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The day Fred answers a direct question on a difficult subject is the day I turn to Islam !
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Very good comment about currency.
The Planet Is Our Home, Countries Just Different Rooms...
IN RESPONSE TO FR_CHUCK I thought the initial post was about Christmas colors in public schools, and the ACLU... but this has gotten to be a debate further into the deep frustrations of people today. There are so many 'organizations' (most of them are really crutches of a sort) that have cropped up due to these fears and frustrations; i.e. KKK, ACLU, Women's Movements, Masons, religions, sects, terrorist groups, and more.. SOME GOOD AND SOME BAD, SOME HALF AND HALF...
This planet is our home, and we seem to be a very unhappy family on it, and those weak ones who don't join or start a new group, turn to drugs, alcohol, psychosis, just as a means of escape - so something is wrong with the 'reality' they are forced to comply with. What's wrong? Has anyone really cared, or just used all of these situations to get on soapboxes and put themselves above others just to feel better. Too bad this family of siblings just can't yell at each other, get the problem over with and join together at a table as any normal family. There is also micromanaging, corporate competition, industrial spying, and even mobbing at the workplace among other things. Why?
As in every family, some rules have to be followed and we look upon the 'parents' to set these rules. But the 'parents of this world' are too busy to take care of the basic needs of the family. They are responsible for the financial security - therefore jobs, to pay taxes, and feed the personal, physical and emotional needs of this big family. The 'world parents' don't think about equall allowance for all because some of the 'children' do less 'chores' and therefore get less allowance. Some 'children' are just plain lazy but still want what everyone else gets, and sometimes more - if they don't get it, they throw tantrums. Does this sound familiar?? Now the circle continues, as those 'children' who work for this allowance honestly, see the lazy ones get the same benefits, and start thinking why should they work for something and let the other get it for free... Does this ring a bell?? And yes, as in every family, there are sometimes Abusive Parents...
I don't think it's 'slavery' to ask a family member to do his/her fair share within this family, but since the kids are so many, and not enough money to spread around, food is better than starving. If these hungry kids don't get taught values and have kids of their own and expect them to be fed and get their toys for free too. I don't think a small allowance is bad for doing nothing to contribute.
Those that like doing their chores and enjoy the rewards see this and think about putting their hard earned allowance in a safe stash and not share it and turn thrifty. Why? - because when they did share it, it was wasted on unnecessary materialistic products, and then were asked for more because food was then needed. Boy, what a terrrible viscious circle..
Now if those lazy kids get hurt, and there is no more money for doctors, a bandaid is better than nothing, so why complain? If you didn't need that expensive stereo, rings, etc, you'd have money for the doctor.. so if you don't learn how to bake, you can't expect to have your cake and eat it too. Get the meaning??
If kids want to 'run' away from home, do they know where they want to go, what they want to learn, and did they save a little in preparation for this trip? Do they think that if they take the TV with them, they can just plug it in anywhere and continue without doing chores elsewhere? We are talking about values here...
If a farmer does not prepare his crops in time, he will starve in the winter. Should he expect his neighboring farmer to feed him? Come on.. you don't deserve what you don't work for.
Work is needed to keep things going and pay taxes for the future nourishment, but if every kid is lazy or sneaky, and does not pay their fair share, then that tax bin is empty - don't blame it on others.
Once you've been around and see what other 'parents of this world' are doing with the funds available, and see how many mouth's they have to feed and how they are coping with the kids that never 'contribute' and those that work hard, without going crazy, then you can make judgements. Take each country and look what their 'dad' is doing, and what some of the 'older kids' in the family have done, good or bad. Look at the rationality of it all - and then complain about Christmas lights and colors... I think 'perspective' has been lost here somewhere. This is only my opinion and I could be wrong, but so is a lot of stuff with this world.. and I think that this is how I would explain the situation to a 'grandchild' at this point to make some sense of the mess. I still don't know how to explain the solution though, do you?? I do feel however, that it's time to stop arguing for a while...