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  • May 10, 2008, 09:56 PM
    ChezzyBear
    Plus, I've been through a lot more than any normal 20 year old
  • May 11, 2008, 07:27 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ChezzyBear
    my mom is a crack whore who i havn't seen since i was 4 and my dad works to much to care
    and im not to young so dont say that.. thers no such thing as to young

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ChezzyBear
    plus, ive been through alot more than any normal 20 year old

    I don't think you have a clue what a normal 20 yr old has gone through. But I do believe you have gone through a lot. I feel sorry for you that you don't have parents who care for you and who are robbing you of your childhood. Your involvement with boys at your young age is an obvious cry for the affection you aren't getting at home.

    There certainly IS such a thing as too young. There is a reason why there is an age of majority. Children need to be given time to mature and learn how to deal with the realities of life. You obviously were robbed of that time and have grown up too soon. But I still think you have more growing up to do.

    I would recommend talking with a school counselor to get a better idea of how a normal 13 yr old acts and how to deal with your dysfunctional family situation.
  • May 12, 2008, 10:59 AM
    ChezzyBear
    Whatever
    Me and him are over..
    I have a girlfriend now who I love more than words can say
  • May 12, 2008, 11:01 AM
    ScottGem
    I think the Troll avatar is appropriate here.
  • May 12, 2008, 12:02 PM
    volta-rewind
    I disagree with the person who said that 13 is to young to be thinking about dating, now days it's pretty much natural to see kids that young together and stuff.
    I'm 16 but I know that even when I was 13 I thought about that kind of stuff as well.
    If you like each other then go for it :)
    But I wouldn't get wrapped up in it too much, and a word of advice, don't move to fast.

    :)
  • May 12, 2008, 01:00 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    plus, I've been through a lot more than any normal 20 year old
    Sorry you have no one to guide you to doing the right thing. What's sadder is you won't know how sad it is until your older.
  • May 12, 2008, 02:59 PM
    MommyLeah
    Anyone notice how only new members are agreeing with her? Think maybe she is answering herself?
  • May 12, 2008, 04:32 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MommyLeah
    Anyone notice how only new members are agreeing with her? Think maybe she is answering herself?

    Nope, way different IPs.

    This is typical, Kids find this place, see questions like this and want to stick it the adults who are giving advice that's logical, reasonable and from experience. So they give this advice from emotion and inexperience.
  • May 13, 2008, 02:59 PM
    moniquex0ox
    Age doesn't matter if yous both like each other it shouldn't but 13 is kind of young to be thinking about dating.
  • May 13, 2008, 03:08 PM
    x00okristeen
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ChezzyBear
    im 13 and theres a guy that i really like and i know that he really likes me to, and i want to know if its even legal for me and him to date since he's 16, im allot more mature then most girls my age and i actually think logically, but if its illegal then that won't even matter right?

    Nothing is the matter you should be able to date him , as long as u lk him & he lks you go for it
  • May 13, 2008, 05:35 PM
    ScottGem
    Some more kids who really want to believe that age doesn't matter with minors. Who will probably wake up when they get older and understand the facts of life.
  • May 15, 2008, 05:54 PM
    CFZD
    True!
    Especially love, it is more complicated than anything else in the world. Be cautious! Don't fall with the wrong person at the wrong time!

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