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  • Nov 24, 2018, 04:46 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    If you want to talk about the ridiculous cost of medical care, that would be a great conversation to have. Socialized medicine does not solve it.

    Please start a new thread. I'm angry at hospitals, doctors, and Big Pharma.

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    Interesting to me that liberals often raise the complaint that we evangelicals should not force our moral values on others, but that's what you are doing when you force everyone to pay to satisfy your moral inclinations in this area.
    No, we Christians should not force our moral values on others. Instead of talking about why too many people are paying $90,000+ a year to live in a nursing home, perhaps we should first solve the ridiculous cost of medical and health care. What do people in other countries pay?
  • Nov 24, 2018, 06:39 PM
    jlisenbe
    Quote:

    No, we Christians should not force our moral values on others
    But that's what you are doing. I'm not criticizing you for it, but just trying to make a point that everyone wants their moral values written into law.
  • Nov 24, 2018, 06:49 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlisenbe https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/images...post-right.png
    If you want to talk about the ridiculous cost of medical care, that would be a great conversation to have. Socialized medicine does not solve it.



    Seems to have solved things in every other country!

    https://www.finweb.com/insurance/ave...y-country.html


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    nteresting to me that liberals often raise the complaint that we evangelicals should not force our moral values on others, but that's what you are doing when you force everyone to pay to satisfy your moral inclinations in this area.

    You are mixing RELIGION and Government which in the USA goes against the separation of church and state. Roy Moore lost his job over it remember.
  • Nov 24, 2018, 06:51 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    But that's what you are doing. I'm not criticizing you for it, but just trying to make a point that everyone wants their moral values written into law.

    It's far beyond "moral values." Why do we send thieves and murderers to prison? They've broken two of God's commandments. Aren't those two offenses against our moral values?
  • Nov 24, 2018, 07:42 PM
    jlisenbe
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    You are mixing RELIGION and Government which in the USA goes against the separation of church and state.
    But we've just gone through about three pages of posts from people wanting to assure us all that Jesus was all for Medicare. You listed six scriptures to show that we should all chip in our taxes to pay for Welfare. What a mixing of religion and politics that is!

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    It's far beyond "moral values."
    What is beyond moral values? Moral values are rooted in truth. I don't see anything, other that God Himself, as being beyond them.
  • Nov 24, 2018, 09:14 PM
    talaniman
    How could Jesus not be in favor of Caesar taking care of poor, sick, people in need and call it Medicare? Wouldn't that be like a conversion or something? Or at least a good thing? Or do you have to be saved or something to do good deeds, or have moral values?

    And it's not politics but self governance. Politics is the antics of humans who try to convince you to vote for them.
  • Nov 24, 2018, 11:32 PM
    paraclete
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    How could Jesus not be in favor of Caesar taking care of poor, sick, people in need and call it Medicare? Wouldn't that be like a conversion or something? Or at least a good thing? Or do you have to be saved or something to do good deeds, or have moral values?

    And it's not politics but self governance. Politics is the antics of humans who try to convince you to vote for them.

    Let us get history right Tal, there was no evidence Caesar was in favour of taking care of anyone but himself and as the family became more degenerate this became more obvious. The social agenda is a method of enforcing rule on the masses. Caesar used bread and circuses, you don't go to the games you starve, we are more subtle, distributing food vouchers and medical care, but we know that if we didn't the level of disorder in our society would be intolerable. Caesar only had a few million to contend with.

    Jesus on the other hand healed all who came to him and never extracted one coin in payment, if only our medicos could learn to do the same
  • Nov 25, 2018, 07:04 AM
    jlisenbe
    Quote:

    How could Jesus not be in favor of Caesar taking care of poor, sick, people in need and call it Medicare?
    Jesus focused His attention on His church, and not on the government.

    No American has a right to another American's money. Charity, to be charity, must be voluntary. Find the place where Jesus advocated one person taking money from another person by force of law. That is exactly what government welfare amounts to.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 07:18 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    Let us get history right Tal, there was no evidence Caesar was in favour of taking care of anyone but himself and as the family became more degenerate this became more obvious. The social agenda is a method of enforcing rule on the masses. Caesar used bread and circuses, you don't go to the games you starve, we are more subtle, distributing food vouchers and medical care, but we know that if we didn't the level of disorder in our society would be intolerable. Caesar only had a few million to contend with.

