Thanks all. I knew all this, but sometimes you just need to hear it again. Man, timing can really suck sometimes. I think I will call him in a couple of weeks and just casually say hi, hope he is doing well. Who knows maybe he will be single, maybe not. It definitely isn't something I want to get in the middle of. And who knows, maybe it will leave him thinking about me in the back of his head in the meantime.

Leave him alone, and keep going with what you were doing. The reason is your already getting all emotionally carried away, by a chance meeting with a guy who you know is
Unavailable, has issues with a failed relationship, doesn't know where he is going next, and you seem to want to overlook that, and just take a chance on being a rebound.

That's not good, nor healthy and you should be more mature, and guarded about those intense feelings, fueled by a few drinks.

You had a good time, now move on. There are other opportunities, and options for you, if you don't get hung up on this false alarm.

Well he needs his space right now for sure. If anything comes out of this for you just be his friend if you feel you want him around. Why not stop there for another casual drink to touch base with him. But don't get yourself all in the middle of his break up when you don't need to be. Let him be done with that relationship and if he feels ready and it clicked with you also I am sure you will hear from him.

I am going through the same thing... its horrible.. its driving me insane:mad: