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  • Jul 27, 2009, 06:34 AM
    preciouskitty
    Refusal of Civil Summons
    Can I legally refuse a civil summons that I am not a party to or named on?

    Here are some circumstances...

    I am not related by blood or marriage to the only named party on the civil summons.

    I do reside at the same residence as the intended recipient of the civil summons.

    Officer's are aware of recipients whereabouts and estimated time before returning home.

    Officer's speak with very respected employer who confirms when recipient would be home.

    I have never met nor do I have any dealings with plaintiff of the civil summons.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 06:39 AM
    stevetcg

    What purpose does it serve making things more difficult for the process server?
  • Jul 27, 2009, 06:49 AM
    preciouskitty
    The issue is not about making it more difficult for the process server. The issue is a matter of the process server making things difficult for innocent civilians. The issue is a matter of civil rights. Do I have any obligation to be detained or questioned in any manner for somebody else's issue?

    CHANGE NEVER COMES UNTIL SOMEONE STANDS FOR IT!
  • Jul 27, 2009, 07:05 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    Do I have any obligation to be detained or questioned in any manner for somebody else's issue?

    Hello p:

    No. But a process server doesn't do that. He just HANDS you stuff. THAT'S all it takes. If you don't want to accept it, don't hold out your hand.

    But, everybody, when handed something, will reach out to take it.

    excon
  • Jul 27, 2009, 07:59 AM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    The issue is not about making it more difficult for the process server. The issue is a matter of the process server making things difficult for innocent civilians. The issue is a matter of civil rights. Do I have any obligation to be detained or questioned in any manner for somebody else's issue?

    CHANGE NEVER COMES UNTIL SOMEONE STANDS FOR IT!

    What is it that you think a process server does?

    There are many cases where the US Postal Service or FedEx can be used to serve process. Its him handing paperwork to an allegedly responsible adult.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:25 AM
    preciouskitty
    I understand what a process server is; however, my process server was deputy from the Sheriff's Department.
    FURTHERMORE, I WAS ARRESTED FOR NOT ACCEPTING THE CIVIL SUMMONS FOR SOMEONE ELSE.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:32 AM
    preciouskitty
    My reason for not accepting the summons is that it is not mine. It is that simple. Certainly many people would say what you did, "Why make things difficult?"

    I wonder if Rosa Parks thought such a thing. I wonder if people asked her why she was being difficult.

    Of course, for many, Rosa Park's choice might seem more profound than mine. However, you must understand that I truly feel violated.

    I was not out of line with the officers; I was just trying to go to work. Nonetheless, I was humiliated, handcuffed, and taken to jail. I missed work and will miss more work when I go to court. In these tough times, missing work is a BIG DEAL and will land you unemployed.

    There comes a time when somebody should be held accountable for overstepping their power.

    It was unnecessary!! The police officer was on a POWER TRIP and determined to exert his authority.

    I am not a lawyer either, nor do I know all of the law pertaining to service of civil summons. I do find it enraging that a person can be CRIMINALLY charged for refusing somebody else's CIVIL summons.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:41 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    my process server was deputy from the Sheriff's Department.
    FURTHERMORE, I WAS ARRESTED FOR NOT ACCEPTING THE CIVIL SUMMONS FOR SOMEONE ELSE.

    Hello again, p:

    Boy. I HATE that you are going to make me argue for the police. I HATE cops..

    But, a cop is NOT going to arrest you for NOT accepting service. That just isn't a crime. So, as they say, there's MORE to this story.

    excon
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:46 AM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    My reason for not accepting the summons is that it is not mine. It is that simple. Certainly many people would say what you did, "Why make things difficult?"

    I wonder if Rosa Parks thought such a thing. I wonder if people asked her why she was being difficult.

    Of course, for many, Rosa Park's choice might seem more profound than mine. However, you must understand that I truly feel violated.

    I was not out of line with the officers; I was just trying to go to work. Nonetheless, I was humiliated, handcuffed, and taken to jail. I missed work and will miss more work when I go to court. In these tough times, missing work is a BIG DEAL and will land you unemployed.

    There comes a time when somebody should be held accountable for overstepping their power.

    It was unnecessary!!!!!!!!!! The police officer was on a POWER TRIP and determined to exert his authority.

