Quote:
We had people who helped us, but it was primarily us and God.
Talk about not answering the question...! Who were the people who helped you? HOW did they help you? How did God help you and your family?
[QUOTE]I'm so glad that we never entered into your realm, where people just handed us money. Doing without taught us to work harder, and it made us respect and value each other. It's terrible that you deprive others of that. If you think that is not the case, then I question how much you have actually been involved with poor people.{/QUOTE]
I have never been in, or seen where anyone was just handed money. I have seen people wait all day for an interview and get assessed and explained as to what could be done, and the rules they have to adhere to, and what was expected of them if they did get help. It's quite a long and tedious process to sign up for any public assistance program, and follow through to keep that assistance, by showing COMPLIANCE and need, but of course you know that, but intentionally made it sound like a snap done deal, just show up with your hands out. Question all you want, but I know how to guide people through that process to get what they need to stand on there own. There is a whole network of us out here who know and want to help the willing through the challenges of learning how to fish and where the fish are biting.
Quote:
I worked at inner city schools many years. Our church was involved with inner city people. There were a lot of great parents we worked with, but the negative effects of welfare were very obvious.
I have to ask if it's the effects of public assistance programs, or the challenges of the process of those programs. Would appreciate elaboration if you can to those negative effects, as my experience indicates past traumas, or lack of support as being the obvious effects of a larger situation which has nothing to do with getting the right help to those that need it. Often is the case that food and shelter are not enough and more health centered assistance is more needed, maybe short term for some but many fall into the longer term more extensive assistance needed category.