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  • Aug 12, 2009, 03:41 AM
    tomder55

    Quote:

    Please quote the provision
    PAGE 838 sections 440 and 1904 of the House bill ,under the heading "home visitation programs for families with young children and families expecting children."

    Previously this was the “Education Begins at Home Act” introduced in 2008 by Rep. Danny Davis (D-IL) and Sen. Kit Bond (R-MO)
    It was then added into the House plan.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 04:38 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    PAGE 838 sections 440 and 1904 of the House bill ,under the heading "home visitation programs for families with young children and families expecting children."

    Where does it say that they are going to tell you how to raise your children?

    We already have a program here like that here, where new mothers can have visits from RNs that are specialized in newborn care. The mothers love it and it's a popular program.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 05:38 AM
    tomder55
    Glad you like it but you are comparing apples and oranges . This is the nanny state sending in nanny monitors to make sure you are indoctinating your children properly .We don't need the government coming into our homes telling us how to raise our kids.

    As ususal it is vaguely worded which leaves it to the bureaucrat to interpret the degree of intrusiveness permitted . The wording of the bill says “well-trained and competent staff” will…provide parents with knowledge of age-appropriate child development in cognitive, language, social, emotional, and motor domainsmodeling, consulting, and coaching on parenting practices; [and] skills to interact with their child…the state will “prioritize serving communities that are in high need of such services, especially communities with a high proportion of low-income families or a high incidence of child maltreatment.”

    In other words ;the rich may get a pass ;but the poor will not get off so easily . Evidently good parenting is equated with personal finance and income .
  • Aug 12, 2009, 05:46 AM
    NeedKarma
    Yea, that's exactly what we have here. They answer parents' questions.
    YOU
    choose to throw the nanny-state and "indoctinating" bullcrap because that's what Limbaugh and Beck tell you. We also have a great 3.5 year old mandatory assessment to see if any children need help with vision, motor skills, etc before the start of kindergarten. All to give them the best chance at success.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 06:09 AM
    tomder55

    Lol I guess I'm wasting my time telling you I neither listen to Rush nor have ever seen the Glen Beck show... both are on while I am working . Honestly if I was to add up my time watching and listening to any media I would say it is time spent mostly in the left wing spin outlets. I watch ABC world news and watch Chris Matthews ,Jon Stewart and Steve Colbert when Yank games aren't on.

    However if that is what Rush and Beck say I completely agree with them . And of course ,as always ,you are free to believe what you want.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 06:20 AM
    ETWolverine

    I've been concentrating on all the other provisions of the bill that I missed the one about nanny-state parenting.

    NeedKarma, do you think it is the government's job to tell parents how to raise their kids?

    What happens if someone gets a visit from a "parenting counselor" who gives the parent unsolicited "advice" on raising kids, and the parent decides not to take that advice, either for philosophical reasons, or cultural reasons, or religious reasons? Does the government get to take action against that parent?

    What if I don't want a visit from a parenting counselor?

    Or for that matter, what if I don't want a visit from an "end-of-life counselor"?

    Do I get to refuse these services?

    Based on what I've read, I HAVE to accept these things. I don't have a choice.

    There are plenty of good organizations out there that teach parenting to new mothers and fathers. Why does the government need to get involved?

    This is the issue that nobody on the left seems able to answer: Why is this an issue for the government to deal with? Why should the government be involved in parenting at all? I do not want the government involved in determining how I raise my two children, much less telling me that I'm doing it wrong.

    When everything is controlled from a centralized government (the economy, health care, parenting, death issues, travel, energy use), what you end up with is NOTHING SHORT OF COMMUNISM.

    Also, what does parent-counseling have to do with health care? Why is this provision part of the health care bill at all?

    Elliot
  • Aug 12, 2009, 06:23 AM
    speechlesstx

    I'm happy for you NK that you trust your government so much. Me, I have a healthy skepticism of a government that wants to delve into providing parents with "knowledge of age-appropriate child development in cognitive, language, social, emotional, and motor domains…modeling, consulting, and coaching on parenting practices."

    With whose values?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 06:32 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    There are plenty of good organizations out there that teach parenting to new mothers and fathers.

    Like who?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 06:56 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    Like who?

