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  • Jul 10, 2013, 02:41 PM
    classyT
    Have we lost true Christianity?
    I was thinking today and thought I would share my wisdom. ( that was a joke) What bothers me the most about human beings, Christians as well as non Christians is hypocrisy. Now don't get me wrong, I certainly have been guilty of it. For me it all boils down to a superior spirit or a certain amount of self righteousness. It really is kind of sickening though. Aren't we all in the same boat? If we were to ask most people ( not only Christians but everyone) it is MY personal experience many would believe they are not capable of certain acts and serious sins. Most think they are OK or even slightly better. The one thing my own father drilled into me was that my flesh was capable of Anything... the good, the bad and the exceedingly ugly. Therefore it is difficult for me to listen to people who wag their tongues and shake their heads at others. If Jesus did anything, he showed us that condemnation kills the spirit and leaves a person powerless over sin. After all, it was the Lord who gave the gift of no condemnation to the woman caught in adultery. The crowd wanted her stoned but the Lord silenced each accuser and sent them packing. If anyone could have condemned her it would have been HIM and he would not.

    I believe if we as Christians would stop with the self righteousness we could reach the lost. In fact, it is the ONE thing that sets Christianity apart from other religions. Religion is about self improvement and pleasing God with works. Christianity is about a relationship with the creator and recognizing apart from Jesus we can't do anything to please God. It is a little difficult to be self righteous when one realizes: it was, it is and it will NEVER be about us. It is all about HIM and what he has done for us.

    People don't need to be told they are wrong and sinful. They know it. They need to be loved unconditionally, not judge, not condemned. They need Jesus the epitome of GRACE. If we could get through to the world with THAT message... the world would change. But 2000 years after the Lord Jesus died we still have the same old tired message, we are still full of judgment, we are still full of self righteousness and our works. No wonder most people see Christianity as another religion, one of many paths to God. We have MISSED the boat here... Jesus is the ONLY path to God.

    So my question is : do we really believe we are ALL capable of every evil sin imaginable. OR do we think there is some GOOD in us apart from Jesus? Do we stand in judgment of other Christians or do we realize in the right circumstance we can do the same evil sin. What is Christianity to you? Is it a religion, it is about self improvement? What is Christianity?
  • Jul 10, 2013, 02:48 PM
    N0help4u
    You are100% right and you only touched the surface
  • Jul 10, 2013, 04:07 PM
    joypulv
    I was sort of agreeing until I got to 'Jesus is the only path to God.' If you go out saving the lost with that belief, I don't think you will save many. In fact it doesn't mesh very will with the whole 'let's not judge and condemn.'

    (I also don't agree with your definitions of both religion and of Christianity.)
  • Jul 10, 2013, 04:55 PM
    hauntinghelper
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    I was sort of agreeing til I got to 'Jesus is the only path to God.' If you go out saving the lost with that belief, I don't think you will save many. In fact it doesn't mesh very will with the whole 'let's not judge and condemn.'

    (I also don't agree with your definitions of both religion and of Christianity.)

    There is a reason that Christ gave the church these verses...

    Matthew 7:13
    “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it.


    Luke 13:22-25
    "Then Jesus went through the towns and villages, teaching as he made his way to Jerusalem. 23 Someone asked him, “Lord, are only a few people going to be saved?”

    He said to them, 24 “Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to. 25 Once the owner of the house gets up and closes the door, you will stand outside knocking and pleading, ‘Sir, open the door for us.’

    “But he will answer, ‘I don’t know you or where you come from.’"


    He knew that few of humanity's entirety would receive Him as Lord.
  • Jul 10, 2013, 04:59 PM
    hauntinghelper
    Good point Classy... but also remember that "good" is a relative term. When we speak of it and God speaks of it, it is really two different things. Many of us know good people... however we're told very specifically in scripture that not one of us is good.