    Jesus on the other hand healed all who came to him and never extracted one coin in payment, if only our medicos could learn to do the same

    I clearly used Caesar in the context of our current governments which model a cooperation between church and state while respecting the separations of both. Let's also recognize Jesus was a Jew, and promoted the Jewish religious traditions, and customs even as he passively threatened the establishment hierarchy structure. Would there be a Christianity without the martyr? We don't know do we.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 07:37 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    Jesus focused His attention on His church, and not on the government.

    No American has a right to another American's money. Charity, to be charity, must be voluntary. Find the place where Jesus advocated one person taking money from another person by force of law. That is exactly what government welfare amounts to.


    Welfare is NOT charity, it's a function of government for citizens it deems in need, and that's the flaw in your argument, is you conflate charity and welfare. They are not the same, and neither is the exclusive domain of religion. Indeed many organizations exist to assist the citizens beyond just the church. You have your vote, and others have theirs and that's what makes our country exist, not a religious proclamation.

    Trying to get around what your savior said makes no sense to me, but humans can be nonsense, as the vote for a lying, cheating, dufus clearly illustrates. The coalition of white evangelicals and right wing racists loonies is indeed the strangest thing I have ever seen.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 07:45 AM
    jlisenbe
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    it's a function of government for citizens it deems in need,
    Definition of charity: giving to those in need. Your distinction is only made because it assists your political position. It is charity pure and simple.

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    Trying to get around what your savior said
    If you ever can tell me what Jesus said about government welfare, I'll be glad to respond, but what Jesus referred to was voluntary charity, not government taxation.

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    The coalition of white evangelicals and right wing racists loonies
    Inaccurate, statement on the level of referring to a coalition of "black Christians and left wing, black-nationalist radicals".
  • Nov 25, 2018, 08:22 AM
    talaniman
    Like you say Jesus focused on his church, not government, but giving Caesar his due was a profound recognition of the governments domain. That the people can vote for that government in current times makes a difference? What should humans do when their church is INADEQUATE in it's charity?

    Talk to me when you can feed ALL the children. Shelter all the strangers. Until then pay your taxes, and casts your votes, and do the best you can. Seems you would be grateful for a government that fills the gaps your church cannot in what is obviously a shared endeavor, whether you call it charity, or welfare.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 12:38 PM
    jlisenbe
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    but giving Caesar his due was a profound recognition of the governments domain.
    I don't think so. I think it was just an injunction to pay your taxes and nothing more.

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    What should humans do when their church is INADEQUATE in it's charity?
    Maybe they should engage in charity themselves rather than forcing their neighbor to.

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    Seems you would be grateful for a government that fills the gaps your church cannot in what is obviously a shared endeavor, whether you call it charity, or welfare.
    I don't think that is a proper role for the feds. When the feds do something, it just constantly grows until it becomes a monster. For instance, the original Social Security contribution rate was 1 percent of pay, which was matched by employers. The tax rate grew to 1.5 percent in 1950 and gradually increased to about 5 percent by 1978. The current tax rate of 6.2 percent has been in effect since 1990. Bear in mind that this comes from both the employer AND the employee, so it is really substantial compared to the original 1%.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 02:51 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I don't think so. I think it was just an injunction to pay your taxes and nothing more.

    Could be, but needless to say given the Roman occupation great advice, and for modern times as well, without the occupation. Be it Caesar or Sam the consequences are great for not paying taxes.

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    Maybe they should engage in charity themselves rather than forcing their neighbor to.
    Who is they? Like I said until the church can do more, somebody else has to step up. Come on man, as a volunteer you should know the welfare process as well as anyone and you can't make people volunteer, and they still have to have resources besides a good word.