    Just off the top of my head?

    Take Five Parenting:
    Children's Trust Fund - Celebrating 10 Years

    They in turn link to:
    National Effective Parenting Initiative
    https://www.effectiveparentingusa.org

    That's two that I found in under 5 minutes. (I already knew about Take 5.) Think there aren't others out there?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 07:00 AM
    NeedKarma
    How about nurses?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 07:30 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    How about nurses?

    What about nurses? We're talking about organizations that help teach young parents how to parent. You asked what organizations there are. I responded with two good websites. What do nurses have to do with anything?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 07:35 AM
    NeedKarma
    They are the ones that offer support services here. I imagine it would be the same in the US plan.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 07:39 AM
    speechlesstx

    I always thought the job of nurses was to take care of sick and injured people.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 07:52 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I always thought the job of nurses was to take care of sick and injured people.

    Well, that would make sense... so... no, that's not how things are going to be done by the government.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 07:53 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    They are the ones that offer support services here. I imagine it would be the same in the US plan.

    Why should the government be doing it at all? Why is parenting the government's responsibility?

    This is the question you need to answer.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 07:54 AM
    NeedKarma
    So you view nurses as being the government?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:02 AM
    excon

    Hello again,

    I didn't read the part you guys are talking about... Why should I?? I might as well be as ignorant as YOU guys are on this issue...

    The provision you're talking about is free parenting classes... Now, only a right wing jerk would call that a nanny state. Or maybe this is the part where they tell you how to kill your kids... I don't know... You sure can't trust those Dems... Good thing YOU guys are in power... (snicker, snicker)

    So, because you guys aren't willing to participate in reasonable debate, this bill is going to be SHOVED down your throats... That's the way people in power DO things. No?

    excon
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:10 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    So you view nurses as being the government?

    Only when they're employed by the government and are there to check out your parenting skills at the mandate of the government.

    Don't you?

    But again, you are avoiding answering the important question.

    Why is it the government's job to be involved in parenting?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:12 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again,

    I didn't read the part you guys are talking about.... Why should I??? I might as well be as ignorant as YOU guys are on this issue...

    The provision you're talking about is free parenting classes... Now, only a right wing jerk would call that a nanny state. Or maybe this is the part where they tell you how to kill your kids.... I dunno... You sure can't trust those Dems.... Good thing YOU guys are in power..... (snicker, snicker)

    So, because you guys aren't willing to participate in reasonable debate, this bill is going to be SHOVED down your throats.... That's the way people in power DO things. No?

    excon

    Well, it's clear you didn't read it. Nor have you read Steve's post on the subject, because he gave you the exact wording of the bill.

    But then you've never been one to let facts get in the way of a good anti-Republican rant.

    Elliot
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:16 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    Only when they're employed by the government and are there to check out your parenting skills at the mandate of the government.

    Don't you?

    But again, you are avoiding answering the important question.

    Why is it the government's job to be involved in parenting?

    Where does it say it is mandatory?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:23 AM
    tomder55

    It is voluntary like paying income taxes is .
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:23 AM
    NeedKarma
    Directly from the text of the bill:
    Quote:

    ''(a) PURPOSE.—The purpose of this section is to im-
    Prove the well-being, health, and development of children
    By enabling the establishment and expansion of high qual-
    Ity programs providing voluntary home visitation for fami-
    Lies with young children and families expecting children.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:24 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    it is voluntary like paying income taxes is .

    See my post. You lie or are ignorant, which one is it? (See? I learned that from you!)
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:29 AM
    N0help4u

    ''(a) PURPOSE.—The purpose of this section is to im-
    Prove the well-being, health, and development of children
    By enabling the establishment and expansion of high qual-
    Ity programs providing voluntary home visitation for fami-
    Lies with young children and families expecting children.

    So why is anybody going to volunteer wanting this service?
    Nobody likes when authorities comes to their house about their kids for whatever reasons.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:32 AM
    tomder55
    I've seen gvt social workers at work in this country. It can be quite intrusive over the slimmest pretext... often prompted by a complaint by a neighbor with a grudge. . I've seen how voluntary compliance works . I mentioned before that the provision is written vaguely enough that it leaves these gvt. Workers who generally I do not trust ,wide disgression.