    ... and to me Christianity is both acknowledgement and acceptance of Christ's salvation and lordship. It doesn't mean living a perfect life, because that isn't possible.
  • Jul 10, 2013, 05:46 PM
    dwashbur
    The Greek term from which we get "Christian" means "Christ-like." That's what it means for me: being like Christ. Sharing. Looking after the poor. Caring for the hurting. Trying my best to be at peace with everyone. Holding tightly to that intimate relationship with the Father. But I can only do this last one because He made it possible with His death and resurrection. Thus, He transforms me from the inside out; as that intimate relationship grows, it can't help but spill over into compassion for others, especially "the least of these."
  • Jul 10, 2013, 05:58 PM
    N0help4u
    Nowadays it seems like many Christians are following the gospel of bless me, listening to preachers that preach self empowerment. When it comes to helping the poor they leave it in the tithe basket for the Church to deal with.
  • Jul 10, 2013, 06:31 PM
    joypulv
    I like what Dave said. I was pretty quick to disagree, when it isn't about disagreeing.
  • Jul 10, 2013, 06:41 PM
    hauntinghelper
    To add to what nohelp mentioned... I don't even think we do well in the tithe basket. Money is always a touchy subject in religion... but good lord people, loosen the hold you have on your money.
  • Jul 10, 2013, 06:48 PM
    N0help4u
    True but my point was more about how Christians have more of a passive attitude of leave it to others rather than reaching out and getting involved outside of church activities. The Church does the thinking and all. Sit back and be entertained mentality
  • Jul 10, 2013, 06:49 PM
    classyT
    Joy,

    How would you define Christianity vs. religion. Because the way I believe Christianity SHOULD be defined is a relationship with the creator through Jesus Christ. I can't go along with all paths lead to God.. or even other paths lead to God when Jesus said CLEARLY otherwise. That isn't judging... that is Christianity 101. We can't do anything to get to heaven apart from believing Jesus. Religion the best I can tell is about enlightenment and self improvement. Where am I wrong? What don't you agree with?

    HH,

    Complete agreement. There is NONE good and yet the bible says many made righteous because of the Lord Jesus. I also believe we can do good works but ONLY because of Jesus. I guess my point was apart from HIM we can't be good, we can't do anything.

    Edit... I re read your post. Ok. Well good is a relative term but my point is that in our flesh there is nothing good. Oh we have good moments and actions sometimes but it isn't good enough. AND... my big pet peeve is that most people ( Christians too) don't believe it. They don't believe they could commit murder, adultery and even worse. In the right circumstance, we are all the same, we could. Do you disagree?
  • Jul 10, 2013, 07:05 PM
    classyT
    Dave,

    I totally get what you are saying but I think you are missing my thought. See, I don't think it is about us and us trying. He changes, he transforms, he lives through me, I don't have to do anything but die to self.The Christian life is all about HIM. And RIGHT believing will produce the proper behavior and right living automatically , effortless. Christianity shouldn't be about behavior modification but a transformation.

    P.S. Now if I went and gave you a big fat greenie how much fun would that be? I have to give you a little bit of a hard time. I have a point... admit it. :)
  • Jul 10, 2013, 07:05 PM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ;
    True but my point was more about how Christians have more of a passive attitude of leave it to others rather than reaching out and getting involved outside of church activities. The Church does the thinking and all. Sit back and be entertained mentality

    All too often, you're absolutely right. Thing is, when we start talking about the poor etc. we get all kinds of H&D about how the government shouldn't be doing it, that's the church's job and the government is usurping it. Question: WHY did the government start doing it? Because the church wasn't! And still isn't. And why? The gospel of self. God wants you skinny, rich and good-looking (strike one, strike two, strike three, I'm out!). Only in America.

    There is hope, though. More and more Christians, especially younger ones, are looking around themselves and saying "this isn't right. Time for a change." It may be too late for my generation, but all is not lost.
  • Jul 10, 2013, 07:06 PM
    classyT
    NOHELP,

    Yes I see your point. Where the heck have you been anyway... thought you fell off the face of the earth. Lol
  • Jul 10, 2013, 07:11 PM
    N0help4u
    I could never get logged in. Gave up, tried again and wouldn't let me in from my email, gave up and finally tried again. Glad to see you hanging in here.
  • Jul 10, 2013, 07:15 PM
    dwashbur
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ;
    And RIGHT believing will produce the proper behavior and right living automatically , effortless.

    I am so thoroughly flabbergasted that you said that, I have no idea how to respond. Well, except maybe, um, Romans 7?
  • Jul 10, 2013, 07:58 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    The Christian life is all about HIM.

    ... all about HIM and how we can show love to each other (as HE and Dave said).

    Matthew 22:37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
  • Jul 10, 2013, 08:03 PM
    classyT
    WG...

