Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Current Events (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=486)
-   -   Gay Marriage (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=728548)

  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:14 AM
    excon
    Gay Marriage
    Hello:

    Gay marriage is now LEGAL in my state. Provisions were made for the clergy to refuse to do them if they felt uncomfortable, but can JUDGES refuse?

    excon
  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:17 AM
    Oliver2011
    If judges refused that would probably open up the county/city to a whole lot of bad press and lawsuits. My guess would be no.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:36 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Have not read the complete law on it, but normally no, they represent the government, not a religion and have to uphold the law.
    Next a judge does not do a blessing of any kind and it is non religious in nature, so there should be no religious issues to it.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 08:52 AM
    excon
    Hello Padre:

    Quote:

    it is non religious in nature, so there should be no religious issues to it.
    Yet, some of our judges think it is. I don't know HOW it's going to work out.

    Is this the same issue as a pharmacist refusing to sell birth control or plan B? True, he's a PRIVATE businessman. But, he IS licensed by the state, and I'm sure the license requires certain standards to be met. At least, that's MY argument.

    Excon
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:04 AM
    tomder55
    Not quite . A judge is the employee of the state. If he doesn't like it he can resign from his position . He is NOT running his own shop.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:07 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    not quite . A judge is the employee of the state. If he doesn't like it he can resign from his position . He is NOT running his own shop.

    Your symbol would be nicer if it was a Cincinnati Reds logo!

    :)
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:20 AM
    tomder55
    If it's any consolation ;I was a fan of the Big Red Machine ;and got to see them whup the Mets at Shea.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:21 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    if it's any consolation ;I was a fan of the Big Red Machine ;and got to see them whup the Mets at Shea.

    Yeah that was an awesome team especially during the 76 World Series. Oops, sorry. I just love my team.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:23 AM
    tomder55
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Oliver2011 View Post
    Yeah that was an awesome team especially during the 76 World Series. Oops, sorry. I just love my team.

    No problem.. The Yanks were only learning how to win in 76 after a decade long slump.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 06:24 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Ok, not even understanding how we went from Gay marriage and judges to the 76 world series ?
  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:03 PM
    paraclete
    It has about as much relevance as how we link marriage to a gay relationship
  • Jan 19, 2013, 10:02 AM
    talaniman
    A gay relationship is no different than any human relationship, and marriage has its economic advantages that should be free to all.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 05:12 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    It has about as much relevance as how we link marriage to a gay relationship

    Excuse me?
  • Jan 21, 2013, 05:38 AM
    paraclete
    No!
  • Jan 21, 2013, 06:00 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    no!

    I am not sure why you would make a statement like that without defending your position. But that is your choice.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 06:13 AM
    paraclete
    I have no wish to start a discussion on the merits of marriage or gay relationships
  • Jan 21, 2013, 06:14 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    I have no wish to start a discussion on the merits of marriage or gay relationships

    Well then maybe you shouldn't have posted it then.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 10:13 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    I have no wish to start a discussion on the merits of marriage or gay relationships

    But that's the topic. And as long as money, property, and rights are concerned, then everyone should have access to the benefits of marriage, and risk of the consequences of divorce.

    I mean everybody is hollering about THEIR rights to guns, abortions, and making money, but turn around and tell others they have no rights.

    That's hypocrisy and BS.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 02:21 PM
    paraclete
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post

    I mean everybody is hollering about THEIR rights to guns, abortions, and making money, but turn around and tell others they have no rights.

    Thats hypocrisy and BS.

