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  • Feb 21, 2014, 11:27 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Well hell, how the freak do you tell a REAL Christian from a fake one?

    Don't know, but don't you think they should argue honestly? That was either horsesh*t or I've just missed all the he-man woman hater, gay bashing, education hating, theocracy 101 meetings. I'm going with it's horsesh*T.
  • Feb 21, 2014, 11:43 AM
    talaniman
    Since you can't tell, and neither can I then I sue the Christian that discriminates against me. How about that, let the court sort it out.
  • Feb 21, 2014, 11:49 AM
    tomder55
    Quote:

    PS>Baseball?
    If y'all want me to be the commish again , I'll try to set up a league over the weekend .
  • Feb 21, 2014, 11:56 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    If y'all want me to be the commish again , I'll try to set up a league over the weekend .

    Go for it boss.
  • Feb 21, 2014, 04:48 PM
    paraclete
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    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/images...post-right.png
    Well hell, how the freak do you tell a REAL Christian from a fake one?
    Now Tal I thought you might at least know the answer to that one, the real Christians arn't the ones with guns in their hands
  • Feb 21, 2014, 05:18 PM
    smoothy
    Really... if real Christians were pacifist pansies... the Romans would have killed them all off in the 1st century AD.
  • Feb 21, 2014, 05:26 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Really... if real Christians were pacifist pansies... the Romans would have killed them all off in the 1st century AD.

    Check your history book to find out what 1st century Christians did (hint they didn't carry weapons). Why didn't the Romans kill them all off? Why were the Greek word ΙΧΘΥΣ and the profile of a fish so important to Christians?

    Read up on Nero and what was happening with Christians in 64 A.D.
  • Feb 21, 2014, 05:28 PM
    paraclete
    Quote:

    Really... if real Christians were pacifist pansies... the Romans would have killed them all off in the 1st century AD
    .

    let us examine your thesis for a moment smoothy, how many battles did the Christians fight with the Roman's in the first century or any century for that matter? and yet, christianity became the dominant religion in the Roman empire and throughtout the world. Unlike Islam, christianity doesn't rely on conquest to spread the truth. It seems pacifist or at least christian views were important and scripture tells us the might of our arm will fail

    the Christians didn't rely on military might to survive and prosper.
  • Feb 21, 2014, 05:41 PM
    talaniman
    How did Christianity get to Europe? I guess it had nothing to do with conquering it by the Romans.
  • Feb 21, 2014, 06:04 PM
    paraclete
    As I recall Tal it spread by word of mouth and the efforts of Peter and Paul who both went to Rome and died there, but there were others since it began in Judea and the population of Judea was dispersed by the Romans. Yes it did follow the Romans but they had already conquered a large part of Europe before the Christians came along. Christianity spread to places like India and Ethiopia without benefit of armies and even people like the Vikings eventually became christian without being conquered
  • Feb 21, 2014, 06:06 PM
    Catsmine
    Back to the donuts. Any LEO would have to be kinda stupid to eat one of Ex's product if he felt that way. Same thing about the guys with the wedding cake. If he HAS to make it by court order, I REALLY don't want to taste it.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 01:50 AM
    tomder55
    Tried to make that point earlier (#39) . The point is that this law Arizona is contemplating supports the right of freedom of association. That makes it the opposite of Jim Crow laws which codified a prevention of freedom of association. By statute ,whites and blacks were denied the right to associate in the market place. Laws forcing people to associate are just as perverse.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 05:45 AM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Catsmine View Post
    Back to the donuts. Any LEO would have to be kinda stupid to eat one of Ex's product if he felt that way. Same thing about the guys with the wedding cake. If he HAS to make it by court order, I REALLY don't want to taste it.

    That makes 3 of us who tried to make that point. I'd much rather just go somewhere that wants my business and we can all be happy.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 05:59 AM
    speechlesstx
    In that vein, I believe Kevin Williamson hit the nail squarely on the head.