    I am not a lawyer either, nor do I know all of the law pertaining to service of civil summons. I do find it enraging that a person can be CRIMINALLY charged for refusing somebody else's CIVIL summons.

    First of all, you are NOT Rosa Parks and I take exceptional offense for suggesting you are even close.

    Second, you didn't state that you were arrested. What were you charged with? If you were falsely arrested, you have your own civil claim against the police department. For that I would seek my own lawyer. Not signing for a service is not a criminal offense.

    My original question stands though... why not just sign for it? Would it have hurt? Presumably this person is your roommate and not signing merely was your way of being insolent to the deputy.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:46 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, p:

    Boy. I HATE that you are gonna make me argue for the police. I HATE cops..

    But, a cop is NOT going to arrest you for NOT accepting service. That just isn't a crime. So, as they say, there's MORE to this story.

    excon

    Well I hate cops too and I hate to burst your bubble, but that is the WHOLE STORY. PLAIN & SIMPLE...

    I am a law abiding citizen. I have never been in trouble with the police. I have never been charged nor convicted of a crime.

    I was nauseatingly respectful to the officer.

    Nonetheless, I am looking at my arrest papers right now and they say the following:

    RESISTING A PUBLIC OFFICER BY REFUSING TO ACCEPT A CIVIL SUMMONS.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:48 AM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    Well I hate cops too and I hate to burst your bubble, but that is the WHOLE STORY. PLAIN & SIMPLE..........

    I am a law abiding citizen. I have never been in trouble with the police. I have never been charged nor convicted of a crime.

    I was nauseatingly respectful to the officer.

    Nonetheless, I am looking at my arrest papers right now and they say the following:

    RESISTING A PUBLIC OFFICER BY REFUSING TO ACCEPT A CIVIL SUMMONS.

    What state and county? This is a whole different issue than the summons itself. That's secondary at this point. Yes, your rights may have been violated.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:50 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    I was nauseatingly respectful to the officer.

    Hello again, p:

    Okee doakee, then. You, my dear young lady, have a big fat lawsuit against the cops.

    You want CHANGE... You're going to get it. Hire a lawyer and sue those bastards.

    excon
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:54 AM
    preciouskitty
    I am in Lenoir County, North Carolina.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 08:58 AM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    I am in Lenoir County, North Carolina.

    North Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure, Process Serving Laws ? ServeNow.com

    Yeah - hire a lawyer and sue them. You are under no obligation to accept a summons even if it is directed at you.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 09:09 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by stevetcg View Post
    North Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure, Process Serving Laws ? ServeNow.com

    Yeah - hire a lawyer and sue them. You are under no obligation to accept a summons even if it is directed at you.

    ServeNow.com is a website that I visited. Exactly what part do you think addresses this situation?

    By the way, if I seemed rude earlier with my original response, please forgive me. I have received a lot of "WHY REFUSE IT?" from people. It has been quite frustrating.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 09:21 AM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    ServeNow.com is a website that I visited. Exactly what part do you think addresses this situation?

    By the way, if I seemed rude earlier with my original response, please forgive me. I have received alot of "WHY REFUSE IT?" from people. It has been quite frustrating.

    Well, that's the first question that comes to mind, especially when you live with the person being served. First thought is usually refusal of summons implicates the person refusing. It wasn't a personal attack, just a matter of 'seen this question a lot'

    The part that addresses this situation is the part that there is nothing that says that it is illegal to refuse a summons (as well as the NC Court System website) and details what to do if summons cannot be delivered. The information on this site is taken directly from the NC General Assembly laws

    GS_1A-1,_Rule_4
  • Jul 27, 2009, 09:45 AM
    excon

    Hello again,

    I read rule 4. It speaks about the servers and their responsibilities - not the servee. Besides, I think you're looking at the wrong law.

    I want to see the CRIMINAL statutes... I see that you were charged... I'll bet that your charging papers also included the statute number. I want to see THAT.

    Besides, I can't imagine you'll find anything about the servee's criminal liabilities for NOT accepting service... But, in general, you can't be arrested in the process of a civil suit - PERIOD. There just isn't ANY provision in the law for that.

    You were charged criminally. I'd hire a criminal attorney. Then when you find out they screwed you, see a civil attorney and get to suing.

    excon
  • Jul 27, 2009, 03:56 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    I am not a lawyer either, nor do I know all of the law pertaining to service of civil summons. I do find it enraging that a person can be CRIMINALLY charged for refusing somebody else's CIVIL summons.