    Another posting here recently related a story how an IRS flunky tried to intimidate a charitible organization because of it's political views. Who's to say that the same wouldn't apply when some field worker deems parents unworthy ?

    I'll ignore your personal attack .
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:34 AM
    excon

    Hello N0:

    I agree especially when you realize that the visiting bureaucrat is going to be keeping an eye out for any oldster he can kill.

    excon
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:36 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Nobody likes when authorities comes to their house about their kids for whatever reasons.

    Some people like having a nurse help to show a mother how to help the baby latch on properly or how to bathe a wriggly baby. What bits are you worried about?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:37 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    Well, it's clear you didn't read it. Nor have you read Steve's post on the subject, because he gave you the exact wording of the bill.

    Hello again, El:

    You say "the exact wording of the bill", as though the exact wording MEANS something to you... How could any sane man think your words mean ANYTHING, when you take end of life consultation to mean "death panels"??

    Well, I'm here to tell you, no SANE man would, and I don't.

    excon
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:38 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    Well, it's clear you didn't read it. Nor have you read Steve's post on the subject, because he gave you the exact wording of the bill.

    He didn't... then he lied.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:41 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    He didn't...then he lied.

    You keep saying that... but you haven't once been able to show it. Saying that he lied over and over again doesn't make it more true than the first time you said it.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:43 AM
    ETWolverine

    And, NK, you still haven't answered my question.

    Why is it the government's business to get involved in parenting?

    I'm going to keep on pointing out that you haven't answered this question until you either answer it or admit that you don't have an answer.

    Elliot
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:45 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    Why is it the government's business to get involved in parenting?

    Ok you little spammer :)

    It's not the government, it's nurses.

    BTW you have issues with conduct on discussion boards. Check out Slashdot.org for what reasoned, respectful discussion looks like. Your posts would be buried deep there.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:46 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    Why is it the government's business to get involved in parenting?

    Hello again, El:

    I'll answer... Because SOME segments of our society don't believe in teaching their children about real life. They'd rather teach them to pretend... So, the government is going to set them straight, before they grow up to be Republicans.

    excon
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:54 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    Ok you little spammer :)

    It's not the government, it's nurses.

    Then what's it doing in a government bill?

    Quote:

    BTW you have issues with conduct on discussion boards. Check out Slashdot.org for what reasoned, respectful discussion looks like. Your posts would be buried deep there.
    I'm not on slashdot. I'm here, and I'm following YOUR lead in terms of ettiquette.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 08:55 AM
    ETWolverine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, El:

    I'll answer.... Because SOME segments of our society don't believe in teaching their children about real life. They'd rather teach them to pretend... So, the government is gonna set them straight, before they grow up to be Republicans.

    excon

    So you believe that it is the government's job to be involved in thje political indoctrination of our children.

    Thought so.

    At least you're honest about it. That's more than I can say about NK.

    Elliot
  • Aug 12, 2009, 09:00 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    So you believe that it is the government's job to be involved in thje political indoctrination of our children.

    Hello again, El:

    Yeahhh... And, if the parent objects, they're going to send 'em to the FEMA DEATH CAMPS that Obama started. They're run by the "brown shirts" who work for ACORN.

    I guess you can't tell when I'm ribbing you, huh? Might as well. When words don't mean anything anymore, what's left but BS?

    excon
  • Aug 12, 2009, 09:00 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    So you believe that it is the government's job to be involved in thje political indoctrination of our children.

    I missed the part in that bill where they say they are going to politically indoctrinate the children. Can you point that out for me please?
  • Aug 12, 2009, 09:01 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ETWolverine View Post
    Then what's it doing in a government bill?

    'Cause that's where the funding comes from.
  • Aug 12, 2009, 09:02 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    I missed the part in that bill where they say they are going to politically indoctrinate the children. Can you point that out for me please?

    Hello NK:

    It's not in there. I made it up. What?? The righty's are the only ones who can do that??

    excon
  • Aug 12, 2009, 09:10 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    He didn't...then he lied.

    He lied? No, I make mistakes sometimes but I don't come here and lie. And in this post I quoted tom's excerpt from the bill, you aren't even on the same subject with this pathetic accusation.

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