    Mathew.. was that BEFORE his death and resurrection? OH YEAH.. it was! Hey... how many times have you loved the Lord with all your heart, mind and soul... and LOVED even ol ME as yourself?
  • Jul 10, 2013, 08:04 PM
    classyT
    Dave,

    Who is going to stay in Romans 7? Do you really think PAUL did? Oh my word. no. he didn't do you need me to back it up?

    Romans 8 is there for a reason. Are You serious?? I am like blown away right now... hint hint my friend... Paul actually GREW in his faith. He GOT it. It takes awhile... but Paul actually teaches TRUE Christianity... stick with him... it gets better. ( I am officially frightened of your response.. ha ha and yet... I can't stop myself)
  • Jul 10, 2013, 09:12 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    Mathew..was that BEFORE his death and resurrection? OH YEAH..it was!! hey...how many times have you loved the Lord with all your heart, mind and soul....and LOVED even ol ME as yourself?

    So, it was before. So?

    How many times have you (or I or John Smith) obeyed all the commandments? Or even these two? That's what His death on the cross was all about.
  • Jul 11, 2013, 01:49 AM
    Zea
    “-we still have the same old tired message, we are still full of judgment, we are still full of self righteousness and our works.”
    People always judge others, before any one even approaches you, or even say a word to you. You would judge them according to their behavior. Most people do it so often that they become unaware of themselves when they do it. I think that many people find it tempting instinctively.
    Not always judging in a mean way, though. Some just form opinions about their personalities.
    I don't think that judging, if bad if good, can ever stop.

    “People don't need to be told they are wrong and sinful. They know it.”
    People like who? Age and background info matters to this subject.
    Why not? SOME people, let's say, didn't have a happy childhood. For example, they were beat, never hugged, never heard a compliment, neglected etc. Would they know what is right from wrong? I don't think that they can recognize the difference between the two behaviors without any help and direction.

    Jesus always looks to spend some time with those who are most sinful (ex: Zacchaeus) and many people complained that he should be doing the opposite. Jesus said, “I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel” He knows that some people are in need of some help.

    If we, like you said, don't need to be told what is right from wrong then how do you raise your kids? How would the child turn when he/she grows up? They would be emotionally numb (likewise to an abused or neglected child).
    You would be doing someone a favor if you let them know. Once, I helped a friend like this.

    “And RIGHT believing will produce the proper behavior and right living automatically , effortless.”
    What do you mean by “RIGHT believing”? Is it something that someone can do?
    You make it sound so easy. What about Rasputin (and many other people)? He was so near to God, but couldn't resist the temptations to drink. Also, (I can't remember if this one was just a false/undecided accusation or a fact) he was involved sexually with numerous women. And he was supposed to be a monk too. He can't be in heaven now.

    “Is it a religion, it is about self improvement?”
    Yes and yes. Why self-improvement? Because, obviously, if you follow the commandments (don't kill, steal…) you would be a better person.

    “-do we really believe we are ALL capable of every evil sin imaginable. OR do we think there is some GOOD in us apart from Jesus?”
    Yes (anger, jealousy... make things happen) and maybe, IF he is the reason why you decide to change your life. Some people with different religions can be nice too.

    “-do we stand in judgment of other Christians or do we realize in the right circumstance we can do the same evil sin.”
    None of the above; why not lend a hand instead of watching? I promise some people don't know it when they do a wrong.

    “What is Christianity to you?” Christianity is about treating others well for no reason just because everyone deserves it; we don't/shouldn't do it to be praised. We do it because God teaches us to be good hearted and loving even to those who don't treat us well or disrespect us. Jesus said, "Whoever hits you on the cheek, offer him the other also; and whoever takes away your coat, do not withhold your shirt from him either.”
    Basically, Christianity is forgiving and forgetting. That is just one person's opinion.
  • Jul 11, 2013, 05:25 AM
    joypulv
    Maybe Dave can explain what always bothers me so much about Christian zeal as opposed to Christian living. It somehow ends up being a contradiction unto itself in it's desire to change the people it claims it isn't judging.

    ClassyT, how is your son's young Muslim friend in jail?
  • Jul 11, 2013, 05:45 AM
    classyT
    SO! Oh my did you just say SO!

    When you get past the gospels, Paul actually reveals to us that the commandments are the ministry of death. Take that in... that is shocking. He also lets us know that it was giving to make sin abound MORE. Take THAT in it is MORE shocking.

