One more thing before this post is forgotten...

I always feel that if everyone just gave 110% in a relationship, everything would be fine.

I live for him, he lives for me... We're both happy.

Just along the way, things are forgotten, people are taken for granted & feelings are hurt... Someone can't take it anymore and leaves then the other person's left feeling like "What went wrong?" They didn't realize what they had until it was gone. I always remind my boyfriend what a great guy he is and how happy I am to have him in my life. It's not always reciprocated, but I know that I'm doing my share and maybe, eventually, it'll rub off on him and I'll feel it back just as much... One can only hope.

I don't want to sound like Dr.Laura but us women do have a lot of control on what goes on. Not the bad kind of control but the good. And remember if we only take that first step to be kind (it might take more than once) it just might be what we need to keep the relationship good!

Different things go through a man's mind depending on the stage of love he is in:

When he first falls in love, he thinks of you all the time, and he thinks about sex.
After he's been in love for a few months, he still thinks of you half the day, spends the other half of the day thinking about sports.
After he's been married to you for twenty years or so, he mostly thinks about sports, and how good of a mom you are.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by self_lnflicted_hell

Wouldn't we all like to know?!?!

---

Hey, I never noticed it until now... Why did I get a disagree on this? LOL Thanks, now I have one red square among the green :p

Well that would be because we don't know what was in Jesushelpers mind when he gave it to you!! LOL You will have your greenie comeback!

Well, seeins how I'm a nice, forgiving person, I'll let it slide this one time ;)