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  • Sep 19, 2016, 10:21 AM
    dwashbur
    The Gay Christian
    Here's my question: if you are anti-LGBT, what are your biblical justifications for it? What are the "clobber passages" that you use, and why?

    On the other side: if you're pro-equality, how do you deal with those "clobber passages"? How do you read them?

    Open season. I'd like to hear from as many viewpoints as possible.
  • Sep 19, 2016, 01:50 PM
    dontknownuthin
    Christianity is generally not "anti-gay" but teaches against extra-marital sexual relations. I am Catholic, and in order for sexual relations to be considered acceptable in my faith, the doctrine of the church teaches that such relations must be both for the purposes of bringing the two people together in unity, and must also be open to procreation (so no birth control is to be used, though avoiding sex during fertile times is permitted), and must be within the context of marriage between one man and one woman. Because the church defines marriage as being exclusively between one man and one woman, and sex is only to take place between married couples, gay couples would not qualify for marriage, and as they are not married, would be taught not to have sex. The church does not condemn people for being gay in their sexual orientation, but teaches not to have sex if one is gay. This is the same reasoning for priests having to remain chaste. They are required to remain celibate in the Roman Catholic rite, which means "unmarried", and given they are not married, they are taught that they do not meet the requirements for having sexual relations.

    So that's the teaching and reasoning of the church. It is based upon the natural law - or how things work in nature - which is that one man and one woman can create a baby naturally, and then ideally should remain together to raise that child as a family. Adoption is permitted - even encouraged and until recent years, the church offered adoption services. People may marry in the church even if they know they are infertile if they otherwise meet the church criteria for marriage. However, one has to be physically able to consummate a marriage, so impotence would be a disqualifying factor (nobody checks, but if they report they are permanently impotent, the church cannot marry the couple).

    So then we look at what people actually think of all of this. Most Catholics do not fully honor the church rules on sex. Many have premarital sex. Many gay Catholics have sex. Many people divorce and remarry (outside of the church) without getting their first marriages annulled. Nobody polices these things. There is no punishment - it's largely self-regulated. But devout Catholics honor the teachings, and most Catholics honor them to some degree. Even among the priesthood, chastity is a lot to ask and a great many are imperfect and have sexual relations whether straight or gay.

    I personally think the church teaching should not change because it remains the ideal scenario that marriage remain for the purpose of forming a traditional family. That said, I am divorced with an adopted child, so I did not myself have the ideal Catholic family structure. Nothing in my family is considered unacceptable though. My marriage was annulled, my son was baptized in the church. I can remarry if I so desire in the future even though I am both unable to have children generally and too old to do so in any event.

    Some consider Catholicism oppressive but nobody is forced to join the church, and even within the church, the priests don't monitor people or come to their homes or otherwise pay much attention to personal choices. The most they might do if they learned a person was living in a sinful manner would be to refuse to offer that person communion (the host and wine served at mass) but the person would still be welcome to attend mass and be a member of the church. I don't consider it oppressive at all given that everything is up to the free will of the individual Catholic.
  • Sep 19, 2016, 02:01 PM
    ebaines
    The bible says nothing about homosexuality as an innate part of a person's personality. Sexual orientation was not understood in biblical times - the term "homosexuality" wasn't even invented until the late 1800's, so there is no way the Bible could have addressed the topic. Yes, there are passages regarding same-sex behavior that are quite negative, but what is condemned are the acts of violence, idolatry, orgiastic behavior, and exploitation being performed, not specifically the same-gender nature of it. In a similar way there are passages where negative behavior occurs in heterosexual relationships that are just as terrible, but it would be wrong to conclude that God condemns heterosexuality because of it. There are no passages regarding homosexuals in loving, committed, and nurturing relationships. And it is also obvious that there is nothing regarding transsexuals (the "T" in "LGBT").
  • Sep 20, 2016, 07:37 AM
    dwashbur
    Thanks for the replies so far, but I'm looking for specific comments on specific passages. Anybody got some?
  • Sep 20, 2016, 10:02 AM
    Athos
    To dontknownuthin ---

    This is an excellent presentation of the position of the Catholic Church but it has nothing to do with the question.
  • Sep 20, 2016, 12:48 PM
    classyT
    Dave,

    First of all I really resent the "clobber passages" remark. In NO way do I run around clobbering or even judging people who are gay. I have my own issues, my own pet sins. I believe fornication is a sin, but I don't tap someone in a relationship having sex on the shoulder and tell them that. However the bible teaches it is wrong. I also believe the bible condemns the practice of homosexuality and there are several passages in the NT that leads me to this conclusion. Having said that, it is the goodness of God that leads a man to repent. The Lord Jesus died for ALL of us, and instead of condemning people we need to show them the Lord Jesus and his love and grace. My biggest complaint with Christianity is we teach from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil and not from the tree of life. Show people the Lord Jesus, His love, His grace, His mercy and let God be God in their lives. We are changed by beholding the glory of the Lord Jesus NOT by beholding our sin. OK? Now, I will answer your question.

