but its being while that's all.

I think. I'm expecting too much, that's what's pressures her cause I text and call to see where and what she doing at times and when she not on I think she angry at me and stuff.. but I realise now that yeas

Got to have my own life

And communication is the key. Being open and honest

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You can't really do anything to make someone miss you. That's just something that happens naturally that you cannot force. But what you can do is try too figure out why her missing you will make you feel complete... there lies your true problems.

I agree that u have to be straight forward with her.. once she sees that you're up for the talk about what she's feeling maybe she'll be able to open up rather than stay away that is IF she is feeling differently.. As a girl in a long term relationship.. Im telling u making her feel that she can talk to u about anything even if they were her negative feelings.. might bring her closer to u.. Anyways hope all goes well for u:)

Everything is not going my wayyy.
She hasn't being on for a long time (week) and when she goes on.. she's busy. Then next day seems like she's down so I ask her what's wrong ' she says she doesn't feel like socialising' I ask whyy? What's wrong? ' she says I don't know , etc...

I fearrr the end
I told her how I feeel but no reply.. guess give her some time or she is busy

Kayveen, don't let these women play mind games with you! The force is strong with you, I sense that. The sooner you learn to MAKE THEM CHASE YOU the better. Start acting like a suave dude, and give her the impression you don't care one way or another.

Oh, and as far as the female posters on here go... you know I love you! :)

Listen.. I know I told you to talk to her.. but from what you're telling she obviously doesn't want to talk and don't say that she is busy.. I think that she should not be busy for a guy she's in love with or smthing.. so don't give that as an excuse for her.. She should listen to what you have to say.. and if she wouldn't listen.. I think you should step away a bit as well.. do some other things to take your mind of things.. Im sure you're a great guy.. you shouldn't let her take advantage of the fact that you are trying to talk to her.. so just let it go for a while.. and if after a few days she doesn't do a move.. then I don't think it's going to go well from there.. I really hope things go well for u:)

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Originally Posted by kctiger

Kayveen, don't let these women play mind games with you! The force is strong with you, I sense that. The sooner you learn to MAKE THEM CHASE YOU the better. Start acting like a suave dude, and give her the impression you don't care one way or another.

Oh, and as far as the female posters on here go...you know I love ya!! :)

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I just had to something because as you should know females always got something to say.

In a relationship I don't think anyone involve should be chasing the other person. There should be a mutal interest between both parties because it does take two people to make a relationship and I know if I had to chase someone down in order for us to be together, than I don't think I need to be with them.

Also, to platg like your not interested in someone, when you are, would just be playing games in my book.

However, I think the girl that the OP is seeing actions are telling him a story. I am should if it because of her age but it seems like she isn't really into this relationship. If that is the case there are other girlds out there because you can't keep reaching out to someone and that person isn't reaching back. Go with your gut instincts because they never prove you wrong.

Well before I said things were turning bad.. but today she started conversation with me and apologise for how she was acting and doing (which surprised me) so yeas. Atm its okay.
And yeas we talked.

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