    Until the Whole Is Leavened | National Review Online


    Quote:

    Try turning the moral math around as a thought experiment: Imagine you are the gay owner of a restaurant in Chelsea, a member in good standing of the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, rainbow flag flying out front — and the cretins from the Westboro Baptist Church decide that they want to rent your party room for their annual “God Hates Fags” Sunday brunch. Shouldn’t you have the right to refuse? There is in this sad world such a thing as a Ku Klux Klan wedding — should the management of Harlem’s famous Sylvia’s Restaurant be prosecuted under civil-rights law if the establishment should decline to cater such a wedding? It is impossible for me to imagine that that should be the case.
    Be careful what you wish for.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 08:21 AM
    excon
    Hello again,

    If I were IN the doughnut business, I wouldn't name it, "I Hate Cops Doughnut Shoppe".

    Interestingly, I was IN the security business, though. I worked closely with cops every day. They had NO idea who I was, and they LOVED my product. No, I didn't tell them what I thought of them.

    I did DO do one of them. She could only get off if she was wearing her gun. It was just kinky enough for me.

    Here's another cop story... Some of you know that I did some "extra" work on a couple movies. In one, I played a cop. They gave us REAL cop uniforms, and we were filming AT their headquarters... Well, I had to use the facilities, so I went inside. As I'm walking down the hall, a prisoner started WHACKING the cop who was escorting him someplace... This cop kept looking at me and YELLING for me to jump in. But, I just watched. What?

    excon
  • Feb 22, 2014, 08:24 AM
    speechlesstx
    Changing the subject, eh?
  • Feb 22, 2014, 08:30 AM
    excon
    Hello again, Steve:
    Quote:

    Changing the subject, eh?
    Will I EVER convince you that discrimination is ANTITHETICAL to the American way? That it's UNCONSTITUTIONAL? That it's MEAN spirited?? That it's the OPPOSITE of freedom??

    Nahhhh... Might as well talk about fun stuff.

    excon

    PS> (edited) In terms of toms hope and dream that we go back to a world where one was FREE to associate with whom one chose, it resulted ME being discriminated against. I didn't LIKE it. More than likely, YOU wingers, are WHITE, and haven't ever felt the pain of somebody NOT liking you because of who you are...

    Now, I KNOW you don't understand any of this, and THAT is the major problem we suffer as a country... And, it's getting WORSE.

    I'm DONE!

    Ok, NO I'm not, because I KNOW you'll bring up how much Christians and white people are discriminated against... If that wasn't so outrageous, it would be funny... But, that's what you believe, isn't it???
  • Feb 22, 2014, 09:22 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, Steve:Will I EVER convince you that discrimination is ANTITHETICAL to the American way? That it's UNCONSTITUTIONAL? That it's MEAN spirited?? That it's the OPPOSITE of freedom?? That it WILL be overturned??

    Actually, discrimination is the very antithesis of Christianity too. Jesus said in the Beatitudes to turn the other cheek and St. Paul said your kindness will heap coals of fire on an enemy's head. If I'm a Christian gay and own a restaurant that the Westboro Baptist Church wants to party in, I'd do so (and not even pollute their food). They've got the problem, not me. Maybe, just maybe, it would be the beginning of opening a heart or two and changing a mind.

    P.S. Added in response to ex's P.S. Try being female in a conservative white (Christian) patriarchal society.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 09:30 AM
    Catsmine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again,

    If I were IN the doughnut business, I wouldn't name it, "I Hate Cops Doughnut Shoppe".

    Interestingly, I was IN the security business, though. I worked closely with cops every day. They had NO idea who I was, and they LOVED my product. No, I didn't tell them what I thought of them.

    ...

    excon

    So you would deceive them. That's expected. Most Lefty Bigots are really really good at lying.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 09:32 AM
    talaniman
    Its not deception when you keep personal BS to yourself and act like a decent human being.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 09:35 AM
    excon
    Hello again, Cats:
    Quote:

    So you would deceive them. That's expected. Most Lefty Bigots are really really good at lying.
    Are you telling me that by NOT advertising that I'd been in prison is DECEPTION????

    You're a fuking idiot.

    excon
  • Feb 22, 2014, 09:43 AM
    talaniman
    Doesn't matter about the other stuff its just treating people the way YOU want to be treated, left, right, bigot or whatever, doesn't matter. Why is that so hard for some Christians in America to understand? You want the people to understand where you are coming from don't you?

