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  • Feb 3, 2013, 09:48 PM
    paraclete
    How do you edit someoneelse's posts?
  • Feb 4, 2013, 05:40 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    You have this all twisted and so do they. That they want to take an ethical stance is commendable but not constitutional. The members of the church are not being forced to use contraceptives and the provision of health care insurance is not a matter covered under the provisions of the constituition relating to the establishment and conduct of a religion. The church is not being forced to violate any standard, since, as I said before, the use of contraceptives is not forced or enforced by the provisions, the members of the church are simply being placed in the same status as any other human being.

    We all have to be protected from the thought police and the inquisition in all its forms, this is a case of the inquisition in action, dealing with private communication between a health insurer and its client to enforce a church doctrine. If you allow them to get away with this they will be interrogating the members to determine whether they have used contraceptives next

    Clete, that's some really irrelevant non-reality based gobbledygook.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 05:46 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Choice is great, but if it doesn't meet your needs then its useless. Then the employee must make a choice to meet THEIR needs. Thats why a supplemental insurance to cover those that don't have their needs met was the compromise.

    Why would you deny an employee going outside the church to make their own choices? It no longer matters what choices the church offers does it, when you can have your own.

    You are saying church employees have no right to look beyond the choices the church makes for them. You say the church pays for these extra insurance policies, I say they don't. Its the same as any special rider you get, beyond your employer provided insurance.

    I said without the employer there would be no policy. That's choice, they choose a plan and pay a premium... you choose to accept their offer and work there or not. You are not guaranteed employment somewhere that fills all your wants and needs. What's next, compulsory free employer provided day care, fitness rooms, massages
  • Feb 4, 2013, 06:11 AM
    paraclete
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    Clete, that's some really irrelevant non-reality based gobbledygook.

    Think what you may speech but there are red herrings a plenty in these debates
  • Feb 4, 2013, 06:25 AM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    how do you edit someoneelse's posts?

    You can NOT edit someone else's post. Only the OP has that right for a limited time. The only other way is if you're a Super Mod. They are allowed to edit an OP's post for content.

    Other then that you can do light editing if it is a quote. But only the quote will be edited and not the Original Post.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 06:35 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    Why is tal editing my posts?

    Your post wasn't edited, you have a time stamp note because I hit the wrong button.

    I actually meant to edit my own post.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 07:41 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    Think what you may speech but there are red herrings a plenty in these debates

    They aren't coming from me. But let's break down your post...

    Quote:

    You have this all twisted and so do they. That they want to take an ethical stance is commendable but not constitutional.
    Wrong, it is not merely an ethical stance it is a doctrinal stance which the constitution does protect.

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    The members of the church are not being forced to use contraceptives and
    No one is saying they are.

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    the provision of health care insurance is not a matter covered under the provisions of the constituition relating to the establishment and conduct of a religion. The church is not being forced to violate any standard,
    Wrong, the mandate is against church doctrine and forces it to violate said doctrine if they furnish insurance coverage. If the church cannot stay true to their doctrine that is a violation of the free exercise clause.

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    since, as I said before, the use of contraceptives is not forced or enforced by the provisions, the members of the church are simply being placed in the same status as any other human being.
    Wrong, the issue is not about forcing anyone to use contraceptives, that's a red herring. The issue is forcing the church to pay for contraceptives and abortifacients against church doctrine - directly or indirectly - and redefining what qualifies as a religious institution with first amendment protection.

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    We all have to be protected from the thought police and the inquisition in all its forms, this is a case of the inquisition in action, dealing with private communication between a health insurer and its client to enforce a church doctrine.
    Another red herring. No one is asking the insurer to enforce church doctrine or forcing church members to adhere to church doctrine. The issue is as I stated in the previous paragraph, it is about EMPLOYEES and the benefits they receive. If they don't like the benefits they're free to find employment elsewhere.

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    If you allow them to get away with this they will be interrogating the members to determine whether they have used contraceptives next
    That's just plain bullsh*t.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 08:13 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    If they don't like the benefits they're free to find employment elsewhere.
    That's the choice you give? There are other options besides yours. That's what you are mad about because if they look around, they can keep their job and your benefits, and get more choices than you offer, on their own.