    Yes, that's very apparent. You also misunderstand how process service works. Before you scream at me in capitals, I own and operate a process service business.

    In NY you don't have to "reach out your hand" to accept the summons. I can throw it at your feet, throw it in the door, say "here, this is for you" and tuck it in the door while you're standing there. And it's legal service of process.

    In your State substitute service (throwing it at your feet) IS legal: "Personal service or substituted personal service of summons as prescribed by Rule 4(j)(1) a and b must be made" ...

    [b]Rule 4(j)(1) states that service may be made on: "(1) Natural Person. – Except as provided in subdivision (2) below, upon a natural person by one of the following: a. By delivering a copy of the summons and of the complaint to the natural person or by leaving copies thereof at the defendant's dwelling house or usual place of abode with some person of suitable age and discretion then residing therein.

    I'll let someone else address the connection between you and Rosa Parks.

    - If you were mistreated, then that is your defense. Your arrest gets set aside and then you sue the Police Department for overstepping its bounds. The way I read the law an Officer of the Court has full powers and if you "resist," you can be arrested.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 07:39 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    First you can get arrested for interfering with a police officer and not providing them your ID.

    A process server ieven if the police is only going to hand you the summons, if you start getting *** and I bet you did** loud and disorderly, yes you will be arrested.

    In fact if they can't find the person for civil action, at some point they trial will go on with the person.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 05:46 AM
    preciouskitty

    The General Statute is 14-223 which says, "If any person shall willfully and unlawfully resist, delay or obstruct a public officer in discharging or attempting to discharge a duty of his office, he shall be guilty of a Class 2 misdemeanor.

    There is also an Offense Code - 5310. I am not sure what that refers to.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 05:56 AM
    excon

    Hello again, p:

    So, this has NOTHING to do with service, and everything to do with a cops ego.

    Like I said earlier, after I beat 'em criminally, I'd sue 'em civilly and PERSONALLY.

    excon
  • Jul 28, 2009, 06:01 AM
    stevetcg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    The General Statute is 14-223 which says, "If any person shall willfully and unlawfully resist, delay or obstruct a public officer in discharging or attempting to discharge a duty of his office, he shall be guilty of a Class 2 misdemeanor.

    There is also an Offense Code - 5310. I am not sure what that refers to.

    This statute does not apply since not accepting a civil summons is not "unlawfully".

    Again, get a lawyer and sue them
  • Jul 28, 2009, 06:12 AM
    preciouskitty
    Whatever! I did not intend to suggest that I had a CONNECTION with Rosa Parks, nor did I intend to offend anyone with my reference to her. Understand that I have a profound respect for her; however, my respect is derived from the fact that she felt she was being mistreated and that the circumstances before her were not fair. Certainly, life is not fair, but we all have our own convictions.

    For the Christianity Expert, I was not loud and I was not disorderly. Believe it or not! I was "Yes Sir" and "No Sir" to the officer the entire time. As a matter of fact, I was oddly calm considering that I should have already been at work and not delayed with this nonsense. Of course, I understand the need to try to assume that there is more to the story, but there isn't. It was simply uncalled for.

    Furthermore, I understand the "throw it at your feet" concept and so on. This was never the case.

    Look... you can all have whatever opinion you choose. That is what I love about America. I am not a 'post on the internet' kind of person. I was simply looking for some feedback or... maybe similar situations or... well honestly I do not know. I do know that I am a very reasonable person, so for to have occurred, troubles me.

    Personally, I feel violated. Whether I legally have a right to - the court will decide that. Will the court's decision change my opinion or yours? Probably not. But again, that is what I love about America.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 06:13 AM
    preciouskitty
    Thanks to stevetcg and excon. I really appreciate the honesty.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 06:20 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    hello again, p:

    So, this has nothing to do with service, and everything to do with a cops ego.

    Like i said earlier, after i beat 'em criminally, i'd sue 'em civilly and personally.

    Excon

    Thanks!!
  • Jul 28, 2009, 06:24 AM
    ScottGem

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    The General Statute is 14-223 which says, "If any person shall willfully and unlawfully resist, delay or obstruct a public officer in discharging or attempting to discharge a duty of his office, he shall be guilty of a Class 2 misdemeanor.