    Romans 1 18- 27 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who hold the truth in unrighteousness. Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them for God hath showed it unto them. For the invisible things of him from the creation of the are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse. Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God neither were thankful but became vain in their imagination and their foolish heart was darkened. Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools. And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds and four footed beasts, and creeping things. Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, through the lust of their own hearts to dishonor their own bodes between themselves. Who changed the truth of God into a lie and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator who is blessed for ever. Amen. For this cause God gave them up unto vile affection for even their woman did change the natural use into that which is against nature. And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman burned in their lust one toward another, men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.

    I know the argument, for gay people they are doing what is natural for them. But I don't believe that is what Paul is talking about. I believe he is saying that they exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural. In other words, he isn't talking about what someone naturally desires sexually but rather how our bodies our built to function naturally. On top of that, if all who have a desire for the same sex do so "naturally" then who is Paul talking about? Is he talking to people who are not aroused by their own gender but do it anyway? And how does that work for a man? If Paul was addressing only people who violated their personal sexual orientation wouldn't he also have said women burned unnaturally toward men and vise versa?

    I know my view is unpopular and outdated. I still believe it is what the bible teaches. There are other passages as well. Having said what I believe, I wouldn't clobber anyone. 1 Timothy 1:15 Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners-of who I am the worst!
  • Sep 20, 2016, 03:04 PM
    Wondergirl
    The verses I keep tripping over on Q&A sites are these:

    Leviticus 18:22
    "Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin." (NLT)

    Leviticus 20:13
    "If a man practices homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman, both men have committed a detestable act. They must both be put to death, for they are guilty of a capital offense." (NLT)

    Plus Paul's famous word, arsensokoites.
  • Sep 20, 2016, 03:47 PM
    NeedKarma
    So must Christians take all passages from the Old Testament literally? And apply them to their lives today?
  • Sep 20, 2016, 04:21 PM
    classyT
    NeedKarma,

    All scripture is written for our learning, but no we don't. According to the NT we are no longer under the law, Jesus fulfilled it.
  • Sep 20, 2016, 04:33 PM
    NeedKarma
    Understood. So why are people using OT verses to guide them? And then pick only a few?
  • Sep 20, 2016, 09:21 PM
    dontknownuthin
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Athos View Post
    To dontknownuthin ---

    This is an excellent presentation of the position of the Catholic Church but it has nothing to do with the question.

    It actually does answer the question but answers aren't always exactly what we fished for. The Catholic church began all Chritianity and the teachings are based on doctrine. Doctrine are rules, not Bible passages but beliefs based on the Bible as a whole.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 08:44 AM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Dave,

    First of all I really resent the "clobber passages" remark.

    That's the common term for them in popular discussion these days. I didn't make it up.

    The question isn't what any of us believe, it's about what the text says, and what it means in its linguistic, historical, and cultural context. The Romans 1 passage is one of the famous ones, but I don't see anybody on the anti- side trying to break it down and understand it by those criteria. Simply quoting it out of its wider context doesn't prove anything, we have to wrestle with it and understand that this is a completely different culture, a lot of things we don't understand were SOP and accepted, they knew nothing of actual sexual orientation (as opposed to behavior) - again, this isn't me. This is what better experts than me say, and I really don't see anybody from the other side trying to engage the text in such depth. It leaves me wondering why.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 08:53 AM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    The verses I keep tripping over on Q&A sites are these:

    Leviticus 18:22
    "Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin." (NLT)

    Leviticus 20:13
    "If a man practices homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman, both men have committed a detestable act. They must both be put to death, for they are guilty of a capital offense." (NLT)

    Plus Paul's famous word, arsensokoites.