    The churches attempt to limit an individuals choices will fail, but you guys will come up with something else, no doubt.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 08:31 AM
    excon
    Hello again, Steve:

    Quote:

    If they don't like the benefits they're free to find employment elsewhere.
    If we didn't let black people live in certain neighborhoods, you could answer in the same vein... But, I'll bet you wouldn't, because you can SEE the inherent UNFAIRNESS of THAT position..

    Or, maybe you can't.

    But, because people like you AREN'T able to discern inherent unfairness, we wrote a Constitutional Amendment about it. Nonetheless, you STILL are UNABLE to grasp the VERY obvious UNFAIRNESS embodied in your position.

    That's OK. People like you will NEVER be convinced. That's why my beloved Constitution will prevail.. I thought you LOVED the Constitution... No, huh?

    Excon
  • Feb 4, 2013, 08:44 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    That's the choice you give?

    Uh yeah, it's called freedom.

    Quote:

    There are other options besides yours. That's what you are mad about because if they look around, they can keep their job and your benefits, and get more choices than you offer, on their own.
    Dude, all I know is if I own a business I'm the only one that should be calling the shots. That's how it works, but that's what you are mad about, you want to call the shots for someone else's business, soup kitchen and obviously the Church. If you don't like how others do things start your own and do it your way.

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    The churches attempt to limit an individuals choices will fail, but you guys will come up with something else, no doubt.
    Now that's a red herring.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 08:51 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, Steve:

    If we didn't let black people live in certain neighborhoods, you could answer in the same vein... But, I'll bet you wouldn't, because you can SEE the inherent UNFAIRNESS of THAT position..

    Or, maybe you can't.

    But, because people like you AREN'T able to discern inherent unfairness, we wrote a Constitutional Amendment about it. Nonetheless, you STILL are UNABLE to see grasp the VERY obvious UNFAIRNESS embodied in your position.

    Life isn't fair, and I'm OK with that. But speaking of meaningless things, it's the liberal use of "fairness." You can't define it, you can't create it and your attempts to make life fair are inherently unfair to those you impose on to create your utopia.

    Quote:

    That's OK. People like you will NEVER be convinced. That's why my beloved Constitution will prevail.. I thought you LOVED the Constitution... No, huh?
    As soon as you can show me where free contraceptives are a constitutional right and defend my specifically enumerated first and second amendment rights I'll listen. You haven't and you won't, you don't like those parts of the constitution.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 09:00 AM
    excon
    Hello again, Steve:

    Quote:

    As soon as you can show me where free contraceptives are a constitutional right and defend my specifically enumerated first and second amendment rights I'll listen.
    We've been here before, but you don't want to get it.. That's OK. I'm patient... The COOL thing about our wonderful Constitution, is that it's NOT written in legalese.. It uses SIMPLE easily UNDERSTOOD words. Here's the relevant portion of the 14th Amendment: The state may NOT "deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws." That means, if a company is going to cover MENS health needs, it needs to cover Women's health needs.

    Now, you can SAY that if women don't like it, they can seek employment somewhere else... But, that's NOT what our Constitution says... I cannot imagine how your reading of that sentence differs from mine..

    Do you think they just wrote those words to take up space? What the hell do you think those words MEAN?? I'm listening.

    Excon
  • Feb 4, 2013, 09:22 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, Steve:

    We've been here before, but you don't want to get it.. That's OK. I'm patient... The COOL thing about our wonderful Constitution, is that it's NOT written in legalese.. It uses SIMPLE easily UNDERSTOOD words. Here's the relevant portion of the 14th Amendment: The state may NOT "deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws." That means, if a company is going to cover MENS health needs, it needs to cover Women's health needs.

    Oh I get it, and I've already addressed that. No employer offers men one one policy and women another, they get the same policy. I'm OK with not covering Viagra except for medical necessity, it's used to treat pulmonary hypertension you know.