    Ok, I'm going to summarize here. The law you quoted above and the Section 4j1a previously quoted, may be sufficient to justify the officer's actions.

    4j1a states that it is legal service to hand the summons to someone of "suitable age" at the residence. Therefore, the officer was complying with the law by handing you the summons. This then means that your refusal to accept the summons was, in fact, obstructing the officer in the performance of his duty. So, my reading of the laws posted here are that you had no legal right to refuse acceptance of the summons and by doing so, interfered with the officer's performance of his duties.

    Now, whether the officer overstepped his bounds by arresting you is a point that can be debated. But In my opinion, you won't win if you claim that you were illegally arrested.

    Now I know you claim you were very polite and did nothing to provoke the officer. But I have to say your reactions here do call that into question.

    So, my advice is to consult an attorney. Let an attorney tell you if they think you have a case to pursue here.

    Again, In my opinion you had no legal right NOT to accept the summons and by doing so you broke the law by interfering with the officer's performance of his duties.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 06:36 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    4j1a states that it is legal service to hand the summons to someone of "suitable age" at the residence. Therefore, the officer was complying with the law by handing you the summons. This then means that your refusal to accept the summons was, in fact, obstructing the officer in the performance of his duty. So, my reading of the laws posted here are that you had no legal right to refuse acceptance of the summons and by doing so, interfered with the officer's performance of his duties.

    Hello Scott:

    I don't agree. I believe the statute STOPS after it says that it's legal service to hand the summons to someone... It says NOTHING about the persons obligation to accept or reject the summons.

    I hope the OP reports back, after she kicks a$$.

    excon
  • Jul 28, 2009, 06:55 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    The General Statute is 14-223 which says, "If any person shall willfully and unlawfully resist, delay or obstruct a public officer in discharging or attempting to discharge a duty of his office, he shall be guilty of a Class 2 misdemeanor.

    There is also an Offense Code - 5310. I am not sure what that refers to.



    I think the Police Officer will say he acted within duties and you were resisting; you will say you were not resisting and he overreacted.

    The Judge will decide.

    Please come back and let us know what happens regarding the ticket and what the Attorney says about your lawsuit.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 07:28 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello Scott:

    I don't agree. I believe the statute STOPS after it says that it's legal service to hand the summons to someone.... It says NOTHING about the persons obligation to accept or reject the summons.

    I hope the OP reports back, after she kicks a$$.

    excon

    I will keep you updated. I do plan on following through.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 07:31 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I think the Police Officer will say he acted within duties and you were resisting; you will say you were not resisting and he overreacted.

    The Judge will decide.

    Please come back and let us know what happens regarding the ticket and what the Attorney says about your lawsuit.

    Of course he can say that I resisted, but the question is did I willfully and unlawfully resist?
  • Jul 28, 2009, 07:39 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    Of course he can say that I resisted, but the question is did I willfully and unlawfully resist?

    Hello again, p:

    Bring witnesses...

    excon

    PS> To those of you out there in internetland, you know those memo recording applications on your phone - or better yet - those VIDEO recording applications?? Whenever you are confronted by the cops, turn it ON!
  • Jul 28, 2009, 08:24 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    Of course he can say that I resisted, but the question is did I willfully and unlawfully resist?



    What I think doesn't matter - it's going to come down to what a Judge believes after speaking with both of you, evaluating both sides.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 09:11 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again, p:

    Bring witnesses...

    excon

    PS> To those of you out there in internetland, you know those memo recording applications on your phone - or better yet - those VIDEO recording applications???? Whenever you are confronted by the cops, turn it ON!

    I thought of this afterwards. I do have one witness.

    I actually live right next door to the intended recipient's workplace. The owner of the organization came over and spoke with me and the officer. He explained that the intended recipient was out of town working and would be back the following day.

    Also, to point out, officer's did visit the residence again to serve the papers and, without incident, accepted my refusal of the civil summons.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 09:50 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    I thought of this afterwards. I do have one witness.

    I actually live right next door to the intended recipient's workplace. The owner of the organization came over and spoke with me and the officer. He explained that the intended recipient was out of town working and would be back the following day.