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    I don't think that is a proper role for the feds. When the feds do something, it just constantly grows until it becomes a monster. For instance, the original Social Security contribution rate was 1 percent of pay, which was matched by employers. The tax rate grew to 1.5 percent in 1950 and gradually increased to about 5 percent by 1978. The current tax rate of 6.2 percent has been in effect since 1990. Bear in mind that this comes from both the employer AND the employee, so it is really substantial compared to the original 1%.
    Look around, everything has grown and become more expensive, and people have gotten older. Just imagine the poor communities with small churches that are scuffling for resources and only have the feds. Fascinating idea though that YOUR government shouldn't help it's citizens.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 05:36 PM
    jlisenbe
    Quote:

    Fascinating idea though that YOUR government shouldn't help it's citizens.
    Actually, I think that each citizen should help other citizens. It is not the role of the federal government. When politicians do that, they extend it to everyone possible so as to gain votes.

    But if you, or whoever, want to argue for government charity, for forcing some citizens to give their money to other citizens, then go for it, but when you say that you have Jesus backing you up, you are in error.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 07:55 PM
    talaniman
    It's the counties that decide who gets assistance and at what level so your issues are with your local government.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 08:13 PM
    jlisenbe
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    It's the counties that decide who gets assistance and at what level so your issues are with your local government.
    I wish that was truly so, but it would still amount to taking money from one American by force to give to another.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 08:24 PM
    Wondergirl
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    When politicians do that, they extend it to everyone possible
    It's based on income. Who would you leave out of those who qualify?
  • Nov 25, 2018, 09:27 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I wish that was truly so, but it would still amount to taking money from one American by force to give to another.

    It is so. Your local county officials are the administrators of welfare in YOUR state, mine too, and throughout the nation. You can check for yourself, and it's been that way since 1991.

    http://urbanpolicy.berkeley.edu/pdf/Ch2Blank0404.pdf
  • Nov 25, 2018, 09:53 PM
    jlisenbe
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    It's based on income. Who would you leave out of those who qualify?
    I would leave out anyone who is both mentally and physically capable of supporting him/her self. I would phase it in over a period of two or three years. They certainly have no right to any other American's income.

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    It is so. Your local county officials are the administrators of welfare in YOUR state, mine too, and throughout the nation. You can check for yourself, and it's been that way since 1991.
    I went to your link even though I suspected from past experience it would be futile. First thing I noticed was that the paper was written fifteen years ago, well before the Obama administration had opportunity to make changes. Even at that, in the first few pages I noted the repeated use of the word "mandated". States do administer the program, but are tied to federal regs in doing so.
  • Nov 25, 2018, 10:29 PM
    jlisenbe
    Before you get too excited about all the wonderful "free" goodies in Europe, you might want to check out the tax rates.

    Attachment 49109
  • Nov 26, 2018, 05:33 AM
    paraclete
    You pay for what you get, nothing is free
  • Nov 26, 2018, 05:47 AM
    talaniman
    Everything is tied to a federal regulation my friend that's how the USA works isn't it? I have been noting your problem processing and corelating my data, and sorry for that, but unless you are familiar with the changes the Obama administrations made to welfare regulations then you would know that states, yes even some republican run states REQUESTED waivers to implement educational and vocational training as a component and tool to get people off the welfare roles particularly during a recession where jobs where scarce and non existent.

    Of course the right wing loony machine didn't care that everybody was out of work, and millions of jobs were lost, because rich guys screwed up the global economy, and the welfare roles were swelling, if you couldn't get a job, you got no assistance. Fortunately during the silly season of 2012 nobody listened to the repubs crying foul and Obama was reelected and the plan was put forth to grant those waivers with the CONDITION they could they increase employment in their state by 20%.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Person...pportunity_Act

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    In July 2012, the
    Department of Health and Human Services
    released a memo notifying states that they are able to apply for a waiver for the work requirements of the TANF program, but only if states were also able to find credible ways to increase employment by 20%.
    [11..
    In response to Republican criticism,
    Kathleen Sebelius, the Secretary of Health and Human Services[COLOR=#004000] [/COLOR]said that states, including some with Republican governors, had previously asked Congress to allow waivers.
    [17].
    I gave you the first link to lay the foundation for the background so all the facts could be presented in an orderly fashion for serious discussion and debate. I know your position, much like Newts Contract with America crap in the 90's, and that's fine, but t's much more complicated and nuanced and conditions do change for many reasons.