    Share the love not the hate. Love the sinner even if you hate the sin. Or do you guys think you're better than gay guys? That's it isn't it?
  • Feb 22, 2014, 10:17 AM
    Catsmine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Why is that so hard for some Christians in America to understand?

    Not being Christian, I have to turn that question around. Why does a group that claims to be seeking equal treatment demand special privileges? I don't refer to just Gays: Affirmative action for people of African descent, Taxpayer funded abortions for college student Congressional candidates, bypassing the Citizenship Naturalization process for illegal immigrants, and printed forms in half a dozen languages but excluding other languages for people that refuse to use the most common.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 10:56 AM
    tomder55
    PS
    Quote:

    > (edited) In terms of toms hope and dream that we go back to a world where one was FREE to associate with whom one chose, it resulted ME being discriminated against. I didn't LIKE it. More than likely, YOU wingers, are WHITE, and haven't ever felt the pain of somebody NOT liking you because of who you are...
    well you can make laws all you want and that won't do a damn thing to change people's hearts. Title II was government changing government enforced segregation .Segregation, was enforced by law, which meant that those who wanted to associate or integrate could not do so. What you are talking about is forcing associations ,and that is just as repressive as the former. Freedom of associations is an implied right in the 1st Amendment . But it doesn't surprise me that the left is big on compromising a variety of 1st amendment rights.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 11:13 AM
    talaniman
    If there could be one rule and one policy that would be great, but the standard has 50 components and some work better than others. Some are more equal than others, and some have more loopholes than others. Even the applications are different in 50 states. In the case of the current OP, the ones with power make rules to exclude the few, on the basis they can. So under what circumstances can the few be included in the big picture?

    For sure picking your customers in a public setting is the same discrimination we have seen with many groups through out history but many have fallen by the wayside as wrong. Its simple cause and effect really and I argue that there would be no need for any affirmative action if there were NO discrimination. But we know there is, even without the winks and nods and religious beliefs.

    You don't have to turn the question around because you are not a Christian. They too can be as wrong as anyone. It's their right. But like most works in progress, as a country we still have to keep working at forming a more perfect union. Religious beliefs not withstanding.

    Civil rights has been an issue since the founders said only land holding white men counted as men. Now the gay people have to go through the same crap all other groups have been through. Wonder what group is next, and where it ends?
  • Feb 22, 2014, 11:15 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Catsmine View Post
    Not being Christian, I have to turn that question around. Why does a group that claims to be seeking equal treatment demand special privileges?

    I'm a Christian and agree with you -- equal treatment, but no special privileges. I've worked my butt off for what I have, and so should anyone else. No handouts, or the value of the thing and one's self reliance get lost.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 12:50 PM
    talaniman
    I agree but working hard and going nowhere may not be a thing you can control. Qualified can be a very subjective thing to those that do have control of opportunity. Or those with the power to create obstacles and distraction from ones own goals.

    Arizona is a good example of creating obstacles for a group of it's constituents. Others are less obvious, or blatant, but nonetheless there. You can't ignore it sometimes doesn't matter how hard YOU worked. Or if it happens to other groups besides the one you belong too. To be fair, I don't think as many Christian will discriminate but its obvious cover for those that will. They deserve no religious cover in my opinion, but a stern lecture in practice what you preach is more appropriate.

    It's absurd to think hate and its cousin discrimination no longer exists, but hiding behind religious belief in the name of a just god is dishonest. I see no difference between those so called Christians and the Ayatollahs they hate so much. Like a klansman with no hood who gets elected to make laws. Arizona has those too.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 02:26 PM
    paraclete
    Hello again, Steve:

    Quote:

    Look. I sympathize with your religious beliefs... But, when you practice them OUTSIDE of the church, you open yourself up to the discussion about WHO'S beliefs are we gonna make superior over others.. You think YOUR beliefs should be supreme. But, according to our beloved 1st Amendment, MY beliefs are equal to yours, even if I just formed a church. The 1st Amendment says NOTHING about older religions versus newer ones.

