I want you now... I doubt it means she wants him to go over and fix her computer or play a video game. She was probably after him and he fell right into her trap. Dump him he has excess baggage.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

I want you now....I doubt it means she wants him to go over and fix her computer or play a video game. She was probably after him and he fell right into her trap. Dump him he has excess baggage.

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Your always giving advice to just drop the relationship and start new, why?

There is such thing as loyalty and trust, Its wiser to discuss matters first then assume.

Sure she can talk to him but does that mean he will be honest?
He could very likely just get more secretive. Of course if she feels it is worth waiting to see if he gets involved with her or is innocent that is fine.

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Originally Posted by Rabbit91

Your always giving advice to just drop the relationship and start new, why?

There is such thing as loyalty and trust, Its wiser to discuss matters first then assume.

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I think she is like me, and seen so much BS in relationships, you get to a point of why waste time trying to ride a dead horse. When loyalty and trust is broken, time to go!!

If my man has been good to me all throughout our relationship and just made that one but big mistake, maybe I'll just consider my relationship as "riding in a horse confined in veterinary ICU"- I may or may make it forgive. But ill try to give it a shot (If he shows an extreme efforts to be forgiven).

"i want you now" is pretty cut and dry when I read it... only reason I could ever see a girl sending me a message like that is if I was heavily flirting with her or even messing around with her... I think you made the right decision

Ask him but if he don't awnerser the question then you may be right I had a boyfriend who did that and I got rid of him and I don't regret it