    While the law is good and perfect it had no power to make man that way. I submit to you if we preached true Grace, Jesus Christ in our pulpits and stayed away from self and what WE need to do, we wouldn't have that same ol tired message. We wouldn't have a sin problem in our lives. Right believing produces right living. Grace is above sin and the law. Problem is... we preach Grace but we just throw the law in lest someone gets the idea that sin will increase. But that is not so. THE LAW was giving for that purpose.. not Grace.

    Religion of all sorts can make people "good". We have had atheists come into the threads proclaiming they are good and decent people and do not need Christ. That in my opinion is because the same ol tired message is being preached. If we really understood GRACE... we could have a revival ( for lack of a better word) this world has never seen before. What Christ offers is complete forgiveness, utter peace, a way to the Father and a life of blessings, and best of all a person transformed effortlessly without trying. He gives us REST in a fitful world. Who doesn't want peace, rest, love, total acceptance without performing? Sigh.. maybe just me. I don't know. One more time... RIGHT BELIEVING produces RIGHT living effortlessly.
  • Jul 11, 2013, 05:46 AM
    classyT
    Zea,

    I do have a response to you... must take my son to the ortho. I know you can barely contain yourself for my thoughts. Lol...
  • Jul 11, 2013, 06:10 AM
    classyT
    One last thought before I go to appt. There are two accounts in the bible close together. The story of zaccheaus and the rich young ruler. You know I always felt like the young ruler got a bad rap. All he was trying to do was be RIGHT in and of himself. And what does Jesus say... go sell all of your money and stuff. OUCH. It hurts me thinking of it. Then you look at the tax collector ( your basic grease ball) he is so interested in JESUS he climes a tree to hear him. He wants to know what this man is all about. You know the story... Jesus calls him down, goes to his house and before the man knows what hits him he is out giving people back money he stole. WHAT is the difference between these two? SELF.

    The young ruler came throwing up how he kept the law and was all THAT. Zachy boy knew he was scum and needed to hear Jesus.

    If that rich young ruler had sold everything and given them to the poor... do you really think that would have been enough... or do you suppose Jesus was trying to get him to see he couldn't do enough. It wasn't about HIS righteousness at all. It was coming to the end of himself, knowing he wasn't good and needed Jesus.

    Those are my thoughts because WOW the difference in what the Lord says and does with these to men are night and day. It begs the question WHY!! Am I wrong?
  • Jul 11, 2013, 06:56 AM
    Wondergirl
    The Ten Commandments in the OT = Law
    Jesus' Two Greatest Commandments = Grace in action

    As Christians, we are blessed to be a blessing.
  • Jul 11, 2013, 07:56 AM
    classyT
    WG,
    What does that even mean?? What is Grace in action... and how does it flesh out in day to day life? I haven't got a clue of how to love the Lord with all my heart and soul, let alone love my neighbor as myself!! I don't know how. Do you? Oh I know how to be nice on occasion but that isn't the same. I know how to worship and sing to the Lord and TRY real hard to be good... but that isn't the same.

    Here is the deal
    Jesus fulfilled the law... and he also taught the law in it's perfection. An example of this would be the sermon on the mount. WHO could live the sermon on the mount? Not me. That is one of the reasons you find Jesus coming down from that mount. Only he could live there and we needed him. Example: a leper ( breaking all kinds of laws, had no business being there... was there waiting for him)! It is no accident this happened right after the Lord's sermon. That dear leper shouldn't have there and around people. BUT... he understood JESUS was able to heal him. Now after that sermon one would think Jesus would let him know he broke all kinds of laws and sent him packing. But he didn't. He healed the man, THAT is grace. AND if the man had been a thief he would have done the same thing. People who hung out with Jesus CHANGED effortlessly.

    I am NOT suggesting what Jesus said about the greatest commandments is wrong. I am saying point blank and very clearly it is IMPOSSIBLE for man to do. See Grace doesn't add to the law. Grace comes in and enables a person to live above it. This can only happen when we have a relationship with Jesus and we are taught about him.

    My struggle right now is finding a church that will preach Jesus and his Grace. Instead I have been bombarded with what I need to do to get right... what GOD expects of me, of how to become less wordly. HELLO! We are missing the POINT. It is all about Jesus. And when we know we are not condemned, when we know he is for us, when we are shown his great love and mercy and awesomeness... we are transformed. That is my story and I am sticking to it. Anything less, is just self righteous acts and works... and God says ALL of that is like a filthy stinkin rag.
  • Jul 11, 2013, 08:07 AM
    classyT
    Joy,

    I was so busy in my rants I didn't see your question. LOL

    Oh dear it isn't good. That kid got the book thrown at him. I was a character witness but I didn't really help. What he did was wrong. They robbed a local drug dealer and figured he was a drug dealer so he probably wouldn't call the cops.