    But Tal I didn't tell anyone they had no rights I said I didn't see the relevance. I was responding to Chuck's comment about sport but as always some one has an axe to grind. I think my position on these issues is known, I neither need to explain it or justify it
  • Jan 21, 2013, 02:24 PM
    talaniman
    That's why we use quotes to avoid confusion.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 02:28 PM
    paraclete
    Hey Tal you do your thing and I'll do mine, if my individuality doesn't suit you, that is stiff cheese. When a respondent reads a comment I expect they take the time to look at the context but then perhaps I'm expecting too much
  • Jan 21, 2013, 02:57 PM
    talaniman
    Don't get testy with me because you cannot articulate your position. You know the rules, debate or be silent. Sometimes we have to repeat to clarify, but I see no position you have taken in this debate other than a comment on relevance. So lets have your position, and be done with a squabble over nothing.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 03:11 PM
    paraclete
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Don't get testy with me because you cannot articulate your position. You know the rules, debate or be silent. Sometimes we have to repeat to clarify, but I see no position you have taken in this debate other than a comment on relevance. So lets have your position, and be done with a squabble over nothing.

    Tal there are no rules, My position is I don't see the two matters are related. This is not up for debate. The pendulum is starting to swing back with people becoming less sympathic to minority views
  • Jan 21, 2013, 03:35 PM
    talaniman
    Maybe there Clete, but not in America. Minorities are on the rise here so take note, it may well happen there too.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 04:29 PM
    paraclete
    I think we have learned you can take things too far and in other places like Russia the same realisation exists. Values are important and the line has to be drawn somewhere. Just because someone has an idea doesn't mean we have to say yes. This is your PC taken to the ridiculous because it is opposing the majority view. You see we don't have a history of oppressing minorities we feel have to redress
  • Jan 21, 2013, 04:45 PM
    talaniman
    Beg to differ since the coalition of many minorities IS the majority view. That's not political correctness that's consensus.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 05:49 PM
    paraclete
    I think you have a different definition of minorities. When a minority becomes a majority it ceases to be a minority. Consensus is when people of differring political views usually with large constituencies argee on a common approach. I expect that within your minorities there are very different views on this subject
  • Jan 21, 2013, 10:49 PM
    talaniman
    We have many minorities in America Clete, and they grow as we speak, while the white majority shrinks, but Obama's coalition that got him elected was Whites, Blacks, Asians, Latinos, Females, Young people, Gay people.They were united against Mr.Romney because his ideas weren't feasible or attractive to them. It helped nothing that repubs actually insulted every group I have named, but they voted in large numbers against republicans as a nation and many local and state races for congress.

    Among republicans consensus is a dirty word, especially since they chose as their minority the rich guys who screwed us all over, and the ultra conservatives whose agenda was social domination that promoted their way of life which females and gays said NO WAY. They ignored the Latinos, and Asians completely, so they were doomed to their own downfall, and will fall further until they become more inclusive and embrace consensus as we all want.

    So the term minorities has a whole different meaning in a nation that's a melting pot for the entire world. Racially, culturally, class,and gender. No one is better than another and second class treatment is unacceptable. So you see it took many minorities to join together to be a majority.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 11:02 PM
    paraclete
    Hey Tal you aren't alone in being a melting pot, but the difference is we don't create minorities, what we say is if you are a citizen that is as far as it goes, so we have some communities but we are really speaking about localities because we can have many ethnicties in a locality but certain people group together and we don't refer to people with the sort of ethnic tags you do, which, of course, makes sure they know they are a minority. The only officially recognised "minorities" or priority groups here are aboriginal, women and asylum seekers but one thing we do do is print official notices in about twenty languages
  • Jan 21, 2013, 11:22 PM
    talaniman
    Righties here don't like going an extra mile for anyone who can't speak English.
  • Jan 22, 2013, 03:50 AM
    paraclete
    Yes, well maybe they need to learn the meaning of the word;inclusive. Many years ago whether we liked it or not we decided we would accept multiculturalism, you were allowed to be who you are and all we asked is your loyalty. You could say we took a long term view, hey I've even heard of Greeks migrating the second time around. No questions asked except, maybe, what are you bringing with you?

    I think we might now view that experiment as a failure, mainly becaue of recent arrivals, however there are some legacies, like being more inclusive

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:25 PM.