    Quote:

    Now, you can SAY that if women don't like it, they can seek employment somewhere else... But, that's NOT what our Constitution says... I cannot imagine how your reading of that sentence differs from mine..
    That's because you're under the same mistaken impression as tal, the constitution does not guarantee whatever employer provided benefits you think you deserve. Please, tell me where that's in there

    Quote:

    Do you think they just wrote those words to take up space? What the hell do you think those words MEAN?? I'm listening.
    Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof

    What the hell do you think that means? It's SIMPLE and EASY to understand.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 09:30 AM
    talaniman
    Even if contraceptives are not a protected right, it doesn't mean they can't be free, or accessible. Now if insurance companies agree to give them out, how is that the business of a church?

    They can always stop doing business with them, and go elsewhere. Just because you hate government doesn't mean everyone does, and I believe in government "for the people, by the people", and will resist any effort to subvert it otherwise.

    That's not liberal talk, but American talk, and you have a right to disagree of course :)
  • Feb 4, 2013, 09:43 AM
    excon
    Hello again, Steve:

    Quote:

    the constitution does not guarantee whatever employer provided benefits you think you deserve. Please, tell me where that's in there
    This ISN'T about what we WANT, or think we DESERVE. It's about treating people EQUALLY... That's NOT a difficult concept.. If they offer it to ONE sex, they MUST offer it to the OTHER.. I don't know WHY you don't get it. IF they offer (that's a key word) MEN'S health care, then the law says quite CLEARLY, that they MUST offer WOMEN'S health care...

    You talk about Viagra... But, what about treating prostate problems... What about testicle problems? What about urethra problems?? Should men get those services? Should denying women's health care result in THESE mens services being withheld?? Why should MEN have to get a supplemental policy that they PAY for themselves to get THOSE services, and ONLY those services?? I don't even know IF a policy for that exists..

    Excon
  • Feb 4, 2013, 10:07 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Even if contraceptives are not a protected right, it doesn't mean they can't be free, or accessible. Now if insurance companies agree to give them out, how is that the business of a church?

    They can always stop doing business with them, and go elsewhere. Just because you hate government doesn't mean everyone does, and I believe in government "for the people, by the people", and will resist any effort to subvert it otherwise.

    That's not liberal talk, but American talk, and you have a right to disagree of course :)

    They ARE accessible, that's the red herring in all of this - the mandate was a cure in search of a disease. There was no problem with access, contraceptive was use was already almost UNIVERSAL in the US.

    In fact... NYC schools hand out 12,721 ‘morning-after’ pills.

    Quote:

    New York City schools are offering young girls a full menu of birth control options, free of parental counsel, thanks to an unpublicized project by Mayor Michael Bloomberg’s administration.

    School nurses handed out 12,721 doses of the Plan B One-Step “morning-after” pill in 2011-12, up from 10,720 in 2010-11 and 5,039 in 2009-10, the New York Post reports.

    Mona Davids, president of the NYC Parents Union, was stunned by the report.

    “I’m in shock,” she said. “What gives the mayor the right to decide, without adequate notice, to give our children drugs that will impact their bodies and their psyches? He has purposely kept the public and parents in the dark with his agenda.”

    Besides “emergency contraception,” about 40 school-based clinics have dispensed prescriptions for contraception, intrauterine devices and hormone-delivering injections, the Post reports. Officials refused to discuss the project.
    I forgot to mention subverting parental authority in my list of things the left has done to create the mess they're whining about now. I mean hey, why should a teenager, dependent on her parents for food, clothing, shelter and protection have to get permission to be administered abortifacients and hormone injections? Parents don't need to know what the government is doing to their children or God forbid, have a CHOICE in how to raise their children. This should pi$$ you off, but I know you'll make excuses.

    When women get prostates and testicles we can discuss covering them. Please.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 10:34 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    They ARE accessible, that's the red herring in all of this - the mandate was a cure in search of a disease. There was no problem with access, contraceptive was use was already almost UNIVERSAL in the US.