    Who are you to tell ME that MY religious beliefs CAN'T be centered around a HATRED for cops??
    Ex the premise that religious beliefs should be confined to inside the walls of a building is rediculous. The church is a group of people not a building and that group transends the physical boundries you try to impose on it. A religious belief such as you suggest had better be practiced in secret because anything more than that is illegal on so many levels, so yes society has spoken and said such "religious" belief is unacceptable
  • Feb 22, 2014, 03:43 PM
    talaniman
    So you are against Arizona passing a law that says its okay to discriminate against gay people Clete?
  • Feb 22, 2014, 03:57 PM
    Alty
    I didn't read all the posts, just too much fighting back and forth for my taste.

    Here's my opinion on the original question.

    Yes, as a business owner you can refuse service to anyone you want. Voicing why you're refusing service isn't smart. Refusing service because of your beliefs, isn't smart. Are you in business to spout your beliefs, or to make money?

    So go ahead, start refusing service because you hate cops, or you hate gays, or you hate blacks, or you hate single mothers... you won't be in business very long if you do that. So why even bother starting a business? Better to stay at home and post online about all the things you hate or discriminate against. At least online you may find a few people that believe what you do.

    I'm reminded of my dad. Three things he told me when I got my first job. When you're working you never discuss religion, sex, or politics. Keep your mouth shut, do your job, make money. If you want to discuss the three no no's you don't ever do it at work.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 04:01 PM
    speechlesstx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, Steve:Will I EVER convince you that discrimination is ANTITHETICAL to the American way? That it's UNCONSTITUTIONAL? That it's MEAN spirited?? That it's the OPPOSITE of freedom??

    Nahhhh... Might as well talk about fun stuff.

    excon

    PS> (edited) In terms of toms hope and dream that we go back to a world where one was FREE to associate with whom one chose, it resulted ME being discriminated against. I didn't LIKE it. More than likely, YOU wingers, are WHITE, and haven't ever felt the pain of somebody NOT liking you because of who you are...

    Now, I KNOW you don't understand any of this, and THAT is the major problem we suffer as a country... And, it's getting WORSE.

    I'm DONE!

    Ok, NO I'm not, because I KNOW you'll bring up how much Christians and white people are discriminated against... If that wasn't so outrageous, it would be funny... But, that's what you believe, isn't it???

    I understand fine, are you willing to force the gay guys to host the God hates fags banquet?
  • Feb 22, 2014, 04:11 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I understand fine, are you willing to force the gay guys to host the God hates fags banquet?

    This is my point exactly. If the gay guys own their business and are asked by the "God hates fags" to provide services for their banquet, they, as business owners, have the right to say no.

    But it's business! You're not in business to stand on a soap box for your beliefs. You're not in business to convert people to your beliefs. You're in business for one reason and one reason only, to make money!

    So ya, say no to the banquet if you want to lose money because they don't follow your beliefs. Be prepared to go out of business unless every customer meets your moral standards, your exact beliefs. In fact, don't even bother going into business at all if you can't separate business from your beliefs.

    Religion, sex and politics! My dad was a genius. Those three things don't mix if you want to survive in business.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 04:25 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speechlesstx View Post
    I understand fine, are you willing to force the gay guys to host the God hates fags banquet?

    What Alty said.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 04:43 PM
    paraclete
    do you actually do those things over there always thought you were a bit insensitive under the veneer
  • Feb 22, 2014, 04:52 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    do you actually do those things over there always thought you were a bit insensitive under the veneer

    Who are you talking to Paraclete?
  • Feb 22, 2014, 06:45 PM
    paraclete
    those people who advocate holding god hates fags banquets far as I know god doesn't hate anyone but he does hate the consequences of their actions
  • Feb 22, 2014, 09:06 PM
    smoothy
    I don't think he's too fond of child molesters.
  • Feb 22, 2014, 10:38 PM
    paraclete
    once agin smoothy same applies but we do know he thinks that it would be better for such people if they had a millstone around their neck and they jumped in the ocean
  • Feb 23, 2014, 04:56 AM
    speechlesstx
    So they should be able to say no to the "God hates fags banquet" and live their decision. That's all I wanted to know.
  • Feb 23, 2014, 06:20 AM
    talaniman
    In Florida a gay guy can just shoot 'em if he FEELS threatened by hate speech, and keeps the non refundable deposit.

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