    Yes, Leviticus says the same thing about wearing mixed fabrics - cotton/polyester blend, anyone? - and eating shellfish - no way in the world am I giving up shrimp - and boiling a goat in its mother's milk (huh? ). But we're supposed to take those two passages and no others as absolute commands for today, and not the others. Nobody has explained that to me yet.

    And Paul's famous word is one of those things that the eggheads call a hapax legomenon, which means this the only place in the whole New Testament where it's found. Even worse, it's the only place in all of Greek literature where it appears. Best I have been able to find, it's a word that Paul made up himself. And we have no idea what it means. Our translations go with "homosexuals" because that's tradition. No other reason. There is no reason to translate it that way, especially since there was no such thing in Paul's time.

    It seems to be a word that Paul created specifically to address something in Corinth. He told them what he meant by it; unfortunately, he didn't tell ​us.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dontknownuthin View Post
    It actually does answer the question but answers aren't always exactly what we fished for. The Catholic church began all Chritianity and the teachings are based on doctrine. Doctrine are rules, not Bible passages but beliefs based on the Bible as a whole.

    I understand where you're coming from. The problem is that not everybody accepts the authority of Catholic Church tradition or doctrine. My goal here is to go more with the "common denominator" of the Bible that most all Christians acknowledge.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 09:05 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dwashbur View Post
    it's a word that Paul made up himself. And we have no idea what it means. Our translations go with "homosexuals" because that's tradition.

    I read somewhere that it was first translated as "homosexuals" during the 1800s. Do you know more about that, Dave?

    Also, I found this:

    "Malakoi", (as used in 1 Cor 6:9 just prior to "arsenokoites") means literally "squishy." Linguists generally understand this word to be a form of showy effeminism; it may also indicate cowardice. Malakos is used in Matthew to describe the unnecessarily fine and showy clothing of the King. Unlike "arsenokoites," malakos is word is seen in other writers of the time, indeed as an indictment of cowardice, or sometimes vanity, or other "feminine" vices; the sexual sense of effeminate is typically referred to not by this word, but "kinaidia."

    http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Arsenokoites
  • Sep 21, 2016, 09:18 AM
    Athos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dontknownuthin View Post
    It actually does answer the question but answers aren't always exactly what we fished for. The Catholic church began all Chritianity and the teachings are based on doctrine. Doctrine are rules, not Bible passages but beliefs based on the Bible as a whole.

    If I understand your reply, you are saying that your beliefs (Catholic/Christian beliefs) are based on the Bible as a whole and NOT on Bible passages. That is all well and good but that is NOT what the poster asked.

    He asked about SPECIFIC Bible passages (“clobber” passages) that are used by supporters of LGBT and by those opposed. “How do you read them”, the poster asks. He really couldn’t have been more clear.

    Yet, you chose to disregard his question and reply in a way not asked. Better not to reply at all than to reply with a non-reply.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 09:33 AM
    NeedKarma
    I found dontknownuthin's first post to be an interesting read. I have no problems with it.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 10:05 AM
    Athos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dwashbur View Post
    Best I have been able to find, it's a word that Paul made up himself. And we have no idea what it means. Our translations go with "homosexuals" because that's tradition. No other reason. There is no reason to translate it that way, especially since there was no such thing in Paul's time.

    dwashbur is being a bit disingenuous here. Certainly scholars for centuries have associated the word (a portmanteau) with homosexuality or some other form of forbidden sexual activity. It's true there is not universal agreement on what it means since Paul seems to have coined the word, but it is more than mere tradition in translation - which implies a sort of mindless copying.

    Furthermore, to say that "...there was no such thing in Paul's time" (referring to homosexuality) is misleading. Maybe the word itself is being referred to, not the activity.

    There's much more on the word and its origins at Wondergirl's link which I will link again here.

    Arsenokoites - RationalWiki

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    I found dontknownuthin's first post to be an interesting read. I have no problems with it.

    So did I. In fact, I called it an excellent presentation. Please read my previous posts in this thread.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 10:35 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Athos
    So did I. In fact, I called it an excellent presentation. Please read my previous posts in this thread.

    Well of course I read your posts :-)

    This site has so few active users that I wouldn't like to see any others run off because the discussion gets stifled. I was trying to keep things positive.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 10:57 AM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Athos View Post
    dwashbur is being a bit disingenuous here. Certainly scholars for centuries have associated the word (a portmanteau) with homosexuality or some other form of forbidden sexual activity. It's true there is not universal agreement on what it means since Paul seems to have coined the word, but it is more than mere tradition in translation - which implies a sort of mindless copying.