    In fact...NYC schools hand out 12,721 ‘morning-after’ pills.



    I forgot to mention subverting parental authority in my list of things the left has done to create the mess they're whining about now. I mean hey, why should a teenager, dependent on her parents for food, clothing, shelter and protection have to get permission to be administered abortifacients and hormone injections? Parents don't need to know what the government is doing to their children or God forbid, have a CHOICE in how to raise their children. This should pi$$ you off, but I know you'll make excuses.

    When women get prostates and testicles we can discuss covering them. Please.

    Actually I believe that parents should be the final authority, but sadly many are not there to stop the youth from behaving badly, and engaging in risky behavior,and many of our youth fear there parents when they make mistakes.

    But your argument that when woman grow balls and the rest that comes with it then you will cover the maintanance is kind of ridiculous ince God didn't make 'em that way and different does not mean inferior.

    Ex is right you do discriminate to make females dependent on men.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 11:08 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Actually I believe that parents should be the final authority, but sadly many are not there to stop the youth from behaving badly, and engaging in risky behavior,and many of our youth fear there parents when they make mistakes. .

    Yeah well, nanny Bloomberg is just like Planned Parenthood and many 'educators', they don't care what the parents want, they think they know what's best for your child.

    Quote:

    But your argument that when woman grow balls and the rest that comes with it then you will cover the maintanance is kind of ridiculous ince God didn't make 'em that way and different does not mean inferior.
    I see the joke went right over your head.

    Quote:

    Ex is right you do discriminate to make females dependent on men
    Are you kidding me? I serve my wife and daughter and their friends, I don't subjugate them as your government polices do. The mandate is a cure in search of a disease and it violates the first amendment. That is no red herring.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 11:25 AM
    tomder55
    Quote:

    Actually I believe that parents should be the final authority, but sadly many are not there to stop the youth from behaving badly
    Sort of demonstrates what Speech is talking about... the unintended consequences of liberal policies...
  • Feb 4, 2013, 01:56 PM
    Tuttyd
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    sorta demonstrates what Speech is talking about ....the unintended consequences of liberal policies...



    Nonsense Tom.

    The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect and love to chatter in place of exercise. Plato



    What liberal policies were evident in ancient Athens that cause this problem?

    Tut
  • Feb 4, 2013, 03:01 PM
    tomder55
    Tut I'm sure ancient Greece was decadent in their decline .
  • Feb 4, 2013, 04:00 PM
    speechlesstx
    I was reminded of this little gem from Obama the candidate in 2008...

    Quote:

    "Children who grow up without a father are five times more likely to live in poverty and commit crime, nine times more likely to drop out of schools, and 20 times more likely to end up in prison. They are more likely to have behavioral problems, or run away from home or become teenage parents themselves. And the foundations of our community are weaker because of it."
  • Feb 4, 2013, 04:06 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I was reminded of this little gem from Obama the candidate in 2008...

    That should be your little gem too. Now, let's do something about it.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 04:23 PM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I was reminded of this little gem from Obama the candidate in 2008...

    You would think the courts would be more proactive with fathers but sorely they are not. They need to stop viewing fathers as walking wallets that are idiots about being able to take care of children.
  • Feb 4, 2013, 06:55 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I was reminded of this little gem from Obama the candidate in 2008...

    Someone in the press corpse should stand up and remind him... yea right... likes that's ever going to happen.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 01:10 AM
    Tuttyd
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    Tut I'm sure ancient Greece was decadent in their decline .


    Tom, I can assure you without a shadow of a doubt that decadence was not and is not the exclusive domain of liberalism. So what are you trying to tell me?


    Tut
  • Feb 5, 2013, 03:25 AM
    Tuttyd
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I was reminded of this little gem from Obama the candidate in 2008...

    So, you are saying that Obama is actively working against the family unit?


    Tut
  • Feb 5, 2013, 07:43 AM
    tomder55
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tuttyd View Post
    Tom, I can assure you without a shadow of a doubt that decadence was not and is not the exclusive domain of liberalism. So what are you trying to tell me?


