A guy that comes off like a nagging obsessive guy and acts needy is a big turn off to most girls and that is what she may be picturing you as. As long as you keep after her that is ALL she will see. All your questions about your relationship only make it worse because it validates that opinion and most likely she may feel she can not come right out and tell you she wants to forget you. But pressuring her for answers will not work so you have to leave her go even if she never comes back. Doing NC she may feel you are making progress in change.