    Such an implication is not without precedent in the history of Bible translation. A good example in 1 Samuel 12:31. It reads, in the KJV:

    "Yet they had a file for the mattocks, and for the coulters, and for the forks, and for the axes, and to sharpen the goads."

    Ignoring the archaic terms, our interest is in the word "file." The Hebrew word is PIM. Until recently, we had no clue what this word means. In early English translations, somebody speculated "file" and it stuck. Nobody questioned it.

    Then archaeologists found a scale weight with the word inscribed on it. So now we know that it actually means "the charge was a pim to sharpen these items." Nothing at all about a file.

    Another example: Micah 6:8. "Do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with your God." Except that "humbly" is somebody's best guess. It's yet another hapax legomenon (don't you love $10 words? Use them to dazzle your friends!) that we have to try and sort out from the context. It sort of looks somewhat vaguely similar to a word that means "humble" but not really, so somebody came up with "humbly." But the Septuagint says "be prepared to walk..." a translation that seems to fit the context much better. And since those translators were much closer to the actual time than we are, it seems to me we should consider what they came up with. So, "mindless copying" isn't too far off, when we get right down to it.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Athos View Post
    Furthermore, to say that "...there was no such thing in Paul's time" (referring to homosexuality) is misleading. Maybe the word itself is being referred to, not the activity.

    What I refer to is orientation, not activity. Nobody had a clue that people are born with certain orientations. That's all. In this sense, the translation "homosexual" is anachronistic.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Athos View Post
    There's much more on the word and its origins at Wondergirl's link which I will link again here.

    Arsenokoites - RationalWiki

    Agreed. It's a useful article, and serves to show how vague our understanding of the word is. Basing a doctrine on this is, as my dad used to call it, leaning on a broken reed.


    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Athos View Post
    So did I. In fact, I called it an excellent presentation. Please read my previous posts in this thread.

    I quite agree. dontknownuthin's post about RC doctrine was very informative, well expressed, and thoroughly respectful. I had no problem with it other than, as you mentioned, it was a touch off the topic. I would really like to see them expand on it, perhaps describing how the RCC came to its conclusions and how the powers that be at the time understood the Bible on the subject.

    Thanks, all. This is fascinating.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 08:48 PM
    dontknownuthin
    Generally, over the years I have participated in AMHD, People have used some latitude to the extent that we sometimes answer a little differently than expected. As a frequent example, a woman will provide countless dates and symptoms asking how probable it is that she might be pregnant. Most of us answer with what she must do to find out if she is pregnant, and give no probability and do not attempt analysis of her symptoms, because doing so is a better Answer.

    and so with this question. The idea of "clobber passages" presumes a force, militance, and bullying pressure to toe the line which is absent from the church I was speaking of. So I presented what the actual position is. It is a better answer than to fish for some misleading alternative explanation meeting a "Clobber passage" definition.

    Any rate, I will let it go at this point.
  • Sep 21, 2016, 10:53 PM
    dwashbur
    Again, that's the common Internet term. I invite anyone to check it out. They're called that because too many Christians - especially the ultra-conservative ones - think they have the right to throw these verses in strangers' faces and call them names based on it. I've watched it happen more than once. You're correct: there's force, bullying, intimidation, and all the rest, in the name of Jesus. If it doesn't happen in your church I rejoice. I've seen it happen too much in other churches.

    Until that practice stops altogether, and because it's the commonly accepted phrase, I'll continue to use it.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dontknownuthin View Post
    Generally, over the years I have participated in AMHD, People have used some latitude to the extent that we sometimes answer a little differently than expected. As a frequent example, a woman will provide countless dates and symptoms asking how probable it is that she might be pregnant. Most of us answer with what she must do to find out if she is pregnant, and give no probability and do not attempt analysis of her symptoms, because doing so is a better Answer.

    and so with this question. The idea of "clobber passages" presumes a force, militance, and bullying pressure to toe the line which is absent from the church I was speaking of. So I presented what the actual position is. It is a better answer than to fish for some misleading alternative explanation meeting a "Clobber passage" definition.

    Any rate, I will let it go at this point.

  • Sep 23, 2016, 01:40 PM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Romans 1 18- 27 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who hold the truth in unrighteousness. Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them for God hath showed it unto them. For the invisible things of him from the creation of the are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse. Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God neither were thankful but became vain in their imagination and their foolish heart was darkened. Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools. And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds and four footed beasts, and creeping things. Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, through the lust of their own hearts to dishonor their own bodes between themselves. Who changed the truth of God into a lie and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator who is blessed for ever. Amen. For this cause God gave them up unto vile affection for even their woman did change the natural use into that which is against nature. And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman burned in their lust one toward another, men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.