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    Frances Fox Piven said that the problem with AFDC was not a problem with the welfare system, but with low-wage work:

    Logically, but not in the heated and vitriolic politics created by the attack on welfare, a concern with the relationship of welfare to dependency should have directed attention to the deteriorating conditions of the low-wage labor market. After all, if there were jobs that paid living wages, and if health care and child care were available, a great many women on AFDC would leap at the chance of a better income and a little social respect.[36]

    I hope this second source helps you the first.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 05:59 AM
    jlisenbe
    Quote:

    I hope this second source helps you the first
    The first one was sixty pages and you didn't realize it was fifteen years old. Be honest. How many of those sixty pages did you read?

    You were trying to make the case that the states were in charge of welfare. Your own article showed that is not true. The feds still control the regs. If you are going to give links, you might want to read the entire article and not just cherry pick what strikes you as useful.

    It still comes down to one American being authorized to take money from another American. I don't think they should have that authority.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 06:55 AM
    talaniman
    WRONG! I actually studied the whole PDF years ago, and many more like it (Including the entire ACA). Similar to you quoting scripture, but my research is much more contemporary. It's my impression that you think states are sovereign and separate from the whole, and by that thought there is no USA just 50 nation states, independent of the United States. Both my references point to the fact of states having a great deal of flexibility and latitude and a process to address the individual concerns of each state in an orderly lawful manner. Each state is different and has a variety of different issues, and are free to find reasonable solutions, so sorry if you think that what works in your state should be the law in all of them strictly and rigidly applied. Life isn't like that unfortunately, and as you know when stuff happens by man or nature, adjustments must be made to survive and endure. That's just reality.

    Now you can elect your own state reps and federal representatives that promote your views, and if they fail vote them out, but stop blaming the feds for what your locals are doing, or find out what they are indeed doing for you in your name, and change it if it's not to your liking. Are you some Tea Party leftover or something? I know some want a weaker smaller central government, some want a streamlined effective one, so complaints from all sides which is fair, but sorry you haven't convinced me at all to convert to your position, which should be okay with you as it's still an open mike and you can sing any song you want.

    Put simply your premise that one American cannot take money from another to give to another is way off. The consensus of Americans (both repubs and dems) sets aside assistance to other Americans in difficult times, conditions, and circumstances, so we don't have people starving and dying in the streets. That's the social safety net that we agree on by compromise and consensus. I respectfully submit, that repubs have not had the VOTES or sufficient support to repeal any of it though they had input in constructing it, administering it, and modifications over the years. So stop blaming liberals for what we have in place since it was a collaboration so yes the FEDS do have a right to govern and you have the right to beetch!

    I get it, you hate government, but government has the AUTHORITY to tax for the common good. That's just reality, and who likes that?
  • Nov 26, 2018, 08:07 AM
    jlisenbe
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    It's my impression that you think states are sovereign and separate from the whole, and by that thought there is no USA just 50 nation states, independent of the United States.
    How you got that idea I just don't know. It was not from my comments, but I do commend you for taking the time study the material.

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    Put simply your premise that one American cannot take money from another to give to another is way off. The consensus of Americans (both repubs and dems) sets aside assistance to other Americans in difficult times, conditions, and circumstances, so we don't have people starving and dying in the streets. That's the social safety net that we agree on by compromise and consensus. I respectfully submit, that repubs have not had the VOTES or sufficient support to repeal any of it though they had input in constructing it, administering it, and modifications over the years. So stop blaming liberals for what we have in place since it was a collaboration so yes the FEDS do have a right to govern and you have the right to beetch!
    Not too sure about the collaboration part, especially if you look at the vote on Obamacare. Yes, Welfare has been voted in and the American people, for the most part, are somewhat comfortable with it. I am free to raise my voice against it, and that's what I'm doing. I'm all for Tal, Wondergirl, Athos, Tomder, me and others helping the poor. I am opposed to the government forcing us to engage in it. And here we are, over 21 trillion in debt because we want to spend on anything and everything but not pay for it. It's this idea that "If I think we need it, then we just have to do it," that has gotten us in this hole. There is no level of taxation that will deliver us without ruining the economy, so we have to cut spending. It cannot be done with the defense budget alone. It won't even get us close, so we have to start looking at everything, and a good place to start is to tell those who are physically and mentally healthy, "Support yourself". Discourage the idea that fatherless families should be the norm and get back to real families working together to take care of themselves. Continuing this fantasy will not get it done.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 10:09 AM
    Wondergirl
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    Yes, Welfare has been voted in and the American people, for the most part, are somewhat comfortable with it.
    Applying for Medicaid is not a walk in the park.