    Tut

    Of course it is not the exclusive domain of liberalism .
    Decadence is a luxurious self-indulgence. It is often used to describe a decline due to an erosion of moral, ethical, or sexual traditions.

    In the United States case it can be traced to the things Speech described .If it makes you feel better.. I'll call it progressive policies.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 08:08 AM
    excon
    Hello again, tom:

    Quote:

    Decadence is a luxurious self-indulgence. It is often used to describe a decline due to an erosion of moral, ethical, or sexual traditions.

    In the United States case it can be traced to the things Speech described. If it makes you feel better.. I'll call it progressive policies.
    Your side laments the spread of freedom. You always have. You view it as a LOSS, whereas it's actually a GAIN.

    I'd call it progressive policies, too.

    Excon
  • Feb 5, 2013, 09:10 AM
    tomder55
    I like the freedom to decide the size of a drink. Your freedom allows the state to give my daughter unlimited access to abortifacient in school without my permission.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 09:40 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tuttyd View Post
    So, you are saying that Obama is actively working against the family unit?


    Tut

    No, I wish he would say such things more often.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 09:45 AM
    excon
    Hello again, tom:

    Quote:

    I like the freedom to decide the size of a drink. Your freedom allows the state to give my daughter unlimited access to abortifacient in school without my permission.
    What? You don't know how to say give me TWO!

    Yes, even your daughter has dominion over her own body.

    Excon
  • Feb 5, 2013, 09:50 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, tom:

    What? You don't know how to say give me TWO!

    I thought you liked the freedom to choose.

    Quote:

    Yes, even your daughter has dominion over her own body.
    So in your world parents have no rights. Yep, you guys keep proving my opinion on liberal policies correct.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 09:56 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I thought you liked the freedom to choose.

    He did. He chose two, one Cola and one Sprite.
    Quote:

    So in your world parents have no rights.
    What have the parents been teaching their daughter all those years? Or is she floundering all clueless and looking for love and subject to the whims of her peers and unscrupulous people?
  • Feb 5, 2013, 09:59 AM
    excon
    Hello again, Steve:

    Quote:

    So in your world parents have no rights.
    If your daughter can screw under your nose, then she can get an abortion under there too.

    After she's pregnant, and you've already FAILED at being a staunch right wing father, you have NO right to inflict yourself into her life at THIS point. This is HER body, and it's HER decision what to do with it.

    Excon
  • Feb 5, 2013, 10:08 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    He did. He chose two, one Cola and one Sprite.

    So why can't he choose one 32oz?

    Quote:

    What have the parents been teaching their daughter all those years? Or is she floundering all clueless and looking for love and subject to the whims of her peers and unscrupulous people?
    Personally, I really don't care. That the school would give my minor child abortifacients and hormone injections without my consent is an outrage that should have everyone up in arms.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 10:09 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, Steve:


    If your daughter can screw under your nose, then she can get an abortion under there too.

    After she's pregnant, and you've already FAILED at being a staunch right wing father, you have NO right to inflict yourself into her life at THIS point. This is HER body, and it's HER decision what to do with it.

    excon

    Bullsh*t, that's EXACTLY the wrong attitude.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 10:12 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    Bullsh*t, that's EXACTLY the wrong attitude.

    Parents owe it to their kids to bring them up with a healthy knowledge about and respect for their own bodies as well as respect for others'. That's what is missing today.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 10:21 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Parents owe it to their kids to bring them up with a healthy knowledge about and respect for their own bodies as well as respect for others'. That's what is missing today.

    And the problem is the left feels fine giving birth control and abortions to kids without their parents permission... but let someone in the class hold a paryer and they get their panties in a knot.
  • Feb 5, 2013, 10:28 AM
    tomder55
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Parents owe it to their kids to bring them up with a healthy knowledge about and respect for their own bodies as well as respect for others'. That's what is missing today.

    What's missing is the support the community gave those parents. Now the community undermines the parents ,and ,the schools the government says to the kids... "it's ok to screw around" .

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