    They couldn't prove a gun but he was convicted for armed robbery, AND kidnapping. KIDNAPPING! Blows me away. WHO feels safe leaving if they think there is a gun and most armed robbers don't get kidnapping added! Anyway he got 7 years. I write him. I wish I could help him other than sending him a few bucks to put in his jail account. I have such a heart for this young man. So young to have messed up his life. SEE! He needs GRACE... sigh. Thanks for asking
  • Jul 11, 2013, 09:35 AM
    Zea
    “-am I wrong?” No one can tell you that; unless you want me to introduce you to me thoughts.

    “If that rich young ruler had sold everything and given them to the poor... do you really think that would have been enough... or do you suppose Jesus was trying to get him to see he couldn't do enough. It wasn't about HIS righteousness at all. It was coming to the end of himself, knowing he wasn't good and needed Jesus.”

    You could be right. But there is another reason. Satan will crash you! He will make your worst nightmare come true, he will try you, to see if you would or not lose your faith. For instance, JFK's father lost his faith when his son died.
    God will test your faith; everyone's; like he tested Job. Satan took his wealth, children, plagued him and left him with nothing. He still loved God with all his heart.
    It's not about being able to sell your most valued materials. It's about being obedient to God, and being able to stay faithful to him no matter what the circumstances are (or requirements). And not blame him for someone's death, or whatever the situation, like JFK's father did.

    “People who hung out with Jesus CHANGED effortlessly.” Sometimes, what about Judas Iscariot? We are given the freedom to choose like Adam and Eve were. (And they failed miserably).
    It doesn't happen effortlessly.

    “-when we are shown his great love and mercy and awesomeness... we are transformed.”
    You are not shown anything. Admit it! Oil spills, wars, crimes…what good is there on earth to make someone believe? It's a choice you make to either believe or not.
    Some don't believe until they see. This is a problem.

    You're too optimistic; I'm painted with two colors, black and white.
  • Jul 11, 2013, 03:24 PM
    classyT
    Zea,



    Fair enough on the Judas comment. I should have said people of FAITH who hang with Jesus are transformed. The choice to believe is always ours. If we believe in the finished work of the cross and we begin to understand grace... I do believe it is an effortless transformation. Unfortunately most of us are not transformed effortlessly because we don't understand it. We count up all the things we do that are right and good and we try to improve the areas we lack. That has been the Christian life and walk for 2000 years. I think it sucks!!

    I disagree about the Satan comment. Remember: Right believing produces right living. We need to believe right about satan and his true position. Satan is a fallen foe this side of the cross. He can't touch the believer... the best he can do is throw the law at him, and condemn the believer and the rest is history. It has worked for years and years. The law and condemnation is his ONLY ammunition since the Lord rose from the dead. It is all he has. The minute a Christian really gets the Grace message Satan is out of business. That is why I think RADICAL Grace is under attack. Most Christians think if they teach what Paul taught.. where sin abounds, grace super abounds this will cause more sin. NOTHING could be more wrong. Jesus gave the woman caught in adultery the gift of no condemnation and THEN he said " go and sin no more. The good news is we really are free! God LOVES us... Jesus paid for every sin I did commit and all the ones I will commit. That doesn't bring about more sin, it brings about devotion to his awesome love. I believe there will be a revival. A new generation who actually believes and knows to their very core they are made righteous just by believing. There is such POWER in it.

    Of course we are shown his love and
    mercy. Pick up the bible and read from Genesis to revelation the greatest love story ever written. God redeeming man by sending his only son to pay for us so he can have relationship with us. That seems like an understatement. What Jesus did is overwhelming when you study it.
    The bible says clearly it is the goodness of God that leads man to repent. If you want to know the Father's heart, simply read the story of the prodigal son. Most people are more interested in the brothers... but the Father is the real story. So I must disagree with you on that point. Of course there are natural disasters and horrible accidents. But I believe the Lord is above all of that. Until Jesus comes back the world is fallen and will continue to behave that way. But my God is able to keep me and protect me.

    I am NOT that opitimistic. I simply have a good opinion of God. I believe the best about him. It is a personal relationship... If God is for me, WHO, WHAT shall me against me. We Christians have really struggled in this area. We do NOT believe the best about our Father.