    I know the argument, for gay people they are doing what is natural for them. But I don't believe that is what Paul is talking about. I believe he is saying that they exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural. In other words, he isn't talking about what someone naturally desires sexually but rather how our bodies our built to function naturally.

    Can you please explain how you came to this conclusion?
  • Sep 25, 2016, 10:03 AM
    dwashbur
    Let's try again. You indicated that you are familiar with at least two views of this passage, and you chose the one over the other. What led you to that decision? That's all I'm asking.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dwashbur View Post
    Can you please explain how you came to this conclusion?

  • Sep 26, 2016, 07:22 AM
    Athos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Dave, I know the argument, for gay people they are doing what is natural for them. But I don't believe that is what Paul is talking about. I believe he is saying that they exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural. In other words, he isn't talking about what someone naturally desires sexually but rather how our bodies our built to function naturally. On top of that, if all who have a desire for the same sex do so "naturally" then who is Paul talking about? Is he talking to people who are not aroused by their own gender but do it anyway? And how does that work for a man? If Paul was addressing only people who violated their personal sexual orientation wouldn't he also have said women burned unnaturally toward men and vise versa?

    I agree with ClassyT that the famous anti-gay passages in the Bible are just that - anti-gay. I believe that because the language seems very clear so that any ordinary reader will easily come to that conclusion.

    Having said that, let me add that I do NOT believe that the Bible is to be taken as absolute truth for present-day believers. It is quite possible - even probable - that homosexuality was condemned because any small tribe in the middle east always needed an increase in population for its survival and non-procreative sex was condemned for that reason. In the world of today, threatened by over-population, that particular reason is no longer valid.

    Paul’s warning re “natural function” is more troubling. It does seem that evolutionary biology has designed the male and female genitalia of mammals to be complementary – i.e., they “fit” physically. Unless Paul’s words need to be re-translated due to more recent knowledge of the ancient languages, it’s hard to misread the obvious import of his meaning.

    My guess is that re-examining the Bible’s teaching on homosexuality rises with homosexuality itself being re-examined in the wider society and its growing acceptance in that society beginning around 1960, give or take. If not, then there should be discussions/debates on these Bible passages prior to, say, the 18th century. Is there?
  • Sep 26, 2016, 08:04 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    ...the famous anti-gay passages in the Bible are just that - anti-gay. I believe that because the language seems very clear so that any ordinary reader will easily come to that conclusion.
    So are we to follow all passages in the Old testament or only pick the ones that we agree with?
  • Sep 26, 2016, 08:31 AM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    So are we to follow all passages in the Old testament or only pick the ones that we agree with?

    Unfortunately, that's what far too many people do. In a free country they have the right to do that; where it gets to be a problem is when they insist that their view is absolute, inviolate, ultimate Truth, and should be legislated onto everyone else. That's when they start making us all look like mindless bigots.
  • Sep 26, 2016, 08:55 AM
    Athos
    Needkarma - you are doing PRECISELY what you are complaining about. Cherry-picking without reading the context of my post. You seem to make a habit of doing this.
  • Sep 26, 2016, 09:42 AM
    NeedKarma
    I didn't think I was, I agree with what you posted. I guess quoting your post wasn't the right was to go about it. I was using it as a starting point for a larger conversation which is: if people use are basing their lifestyle choices on passages from the old testament are they conforming to ALL passages from the same books?
  • Sep 26, 2016, 11:44 AM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    I didn't think I was, I agree with what you posted. I guess quoting your post wasn't the right was to go about it. I was using it as a starting point for a larger conversation which is: if people use are basing their lifestyle choices on passages from the old testament are they conforming to ALL passages from the same books?

    I believe that qualifies as an attempted change of subject. As the one who asked the question, I would appreciate not doing this.
  • Sep 26, 2016, 01:09 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dwashbur View Post
    Let's try again. You indicated that you are familiar with at least two views of this passage, and you chose the one over the other. What led you to that decision? That's all I'm asking.

