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Originally Posted by ScottGem

I'm not saying you are a bad person. I think you are a good person who succeeded in life against the odds and you want others to achieve the same happiness you have. But what's happening is that you wind up encouraging young people to take risks they shouldn't. I don't think you realize that.

As to the three you quoted. I believe that two were taken out of context and the third is so obviously another teen that its not worth commenting on.

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I don't even know why you upset me so much! I'm sitting her crying! I'm not giving advise anymore because obviously I don't count just as I have always not counted! My opnion does not matter. I thought by giving my advise and my experience to other it would help them to know that someone else made it! I have tried to not let you bother me over the last year or so since I have been on her but it's not worth it! Why should I get on a site to "help" people when at the end of the day I just feel like crying! Forget it!

Sometimes I feel better after a good cry and can pick up calmly in the discussion where I left off.

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Originally Posted by MrsJoseph06

I don't even know why you upset me so much!

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I don't know why either. I've complimented you and it upsets you. Whatever you decide to do its your decision.

I believe that teenagers can fall in love, which is great, but I also think that the love a teenager feels is totally different that what an adult does. However, I think that their relationships rarely last "forever" because they are changing constantly, therefore what they look for in a mate changes also, thus affecting what and/or whom they love. I think about my "highschool sweetheart" and I could not imagine myself with him anymore... because I have grown into a totally different person, as will you some day. As you get older, you grow, your wants and needs change, and so will what you love. And I agree with ScottGem... teenagers are in love with being in love... just remember... you are 16, do you think that you will be the same person in a year... in ten years?

All of us have intense feelings for others, and love is only one of those feelings. As an adult, I was a teenagers at on time, and had to be guided the right way so I didn't self destruct, from what I didn't know, or understand. Some day soon, you teens will be adults, and hopefully you'll try to guide those that are teens, and have the knowledge to share that you know they don't have, so they won't self destruct from what they don't know and don't understand.
So its about love, when we adults tell you teens your not ready.