    In her early 90s, my own mother, a lifelong Republican, outlived her carefully saved money and had no choice but to apply for Medicaid (welfare) so she could move into a nursing home. My two brothers and their wives lived near her and helped her as long as they could while she lived at home, but her personal needs became too involved and complicated, thus the nursing home.

    Her BIL (my uncle), also Republican, lived near me, ran through most of his hard-earned savings of $250k over a five-year period in a nursing home. That facility, a good Christian nursing home, refused residents who couldn't pay out of pocket and would need Medicaid (welfare). My son and I moved Uncle, who still had a few shekels left, to a facility that accepted Medicaid which I then applied to for him. (Apply for Medicaid someday -- an exhausting and somewhat humiliating experience. Be sure you are able to show financial history.)

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    I am free to raise my voice against it, and that's what I'm doing. ... I am opposed to the government forcing us to engage in it.
    If our country doesn't have a welfare system, then what will happen to the elderly, disabled, chronically ill, and all those who don't have the money to keep themselves alive? Maybe we'll have to set up each with a donation can along the public sidewalks.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 10:31 AM
    talaniman
    21 trillion in debt didn't come from helping poor people. Nobody is forcing you to do anything except pay taxes, and abide by the law, and the way you handle your poor people is between you and your county officials. It is a complicated process I grant you that, between feds, state and local, and not just about welfare, but on many fronts, including state investments and resource allocations. I can hardly blame anyone for not knowing the intricacies of such financing at all. That's the collaboration I was speaking of.

    Lets look at that vote on Obama care opposed by repubs, and currently those repubs have gotten the boot and another election cycle looms, so yes health insurance and a social safety net, jobs and WAGES, are important to young, old, poor and well to do, because everybody can get laid off, like those GM workers in 3 states, or the plant closures because of technology, or slumping sales, or the rich guys steal the money and screw everybody. Or your town burns up, or gets wiped out by a force of nature. Or a husband runs off with a stripper, we all need a SOCIAL SAFETY NET. You are aware those assistance benefits have limits don't you, and conditions don't you? Of course you do I linked the FACTS right here on this forum.

    If the church and charity could help everybody we wouldn't need a social safety net, would we? If we knew how to keep families together would that help working poor families? I just don't think so. If you have a Walmarts Super Center, then your city gave them a tax break, and subsidizes its low paying workers through your public assistance programs. That's just reality of low paying jobs by multinational billion dollar corporations.

    Funny you don't squawk about that at all, but I understand it's complicated right? So I guess going after poor folks is all you can do, like the are the cause of all the ills in this country! Good Luck making people stay married and going back to the American dream of "Leave It To Beaver". That was just a feel good TV show and not even close to reality for the masses.

    Now if Ward Cleaver got laid off and June had to hock the pearls to buy groceries that would be real.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 11:38 AM
    jlisenbe
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    21 trillion in debt didn't come from helping poor people
    .

    A LOT of it did, about 22 trillion in the last fifty years, which just so happens to be about the amount of the federal debt, and yet the poverty rate remains unchanged. That 22 tril is more than 3 times the total amount we have spent on all the wars in our history.

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    Nobody is forcing you to do anything except pay taxes,
    Uhm... that's kind of what we're talking about here.

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    everybody can get laid off, like those GM workers in 3 states, or the plant closures because of technology, or slumping sales, or the rich guys steal the money and screw everybody. Or your town burns up, or gets wiped out by a force of nature. Or a husband runs off with a stripper,
    A lot of people have these things called "savings" and "insurance" to handle most of that. So we get to put our money into savings and insurance, and then pay even more in taxes to bail out the folks who DON'T save or insure.