    Well I think I answered it to some degree. But think about it. The apostle Paul was a man living most of his life under the law, so he believed that homosexual behavior was wrong because like or not, the law taught it was. Now please don't misunderstand me, I know Paul was the apostle of grace and he was no longer under the law and was exceedingly against mixing it with grace. He even said that Christ becomes of no effect if one goes back to the law so I'm not suggesting he was under the law. However, I don't believe for one minute he changed his mind on sexual behavior and saw this as natural for some people. Plus as I stated in my earlier post, if Paul was addressing only people who violated their personal sexual orientation wouldn't he also have said women burned unnaturally toward men and vise versa? Moreover Paul was very clear about sex outside of marriage. If sex outside of marriage is a sin for heterosexuals, he isn't going to change the rules for homosexuals because they couldn't marry back in his day. I personally don't see any way I could come to any other conclusion.
  • Sep 27, 2016, 08:26 AM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Well I think I answered it to some degree. But think about it. The apostle Paul was a man living most of his life under the law, so he believed that homosexual behavior was wrong because like or not, the law taught it was. Now please don't misunderstand me, I know Paul was the apostle of grace and he was no longer under the law and was exceedingly against mixing it with grace. He even said that Christ becomes of no effect if one goes back to the law so I'm not suggesting he was under the law. However, I don't believe for one minute he changed his mind on sexual behavior and saw this as natural for some people. Plus as I stated in my earlier post, if Paul was addressing only people who violated their personal sexual orientation wouldn't he also have said women burned unnaturally toward men and vise versa? Moreover Paul was very clear about sex outside of marriage. If sex outside of marriage is a sin for heterosexuals, he isn't going to change the rules for homosexuals because they couldn't marry back in his day. I personally don't see any way I could come to any other conclusion.

    Thank you. This is the sort of thing I'm looking for. I would like to ask you to expand on this:

    "However, I don't believe for one minute he changed his mind on sexual behavior and saw this as natural for some people."

    Why? If the words used and the grammar etc. of the statement, as well as the cultural context, appear to indicate that this is pretty much what he did in this passage, would it not change your view? I'm not saying that's what is happening here, hence the great big IF qualifier. Basically I'm asking how you arrived at this specific conclusion.
  • Sep 28, 2016, 12:50 PM
    classyT
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by dwashbur View Post
    Thank you. This is the sort of thing I'm looking for. I would like to ask you to expand on this:

    "However, I don't believe for one minute he changed his mind on sexual behavior and saw this as natural for some people."

    Why? If the words used and the grammar etc. of the statement, as well as the cultural context, appear to indicate that this is pretty much what he did in this passage, would it not change your view? I'm not saying that's what is happening here, hence the great big IF qualifier. Basically I'm asking how you arrived at this specific conclusion.

    Because of how strongly Paul wrote about sex outside of marriage. 1 Corinthians 6:19 Flee fornication! Every other sin a person commits is OUTSIDE the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 1 Cornithians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. Galatians 5:19-21 Now the works of the flesh are evident: fornication, impurity, sensuality, idolatry,. ect.
    Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all and let he marriage bed be undefiled for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers God will judge.

    The ONLY sexual relations that Paul approved was in marriage. PERIOD. He is very clear. Homosexuals did not marry back in Paul's day. He wouldn't have ever made an exception. Sex is sex! Paul said when we have sex outside marriage we sin against our own bodies! Therefore he isn't addressing what is natural for some people, he is speaking against about homosexual behavior in the passage.
  • Sep 28, 2016, 02:29 PM
    Wondergirl
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    He is very clear. Homosexuals did not marry back in Paul's day. He wouldn't have ever made an exception.

    In Paul's day, homosexuality was a behavior (usually by straight males and often with younger males -- please read up on Greek culture), and was not known to be an orientation. Had Paul known that, I'm betting he would have approved of marriage between homosexuals who loved each other and promised fidelity. "It is better to marry than to burn [with passion]." I Cor. 7:9

    And just for fun, I'll add that Bishop John Shelby Spong made an interesting case for Paul's being gay in Rescuing The Bible From Fundamentalism.
  • Sep 28, 2016, 02:56 PM
    classyT
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    In Paul's day, homosexuality was a behavior (usually by straight males and often with younger males -- please read up on Greek culture), and was not known to be an orientation. Had Paul known that, I'm betting he would have approved of marriage between homosexuals who loved each other and promised fidelity. "It is better to marry than to burn [with passion]." I Cor. 7:9

    And just for fun, I'll add that Bishop John Shelby Spong made an interesting case for Paul's being gay in Rescuing The Bible From Fundamentalism.

