It will get easier, I promise. And as the saying goes, if it is true love, it will find a way. Sounds like he would have to do some changing and growing up. Meanwhile, more than likely, you will become much more wise. It could just be the wrong time, right person. I will be keeping you in my prayers for your strength. :D Okay, I will pray for him, too.:rolleyes:

Awwww thank you so much!!

I totally know how you feel! Ugh my boyfriend dumped me in July and I still think of him... more than I should. I think its because we want so bad to keep holding on to those happy memories but your logic side is saying "no! he broke your heart! move on!" but your heart tells you otherwise. I know its hard but you'll find your own way out of this. For me it was trying to focos on my friends and keeping them close to me. I also got really into music and it kept my mind off him really well. I'm also getting into skating which needs lots of concentration and since I kind of suck its working really well lol. I know its hard. Trust me. Its great that your canceling him out of your life. A fresh broken heart is the worst. But you got to keep your head up and throw yourself back in the water. Sounds like your doing just fine so far.

How come you guys don't talk? Usually, in some cases, talking to them again and being friends with them can make it better so your not always wondering "what if" you know. Its just better to get things off your chest then to think about them everyday. It will always be hard to get over an ex. Just remember, there's so many other people out there.

Stay away from selfish men, they would only break your heart many times

Me and my ex broke almost two months ago and I refuse to talk to him. Before he would text me and ignored it and he would message me on myspace and I ended blocking him. Then he ended up making a whole new myspace and asking me why I wouldn't talk to him. That's all he asks every time he tries getting a hold of me "why won't you talk to me?" and the thing is the second that I feel like I'm getting better he has to ruin it by texting me or emailing me. And I'll admit I love hearing from him and shutting him down because it makes me feel so good but every time he does talk to me it feels like he kills all of the improvement that I make on forgetting about him. And one day I finally told him to just leave me alone flat out and now that I know that he won't ever try to get a hold of me for some reason it makes me sad and I don't know why...

It seems to me like you just enjoyed making him suffer (he must've really pissed you off). And now that he's not bugging you, you can't tell if he's suffering or moving on which seems to bug you. Another theory is you felt like keeping him in that sitution until you felt like going back, never expecting him to actually stop. Now that he has, you no longer have that option. Mind you if I'm wrong I apologize.

You can't have it both ways
You say you enjoy shutting him down but it is killing the second that I feel like I'm getting better he has to ruin it by texting me or emailing me.
The game is over now and you feel the let down that was inevitable.

In the movie Dennis the Menace. George Wilson always acted like here comes trouble every time he would see Dennis headed his way but in the scene where George is sick you can see he enjoyed the game of Dennis torturing him. Sort of like a love/hate thing.

No actually your right kagamiD

Haha maybe this guy was lucky to get out of this relationship with you. You actually enjoyed torturing this guy? Well I can understand what your getting at but you can't always take the cake and eat it to. Just be glad things are over and he is living his life and you yours. There is no point to string this along anyway.

How long did you expect he put up with your crap, and feel like a fool?

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How long did you expect he put up with your crap, and feel like a fool??

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He screwed me over horribly and broke my heart therefore he deserves to feel like a fool.

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Your only prolonging your own agony, and that's no good. Disappear from his life.
You'll never be happy unless you let this go, and ignore him completely.

The universe is spherical in nature.
If you make to suffer someone, one day will come when you will suffer the same.
I beg you don't hurt any boy's emotions!
I know this... cause I have experienced it... "how it hurts!"
It is beyond all the poisons beyond all the pains... there is no escape from this once you get it.
Better way don't put this pain on anybody's heart

You definitely need to stop playing hard to get. It's only hurting you. You need to hear him out and maybe introduce him back into your life as your friend. I don't think it would be a good idea to keep turning him down. Eventually he'll stop chasing and you'll end up chasing him. Trust me you don't the table to turn.

I don't know if I agree with the friend thing. Some people are just best left to their own plans. This to me sounds like one of those cases.

Making someone suffer can feel really good sometimes I know what you mean. But since he has stopped don't let it bring you down girl.

If that's what you truly wanted then move on if not.

Then don't make him suffer because remember.

KARMAS a .

And just because he did something wrong doesn't mean your not.

It kind of sounds like you really do love him a lot and maybe you guys just need time apart.

Correct me if I'm wrong and I do not mean to sound rude at all.

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you definitely need to stop playing hard to get. It's only hurting you. You need to hear him out and maybe introduce him back into your life as your friend. I don't think it would be a good idea to keep turning him down. eventually he'll stop chasing and you'll end up chasing him. trust me you dont the table to turn.

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I can't do that, it hurts way too much. He really hurt me and I can't stand having him in my life anymore

I'm not doing anything wrong though. It's not like I'm leading him on or begging him to talk to me, I'm just ignoring him. So I'll admit that I do like seeing that he's breaking down now but he really hurt me. He cheated on me, lied to me and by far disrespected me. I can't handle talking to him anymore. I don't think that karma has anything to do with this. What am I supposed to do? Keep in contact with him and hurt myself even more? Or ignore him like I am right now?

My ex broke up with me a couple months ago and he really broke my heart. I've been struggling to get over it. He's been texting me and emailing me and trying to get a hold of me but I always ended up ignoring him. I felt that it was better if we stopped talking to each other. But today something happened. He texted me out of the blue and told me he was sorry for ever hurting me and he asked for me to forgive him. This was just mind blowing to me. My ex is sort of player and never did I think that he would ever apologize for hurting me because I never thought that he really cared how he treated me. Even when we were dating when he messed he never apologized for anything. Anyway, I replied to his text(the first time that I have done this) and I told him that I forgave but we couldn't be friends or anything else. He asked me if we both could start talking to each other again. And I said no, because I wasn't ready. Which is true I'm really not, but the thing is that even when I am ready to talk to him, I'm not planing on having contact with him again. Is this right? Am I being too mean to him?