    Hey, I am not saying I have gotten it all myself. But I am learning. There is pain in this world but you know what? Jesus himself said to pray we are not led into temptations and that we would be delivered from evil. I think many things we go through are not what we HAVE to go through. We have simply not prayed. We are told we would have trouble in this life but our hope is that Jesus is above the trouble, he has overcome the world and he will see us through.

    A positive expectation of GOOD... that is what I have. :)

    sorry if I keep repeating myself. I struggle with this site it kicks me off as soon as I try to post, so I have to rewrite it and I get repetitive.
  • Jul 11, 2013, 05:17 PM
    Zea
    "A positive expectation of GOOD...that is what I have." LoL. So, in other words, you are defining yourself as optimistic. Hey, no worries! I can be like that sometimes too.

    Sorry, I don't agree much, but I will stop here. I don't want to quote you again. I know you must hate it.

    Let me just say this: Satan can too touch the believer.

    Do you remember the night before Jesus was taken to be crucified? Jesus was praying and crying fearfully. Who is fear when God is the light?

    Or the time he didn't eat or drink for 40 days and 40 nights. There was Jesus and there was the devil also looming around. I'm talking about the conversations and challenges they were having.

    What about Mother Teresa? Was she not considered faithful? And yet again, while she was helping many people she got infected by diseases, but she still never stopped helping others.

    Everything good that happens to someone is because of God. Satan is responsible for every bad thing. He is rage, jealousy, fear, etc. and God is none of that.
    Adam and Eve who lived in paradise were touched! So why would you think someone on earth can't be?

    This is the thing that distinguishes believers from others. They are both, Jesus and Mother Teresa, mentally firm. God will help them, but only when they fight their own battles. It's a choice; NO one will help you IF you first don't want to help yourself.
  • Jul 13, 2013, 06:54 PM
    classyT
    Zea,

    I have tried to post so many replies but I always get the boot before I can send it. UGH... drives me nuts

    I have many things to address but the main thing is I really think you are wrong when it comes to the Lord Jesus and fear.

    He couldn't have been fearful in the garden before his death. And I can recall a time in my life when I read the account and came to that conclusion. But after reading and studying fear I know this was impossible.

    What he was going through was serious duress. He knew what he was going to have to face and I don't believe it had anything to do with the physical pain. He understood he would become sin and that the Father would turn from him. I say that and still have no clue what it actually means.

    The bible defines fear as a spirit. And we are told perfect love casts out all fear. Well Jesus is God and therefore perfect love. Jesus himself told us not to fear and in fact fear is lack of trust in God. So NO WAY satan got to Jesus with fear...
  • Jul 14, 2013, 09:57 PM
    Zea
    Pressure…? Yeah well, this subject is debatable.

    If it was pressure, than someone who is under pressure would get to a breaking point where he/she just can't absorb anything more. The person, who is under pressure to make a quick decision, after getting shocked by reality, would want to eliminate himself/herself from the whole situation. Did Jesus ask God to release him from this heavy responsibility? Jesus said, “-my Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will”. You could be right.

    Do you think that Jesus was afraid? I wouldn't believe it in a billion years! I think he was afraid to let his Father down. He wasn't afraid because he was going to be humiliated, tortured and left to die slowly. What do you think?

    Or, was he afraid? Jesus also said to his disciples, “-the spirit is willing, but the body is weak.” He said this before he was crucified. Do you think he was talking about himself as well as them? Maybe…

    …Or…

    But what would leave Jesus feeling so intense? “And being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground.” Did Jesus really sweat blood? It's a real medical condition.

    I just confused myself!
  • Jul 15, 2013, 02:28 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    If one just reads Paul's writings, to the Churches in the years after Jesus death, you will find we are exactly like the Church then, just bigger, there were churches, that had issues with false teachings, churches that were fighting among self, churches and so on,

    There are always been and always will be issues, That is the point, you are allowing someone else to be in your way of your personal relationship. What and how others do, should not be your concern.

    In fact the bible tells us that non beleivers will be right in with the believers in the church,

    So it is this way, today, because this is the way it has always been
  • Jul 15, 2013, 11:40 AM
    jakester
    Hey classyT - I'm not sure if we are any different in our time and age from generations past in that we are having to confront the issues and questions of life afresh. Not that the issues and questions themselves are different, it's just that all of us are living life for the first time and we are learning about these things for ourselves.