    Well, I disagree... He was clear in Romans 1. Paul spoke against sex outside of marriage. He was clear. There is no way around it. Yes, I know. He could have been gay and I have heard that Jesus was too, after all John said he was the disciple whom Jesus loved. It's ridiculous.
  • Sep 28, 2016, 03:05 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Paul spoke against sex outside of marriage. He was clear. There is no way around it.

    But if gays marry, there's no sex outside of marriage.
  • Sep 28, 2016, 03:15 PM
    classyT
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    But if gays marry, there's no sex outside of marriage.


    They didn't marry in his day. Therefore Paul was speaking about homosexuality in Romans 1. I know it is not popular but it is what it is, I didn't write it.
  • Sep 28, 2016, 03:18 PM
    dwashbur
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    Because of how strongly Paul wrote about sex outside of marriage. 1 Corinthians 6:19 Flee fornication! Every other sin a person commits is OUTSIDE the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 1 Cornithians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. Galatians 5:19-21 Now the works of the flesh are evident: fornication, impurity, sensuality, idolatry,. ect.
    Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all and let he marriage bed be undefiled for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers God will judge.

    The ONLY sexual relations that Paul approved was in marriage. PERIOD. He is very clear. Homosexuals did not marry back in Paul's day. He wouldn't have ever made an exception. Sex is sex! Paul said when we have sex outside marriage we sin against our own bodies! Therefore he isn't addressing what is natural for some people, he is speaking against about homosexual behavior in the passage.

    Why do you assume that there weren't same-sex marital-type relationships in Paul's day? (Hint: there were. It was pretty common.) As WG said, read up on Greek culture. And Paul only spoke about these things in the context of the church; he never addressed his wider culture. A lot of those same-sex relationships were the equivalent of a marriage-type relationship, so by your description, that wasn't sex "outside of marriage." The rules of marriage were very different, both within Judaic culture and in the broader Greek/Roman culture. So if we're going to discuss what constituted sex "outside of marriage" in that culture, first we have to define what marriage was in that culture. It had little or no relation to what we call it today.

    Judging these things by the customs and mores of 21st century America is not a valid way of reading the Bible.

    Add to that the fact that my question was about what "nature" etc. means in that passage. I didn't see you address the terminology at all. Please do.

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    They didn't marry in his day. Therefore Paul was speaking about homosexuality in Romans 1. I know it is not popular but it is what it is, I didn't write it.

    No, if it was about sex being outside of marriage, then he was just speaking about homosexual acts outside of marriage. If we allow them to marry, then there's no problem as relates to this passage.

    And you are still misusing the word "homosexuality." There was no known thing in Paul's time, so the word is anachronistic.
  • Sep 28, 2016, 03:35 PM
    Wondergirl
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    I've heard that Jesus was [gay] too, after all John said he was the disciple whom Jesus loved. It's ridiculous.

    Why would that have been "ridiculous," a bad thing?
  • Sep 29, 2016, 12:35 PM
    classyT
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    Why would that have been "ridiculous," a bad thing?

    Because the Lord Jesus wasn't here to have those types of relationships. He was here to redeem mankind, to show the world what the Father is really like, to fulfill the law and bring in the age of grace. He was here healing all who were oppressed of the devil. He wasn't trying to find a love/sexual relationship. I feel the same way about him finding a wife, how cruel to marry knowing you are going to leave her and return to the Father. NO WAY! He was 100% man but he was also 100% God. He had a very big agenda, finding love with a partner wasn't on the radar. I also believe Romans 1 explains clearly same sex relationships are sinful in the eyes of the Lord.
  • Sep 29, 2016, 12:54 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Because the Lord Jesus wasn't here to have those types of relationships. He was here to redeem mankind, to show the world what the Father is really like, to fulfill the law and bring in the age of grace. He was here healing all who were oppressed of the devil. He wasn't trying to find a love/sexual relationship. I feel the same way about him finding a wife, how cruel to marry knowing you are going to leave her and return to the Father. NO WAY! He was 100% man but he was also 100% God. He had a very big agenda, finding love with a partner wasn't on the radar. I also believe Romans 1 explains clearly same sex relationships are sinful in the eyes of the Lord.

    Every gay guy I know is 100% male. No, Jesus wasn't here to find a romantic partner, male or female. I didn't say he was. He could have been gay and still have redeemed mankind.

    And now we're off topic....

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