    Your comment about the rich stealing the money is just ludicrous. I've already shown you that the top 1% of wage earners earn 20% of the income but pay 40% of the taxes. And you call that "stealing"??

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    If we knew how to keep families together would that help working poor families? I just don't think so.
    I think you do. Two parents working together is fantastically more efficient that one working. The math is pretty simple.

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    going after poor folks is all you can do,
    You and your groundless accusations get old. I've never said anything to that effect, so if you want to discuss this, then at least try to be honest and accurate. I'm not "going after" anyone other than the people who love to pat themselves on the back for forcing others to pay into their favorite charity.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 12:11 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Two parents working together is fantastically more efficient that one working. The math is pretty simple.
    What about people like me who stay home for 12 years to raise their kids to be honest, respected, and hard-working members of society?

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    lot of people have these things called "savings" and "insurance" to handle most of that.
    No savings -- we lived paycheck to paycheck. As for insurance, we had auto insurance (state requirement), homeowners, and life insurance ("burial insurance") on the kids.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 12:31 PM
    talaniman
    Math is not your best subject.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 02:35 PM
    jlisenbe
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    What about people like me who stay home for 12 years to raise their kids to be honest, respected, and hard-working members of society?
    That's great, and I'm happy for you, but what do you say to the couples where the wife worked part-time/full-time so the couple could put aside some savings? Should they have to pay extra in taxes to support you in case of an emergency where not having savings came back to bite you?

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    Math is not your best subject.
    Could be, but I can figure this one out pretty easily. One person makes 30K, so the family has 30K. Two people make 30K each, so the family has 60K, which is a lot more than 30K. Make sense?

    I really, really, really hope you are not going to try to make the argument that single parent homes make good economic sense because you will be engaging in total foolishness.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 02:49 PM
    Wondergirl
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    That's great, and I'm happy for you, but what do you say to the couples where the wife worked part-time/full-time so the couple could put aside some savings? Should they have to pay extra in taxes to support you in case of an emergency where not having savings came back to bite you?
    Should my husband and I pay taxes to help support those other couples you mentioned if they need financial help (welfare)? Yes. We're all in this together, and that would be the right thing, the unselfish thing, to do. Someday someone in my family or friend group might need financial help in return.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 03:05 PM
    jlisenbe
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    Should my husband and I pay taxes to help support those other couples you mentioned if they need financial help (welfare)?
    So you didn't answer the question. You can be evasive with tough questions. You know I am asking why a couple who DID have the wife work so they DID save, and yet they still have to support you. Does that sound right to you??

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    Yes. We're all in this together,
    We're all in this together? So if I need to use your car, should I be able to just go by your house, demand the key, and take it when I want to? That might sound extreme, but it is exactly what you propose. I get the feds to go to your house, collect your money in taxes, and deliver it to me.

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    and that would be the right thing, the unselfish thing, to do
    You are imposing your moral values on others.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 03:22 PM
    Wondergirl
    You don't answer my questions either. For instance, what will you do about paying for a nursing home once you've gone through all your savings? In my area, monthly cost is around $7,000 for a semi-private room.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 04:11 PM
    jlisenbe
    Keep the person at home. Do what you have to do. Won't be fun, but people do it all the time.

    One more time. You chose to stay at home, which is wonderful, but you said you had no savings. Another wife chooses to work, and the couple are able to save, but they also have to pay extra in taxes to help you in case an emergency arises for which you had not prepared. Is it right for that wife to have to pay for her family AND your family?
  • Nov 26, 2018, 04:42 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Keep the person at home. Do what you have to do. Won't be fun, but people do it all the time.
    We DID keep her at home for several years, but her care finally went beyond what we could do to make her comfortable and get her to and from her doctors.

    And when the couple who worked and has savings runs out of money, the husband has health problems and can't care for his bedbound wife, then what?
  • Nov 26, 2018, 05:05 PM
    jlisenbe
    Ask many questions, but answer none.
  • Nov 26, 2018, 05:23 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    Ask many questions, but answer none.

    Nor do you. :D
  • Nov 26, 2018, 05:28 PM
    talaniman
    If you're mad now that poor people get your tax money, then your head will really explode when we move to Medicare for all.

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