    Pride, arrogance, and self-reliance are all characteristics that describe every generation of Americans since the end of the 2nd World War. These characteristics seem to be growing in their intensity but maybe we aren't all that different from generations gone by... but for many, they can point to the growth of these things and say "times, they are a changin'".

    The essence of Christianity has always been something that each generation of people since Christ's ascension has had to come to terms with. Who is God? What is he like? What is important to him? Trying to understand these things perfectly seems to take an entire lifetime... if we ever really get there. I do believe that at the foundation of a genuine believer in Christ, ought to exist a desire to more Christ-like. A desire to be more virtuous and good. And a humility that binds these things all together. In my opinion, humility is the glue that holds a person's desire for goodness and justice together with his recognition that he truly lacks complete goodness. We do good and we do evil. At best, we are ambivalent creatures... we are people who champion good and yet dive headlong into evil of all sorts. Many people do not recognize the evil that lies beneath their own hearts but those who are wise recognize it. An author of a great article I read once said this (I do not know his real name, only his blogname (Quintus Curtius):

    "Civilization is a veneer, a mask attached to the face of the trousered ape which is man; and when the mask falls off, the beast behind it is revealed in all his brutishness."

    Christianity shines more than any religion in that it unabashedly highlights the absurdities and outlandish behavior of its adherents. David, a man after God's own heart, is laid bare and is an example of both a great man of God and shameful and despicable person, depending on your frame of reference. But God evaluates a person as a whole, not entirely upon one bad act.

    Christianity, unlike other religions, does not try to hide the fact that man is evil... it makes that point painfully clear for all to see. And Jesus' crucifixion is a visible reminder of what God thinks of human evil.

    I think that many things could be said about what Christianity really is. I'll put in my two cents. To me it is about the Creator of all reality who is telling a story through the lives of his creatures, with Jesus being the main character. It is a story of man's rebellion and God's redemption. And it is ultimately a story that has a glorious ending with the characters celebrating the author of that story.

    But I suppose it could take an book just to talk about what Christianity really is.
  • Jul 15, 2013, 11:44 AM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by jakester View Post
    But I suppose it could take an book just to talk about what Christianity really is.

    Or it could be said in one compound sentence: Love God and, because of His love for you, love each other
  • Jul 15, 2013, 02:39 PM
    Zea
    "I have tried to post so many replies but I always get the boot before I can send it."

    OK, I THINK that after you log in, go to the "Answer" key on the top of the page, click it, then click "Find today's questions", after that return here, type your response, and submit, and let's see if this can work.
  • Jul 16, 2013, 08:09 AM
    JudyKayTee
    "I have tried to post so many replies but I always get the boot before I can send it. UGH....drives me nuts"


    ClassyT, I kept getting booted off on Saturday - I think maybe the site is being renovated (again)... or something.

    Would type out my whole reply, hit "submit answer" and... nothing. Go back to the question, there it was - without my answer.

    I know, frustrating - and your answers are always well thought out. To have to write a second time - ugh!

    A Moderator once told me to write the long ones off site and then cut and paste them - a thought.
  • Jul 21, 2013, 01:37 PM
    hauntinghelper
    MY point, is that everybody wants to point out problems in the church and what "Jesus would have really done". MY point was that no, we haven't lost true Christianity anymore than the first church had. There will always be those within the church that have a self righteous attitude, and those who live one way and differently on Sunday. As was back then, there will always be those who twist scriptures for their own gain, or completely miss the point of the scriptures altogether. But real Christianity still remains.

    Real Christianity is found in the little old lady who was robbed in the parking lot of a Walmart and not only led him to a relationship with Christ but GAVE him her money in His name. Real Christianity is the person who, by faith, leads an individual in prayer in a doctors office where within days the person is found to now be cancer free. Real Christianity is putting a leper in the front row of your third world country church and preaching acceptance and healing to them even though everyone else is afraid to. Real Christianity is found in the simply acts of obedience and love that Christ calls for us to do in His name. Not one of us is perfect in the church... but we do have perfection IN us through Christ.
  • Jul 23, 2013, 05:32 PM
    classyT
    Haunting,

    Loved your post and you are right. I guess I just so want there to be more real Christianity because people are watching. They want to see something different and real. I have been guilty myself of being self righteous.. so I'm not judging. Thanks for your response.

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