    Also, to point out, officer's did visit the residence again to serve the papers and, without incident, accepted my refusal of the civil summons.



    If the witness saw and heard the whole thing you are 100% good and in the right - will he testify?
  • Jul 28, 2009, 09:55 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello Scott:

    I don't agree. I believe the statute STOPS after it says that it's legal service to hand the summons to someone.... It says NOTHING about the persons obligation to accept or reject the summons.

    I hope the OP reports back, after she kicks a$$.

    excon

    Clearly the law doesn't say anything about a person's right to refuse to accept the summons. But it does say that the server is within their right to deliver it to someone responsible living at the defendant's address. If the server is not a law enforcement official, then nothing more could be done. But if the server IS a law enforcement official, then refusal to accept a legally and duly authorized summons would be interefering with the LEO's duities. Which brings the other law into play.

    I truly don't know how this would play out in court. But I can see a judge ruling either way.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 10:03 AM
    excon

    Hello again, Scott:

    If the cop takes on the roll of process server, is he bound by the rules of process servers who aren't cops??

    I would say yes. It IS a civil process he is serving, after all. He's NOT acting in his capacity as a law enforcement officer.

    And, yes. It could go either way. Judy should know. Where is she?

    excon
  • Jul 28, 2009, 10:15 AM
    ScottGem

    The NC law seems to allow LEOs to act as process servers as part of their regular duties. But it also allows other, non LEOs, to also act as process servers. So I would think if he is in uniform or identified himself as a LEO, then he was acting as a LEO.

    I will add, that from the OP's recent posts, it makes it more evident that the server may have acted improperly.
  • Jul 28, 2009, 10:15 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    Clearly the law doesn't say anything about a person's right to refuse to accept the summons. But it does say that the server is within their right to deliver it to someone responsible living at the defendant's address. If the server is not a law enforcement offical, then nothing more could be done. But if the server IS a law enforcement official, then refusal to accept a legally and duly authorized summons would be interefering with the LEO's duities. Which brings the other law into play.

    I truly don't know how this would play out in court. But I can see a judge ruling either way.

    Maybe, but if that is the case, then we have a sad state of affairs.

    I asked the police officer that day, "What if I accepted these papers and the intended recipient never receives them?" Well of course, then a civil judgment is placed without a defense being presented. Is that fair? Well, in that case, the intended recipient would have been slighted, because he/she was never served. Ah, but they were, via ME. With that being said, I have found research to support that the intended recipient could then contest the judgment arguing the discretion aspect of the law. However, I do not think that would go very far.

    Has anyone considered the ramifications of such a thing?

    I suppose that many may never experience these specific circumstances, but...
    Do you want officials to be able to serve you without serving YOU?
  • Jul 28, 2009, 10:36 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    I will add, that from the OP's recent posts, it makes it more evident that the server may have acted improperly.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by preciouskitty View Post
    I suppose that many may never experience these specific circumstances, but....... Do you want officials to be able to serve you without serving YOU?

    Hello again:

    I'm pretty happy with the way service is being done in our courts... But, if you don't like what you KNOW already, you're really not going to want to hear about service by publication...

    In terms of that, Scott... I can see the defendant getting "lippy" with the cop. Cops don't like "lippy" people, and think they have to show 'em who's boss.

    I don't mean to imply, precious, that you WERE "lippy", or that you don't have the RIGHT to BE "lippy". You absolutely do. By the way "lippy" is a COP PHRASE. They HATE "lippy" people.

    excon
  • Jul 28, 2009, 10:51 AM
    preciouskitty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello again:

    I'm pretty happy with the way service is being done in our courts.... But, if you don't like what you KNOW already, you're really not going to want to hear about service by publication...

    In terms of that, Scott.... I can see the defendant getting "lippy" with the cop. Cops don't like "lippy" people, and think they have to show 'em who's boss.

    I don't mean to imply, precious, that you WERE "lippy", or that you don't have the RIGHT to BE "lippy". You absolutely do. By the way "lippy" is a COP PHRASE. They HATE "lippy" people.

    excon

    Sometimes when I think about it, I wished that I would have at least been 'lippy;' maybe I would feel better about it. But, you are correct about the 'showing who's boss.' I believe this is what caused the officer to show his EGO flaws.

    He had to show me who was in control. He was not going to have me telling him what I was or was not going to do.

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